hello, i know its a bit weird place to write it (its a giveaway site forum) but I dont have anywhere else to.
I'm having a problem, I always think if I'll have a spouse in the future and when? Cuz how can i find a girl after i've finished school?
I saw in here that there are people who are older than me and maybe you can help me (Im only 15). how do i forget this because im too young or what else can I do?
Thanks a lot

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Yes, you are too young to think about that now.

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Support answering all the questions.

9 years ago
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There should be a special person in the support team who would answer existential and philosophical questions.

9 years ago
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Really? I have a really nasty dandruff problem, Bobo. Do you have any preferably home recipes on what to mix to get rid of those--too broke to go to a doctor?

9 years ago
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Wash your head everyday with anti-dandruff shampoo. Should be gone within 2 weeks or so.

9 years ago
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So I just got roughly 1000$ -don't ask how- and I want to invest the money. Any suggestions?

9 years ago
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GeForce 970 SLI + Core i7-4790

9 years ago
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Stocks and bondage.

9 years ago
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Sounds like you've been playing too much Sub Rosa.
Also, you can "invest" in my "Get Master2ii2 Arma3 Fund".
Wait, that's not investing. Oh well, I tried.

9 years ago
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dont date.

9 years ago
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well... as someone with 22 and who never had a girlfriend... or had sex... or kiss another human... i'm not the one to give you advise...
but yes, you are too young. for like, everything. or go and marry, out there must be some state that allowed a 15 years old human to marry, you are probably going to regret it in a few months, buy hey you could even be happy, who knows!

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In the western world, 15 is probably too young to need to think about that.

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Yes, you are too young to think about it.
Although it's quite normal. People tend to think. And over-think too. Unless you're in danger. Then people focus on surviving.
So... congratulations! It's not like there's a hungry tiger running after you.
And back to your love life... (or absence of it, by the time being) I am going to say my two bits about it.
Relax, you don't have to make NOW plans for the rest of your life. After all, you're just 15. How long do you want to live? Up to your 40s? 50s? 80s? And aren't you still learning things? Like in school? Is it the moment when you're best prepared to make your long-term life decisions?
My advice?
Keep going with your life. Study, fun, girlfriends... At some point you'll have a girlfriend that means a lot to you. Then you'll be thinking about marrying HER. (not just MARRYING, like wanting to marry without having someone in your life) And truth be told, maybe you'll marry her, maybe not. Maybe you'll keep going with your life after your "great love" and guess what? Probably you'll fall in love again sometime later.
So don't worry. You're too young to think about marrying. But it's completely normal to think about it. Welcome to the paradoxical human race. XD

9 years ago
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Lol xD
How can I find a girlfriend after school or academy?

9 years ago
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Where I live, they don't send people to isolation chambers after school.

9 years ago
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Lucky!

9 years ago
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LOL

9 years ago
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They still castrate you though, right?

9 years ago
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Just a couple of kicks in the balls during graduation.

9 years ago
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I believe the term you are looking for is Rochambeau... and they only do that if you masturbated during school/academy. They know, and you know they know because they are always watching.

P.S. I'm having a sale on tinfoil hats. Any takers?

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My take on the matter: You don't look (as in search) for a girlfriend. Why? Can you imagine a girl you haven't ever seen before coming to you and asking if you want to be her boyfriend? Creepy, right?
A girlfriend/boyfriend isn't something you look for. It's something you find. Instead of actively looking for a girlfriend, just... live. Get to know people, when you find her interesting, ask for a date. After all, (in my opinion) you don't want to have a relationship with someone you don't know. So, first you meet a girl, you get to know her, AFTER that comes the "I want to make her my girlfriend".
And where can you find them? Well, people (boys and girls) are everywhere. Everywhere BUT in your home. So go out. You like parties? Go to parties. You like having a day at the park? Go to the park. You like beaches? Go to the beach.

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No, not you're not to young to think about your future. So many people don't think at all and then suddenly end up being 40 with no spouse or kids wondering what the hell they did with their life. And then panic and marry the first moneydigger that comes around :D

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I agree that you are not too young... I suppose basically, because you are thinking about it.

It seems illogical to be in a panic about it, but I am not walking in your shoes and refuse to determine what thoughts, aspirations, and even fears are manageable for your.

That being said kid, if you DO feel uncomfortable about it seek help (other than online... and I stress that point). If it is really troubling you then find someone you can talk to about it... be it a friend, a family member, a psychologist if possible, etc. I honestly do not think there is anything wrong with contemplating your future in any aspect. However, if the thoughts are a concern for you then speaking with someone may help you rationalize the thoughts more objectively, and hopefully make them less troublesome.

Good luck... and seriously, don't ask on the internet... there are people out there (most of them actually) that really want to offer nothing but help... but there are also those that will find a way to manipulate your situation either for their own amusement or worse.

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I was 19 before I met my wife, Proposed on my 21st birthday at my party/ Now we've been together for nearly 9 years, married for 5 and just had a beautiful daughter (2 weeks ago). I definitely didn't think about it at all when I was 15, I tell you that much.

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May i ask how did u meet her?

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We both went to a party with different people (Neither of us were actually "with" the person we went with. just friends) and talked all night. The birthday was for a female work mate of mine who actually knew her by pure coincidence), so she asked my work mate the next day if she could get my number as she was interested in joining my band. But, lol, I had no band, I was a Chef, but she didn't want to let her know just yet that she was interested. Funnily my work mate said I was a damn good "player" for convincing her I was in a band to get her number..but i never said anything about a band LOL.

I replied to her message but never got a response, turned out she had run out of phone credit. Saw her a month later out in town and she was over the moon to see me and rest is history. Im 28 now (My wife is 20 in a months time), and my wife is an absolute stunner, Trust me when I was 15 I had no idea I'd be so lucky, heads turned at my 10 year high school reunion, that's for bloody sure. Another thing to consider is how much you will change.

At 15 I was 20kg's heavier and none of that was muscle, Wore glasses, barely had any friends, hate school. Now Im happily married, own my own home, have a beautiful daughter, Im the Sous Chef of A Million Dollar Bistro chain, together we have great friends and I still get to game like crazy hahahaha:)

So take it easy, and enjoy, and life doesn't end after school. IT BEGINS!

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So you were 19 and she was 11 when you met.... That's f***ed up

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Yea, what the hell? And he proposed when she was 13.

9 years ago
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Some people forget to do the math when making up stories.

I really hope that's the case here because the alternative is seriously bad.

9 years ago
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So, you're 28 and your wife is 19 (almost 20)... the wife you met at a "party" 9 years ago. When you were 19... and she was ten?

The wife you proposed to when you were 21... and she was 12?

Looks like a post right out of r/thatHappened.

9 years ago
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What this dude said. You won't be looking for a wife (unless you're weird like that), you'll be looking for a girlfriend, and if you two fall in love, ask her to marry you.

Oh btw, stop watching how I met your mother.

9 years ago
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never watched it.
well things will happen in the future
I hope it wont disturb me anymore for now

9 years ago
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So two years since you proposed her?

9 years ago
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1.5 years in front of 80 people, I had faith she wouldn't say no hahaahha

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80 people on your 21yo party?, wow you're pretty popular :)
Oh, I see you work for a poker company Gamess 888

9 years ago
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Congratulations! (For your daughter's birth.)

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Well, you can plan things. But knowing that they never happen as planned makes it a lot easier. While it's good to have some objectives, to drive you, it's better to not overthink it.
Like Capile2 said, don't worry. You can, and will, think about it a lot, that's ok, if you don't let it stop you from living your life.
And I don't know how much school time you still have, but you can find someone REALLY, I mean, REALLY fast. Like, REALLY fast. Without even thinking that much. And if you don't find in school, you'll find later. Lots of people do it, why can't you? Just don't go after someone just because school is almost over, if it's not natural, it's bad. Real bad.

9 years ago
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That's like asking "IS IT BAD IF I MASTURBATED TO ECCHI HENTAI ON 4CHAN?"

9 years ago
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Yes its very bad, who normal use 4chan

9 years ago
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yea you are too young, I had my 1st girlfriend when i was 18 so its too early to think about spouse, start to panic when you are close to 30

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OMG!!!
I'm getting close to 40!!!! XD
And I'm still single!!!
I do have a girlfriend (there is actually no age limit to date, so no panic at all), btw.

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it was an example xD

9 years ago
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panicking is never an option, a bad exemple at that!

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I got it, don't worry.
That's why I started joking around. ;)

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Yes, you are too young. Unless you are on board of a ship/plane that is going to crash right now. Then it's time to shout "is there a chaplain?!" tip: both aircraft/marine captain can do the job but maybe they will be quite kept busy - you know - trying not to kill everyone in their service. Grab first single female(if preferred) at least remotely close to your age and marry her.

Easy.

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You are never too young to think about your future. You are too young to get worried about it though. High school relationships don't last very often. Most people at that age aren't that serious about relationships and are too young to settle down. You will meet many more people in your life. At college, work, going out, other social events even internet.
Dreaming of a nice future with a nice spouse is never wrong ofcourse. I think most people want that in the end. Being insecure at that age is quite common. But you really aren't in a hurry.

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Haha, thanks bro

9 years ago
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"I saw in here that there are people who are older than me"
Yes you would hope so,

Also yes to the other question,

9 years ago
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Masturbation is the right answer!

9 years ago
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That is the smartest thing I have heard anyone say about anything... ever.
Couldn't resist, what with the Peter Griffin avatar and all!

9 years ago
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So... FAP > FAQ

9 years ago
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"How can I find a girl after I've finished school?"
University, work, internet, mutual friends, etc.

Don't overthink it and try to let it happen naturally. As they say, love is like a fart. If you force it, it's probably going to be shit.

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:DD you made my day with that

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i loughed hard.

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There's no "real" age limit to think or fantasize about things themselves.
Getting married in particular is one of those things that "eventually happens if it feels right", so no need to actively "worry" about it.
Just go on with your life, focus on things you like doing, pursue your interests and develop yourself as a person. :)

9 years ago
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Google for

  • Mötley Crüe - Too Young To Fall In Love

There you will find enlightment.

9 years ago
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Sorry, you missed your chance

9 years ago
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15-16 is when most of the 1st world countries allow marriage to occur. But in general it can be easier to wait until you are 18, as many require parental consent before then.

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at 15 years? nah

9 years ago
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Here's the crazy thing: You can think about whatever you want, whenever you like. School is only one of socializing chances; there's work, neighborhood, friends in common, hobbies, activities...

9 years ago
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Live for today and tomorrow will come naturally.

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Yep, too young.

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You can always move to some shitty country with lots of sand where you can just marry a 9y old girl. Because religion.
If that ain't your cup tea, you can still try a mail-order bride.

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Are you too young? Yes. Is it normal to think about this? Of course it is! Just let life take the wheel, things will happen when it happens. No need to worry about that now :)

9 years ago
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Dont get married dude.

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