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my friend kinda left me without any reason, I was supporting her and tried to help when she had some problems, I just felt like a trash because of that, I know her for years

also my best friend who I know from my early days left me and betrayed me, we were like brothers but he also threated me like a shit

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Pretty much this.

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Damn, hit me right on the spot.
Same as you, except my best female friend left me. As much as I miss her, and want to talk with her, I'd just end up as a fool once again.

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"also my best friend who I know from my early days left me and betrayed me, we were like brothers but he also threated me like a shit"

I did this to someone 2 weeks ago, man it feels great! Except no threats. Got tired of fake people, constantly lieing about things, talking in the back of people i know, calling whores to about any girl you see on the streets and you say something like "Damnnnnnnn girl!!" Me being single and him being in a relation with an ugly as F girl that acts like a 40 year old lady. I just had to stay away from him, staying around with him is like getting myself dragged along the retarded path he chose, the one about being forever alone with his ugly as F girl with no friends to talk with.

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Had a "friend" do this with my Gamecube when i was younger. My sister also lent her friend my Super Nintendo and all my games a few years ago that i got for Christmas when i was little and her friend ran off with it.

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kill him with withcraft

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I bought my friend a game for christmas and a few weeks later I went to gamestop and they showed me the little "to and from" tag that had been on his gift and asked me if it looked familiar. And I asked them how they got it and they said it was stuck in the game case of the game that my friend had traded in.

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Remember "The Three Musketeers"? The purpose of gifts is to convert them in money when need arises.

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Maybe next time just give them a gift card to use in the store? Your taste of games probably isn't the same as your friends. I would do the same without thinking twice, if i was given a game i didn't like.

I usually make sure to buy something my friend enjoys, if i'm in doubt i ask indirectly.

I bought gta 4 once to a friend of mine for ps3, i never seen him play the thing. He said he beat the campaign, not sure how much he played online. But shortly after he bought GTA 5 and it was the only game he had back then. So that pretty much means he traded or sold the game to someone. This doesn't annoy me in anyway, even though it was a gift.

If he destroyed my gift, i would be pissed, yes. But once it's on his/her hands, it's up to them to decide what to do with it. No need to get butthurt.

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It was a game he wanted. He expressed interest in borrowing mine, so when he did I thought I would do something nice for him. I never said I was butthurt lol. Kind of sounds like you're projecting. I still laugh about it with him and we're still friends of course.

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"ty" in giveaway comments.

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Really...? This is the most ungrateful thing someone has ever done to you?

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In a certain giveaway group that is HERESY!

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ty

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Salt in the wounds lol.

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I put "tnx" because my internet sucks and occasionally cuts off by itself. yes, I have capped internet.

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Got scammed by a fake friend.

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how bad of a scam?

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A friend of mine gave me a game that I gave it to him as a present.

It happened something worse than that, but I can't really thing of anything else. Most of my negative experiences I tend to forget.

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^Been there too. It's tough, but I try to be like Ruaben and forget and move on from the negative things.

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That makeup men is a philosopher, and a good one. I've been in a situation like that with a friend, we knew each other from kids and after almost 10 years o frienship he dump me without no reason, a that last part was the most painfull.

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I don't remember Tim Curry ever saying that

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I know it's been more than a week, but i just noticed you wrote Tom instead of Tim and i don't know how to deal with it now

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Been through this, though our friendship ended with no words, we just stopped contacting each other. She followed a dark path (one that involves relationships with married men with young kids to take care of), and i was just an early teen when she did that, 3 years younger than her. She was crazy hot, one of the best chicks in this zone, back in the days. Everyone wanted a piece of her, which hardly worked out. Guess i got lucky, i was her neighboor and the only person who spent some time with her doing things kids do.

I was around 13-14 and she was 16-17 when it happened, i nearly had one of those special moments with her, the moment i start doing my thing, her middle brother decides to come in to the room and started trolling us...

Probably some of the best moments of my life were spent with her, i too followed a dark path eventually and stopped giving trust to new people, the end result is usually sh!t either way.

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A friend asked me for a 20 euros game, I know him for years and years, so I gave him the game, and he never played him, the game is just on his library with 0.0 hours on it, and he was much more rude to me than I was expecting him to be :/ it was not that bad but he could have been more frendly

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So, you buy €20 games for your friends like nothing? Wow... YOU ARE INSANE, but... Do you wanna be my friend? (kidding, but he is a shitty friend if he doesn't even appreciate it).

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Poor riscas ):

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Was buying a game on steam and saw it was on a friends wishlist, so got a copy for him and I to play together but he hasn't played it since, wasn't that big of a deal because he did say thanks but I thought he would at least play it or even play another game with me...

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I used to give Dota items that i didn't need and beta keys for a friend of mine, and one day when the RO2 was free on steam (that bastard has a lot of steam accounts) he dropped a lot of trading cards and i asked him to give me some to complete one more badge, and guess what? he didn't even said "no", he just said "i can't :("

...so i deleted and blocked him, fuck off.

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"I cant..." Yeah I know such people... Just fucking greed personified.

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Ungrateful things other did to me... Lets see... My friend died, I was so pissed off at him I didn't go to his funeral(for which I'm ashamed to this day... I was 16, don't hate me). Now... a real ungrateful son of a bitch of a friend turned out to be... well, what I just said. Not a friend at all. And finally, third (former)friend borrowed my Hitman: Blood Money - first release, drm free, did cost me a lot back then as I didn't have a job(hell... deja vu, now I'm a hobo again :/). And of course never returned it. First claiming he "has it somewhere, I'll bring it to you next time." After some time he stopped talking to me, and when I tried to call him he didn't even pick up. 21 years old guy(back then). I still don't believe how a grown man could do such thing.

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I had my brother living with his 2nd wife in my appartment for around year and half , when they left appartment i found it completely ruined . Also electricity and other bills were over 1000 euros which they didn't pay , their excuse was those were old bills ...

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Ex took advantage of SWIM when SWIM was passed out in a k-hole.

Just COULDN'T wait until SWIM was conscious to enjoy it!

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On a funny note(because I can't remember anything remarkable) - no former elementary schoolmate(friends I guess) ever contacted me(I had almost all of them on icq/facebook/phone) but one girl. After 4 years out of school she texted me "hey I was just wondering... Did you know that you were my 5th best friend?" Bittersweet start of a nice, several weeks lasting converstion.

On a philosophical note - The person, who did the most ungrateful (cereal) thing to me was me. It's so because he helped me to realize, that sometimes, the biggest douchebag in your life is just you, when there is noone else to blame. And it's not something you want to hear, especially from someone you know for your entire life.

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That's... Pretty deep. Great reply, makes us think for a minute. Thank you.

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Well put. +1

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I agree with that sentiment. We understand ourselves the best, but, in many cases, treat ourselves the worst.

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To make it short : I was with my GF for 2 years and a half, she loved me so much ( once she even cried saying "don't dump me !!!" just because I was a little mad at her -_- ) and she was jealous as fuck when I was talking to a friend. After some time I even left my friends to spend all my time with her and she was pleased to know that.
She dumped me last christmas ( yeah the 25th ) for the first guy she met in her new job.
The worst was when I told her I left everything for her, she just said "Go back to them then, I don't care I'm happier like this"

On the bright side : The friends I left 1 year and a half before helped me to get better and said to me "Don't worry we understand why you did that, come back now".
I will never do it again and I know how precious they are.

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Aaawwww.... Good friends you have, mate. But that ex of yours, was a BITCH.

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Same thing happened to me. Im getting married to one of the friends that took me back and the ex killed herself. Life and its ups and downs.

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Dayum.

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Ok, now that's strange... R.I.P.

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Wow.

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You can't really judge her without knowing everything of the story and their life... Why people always do that just by knowing a tiny little piece of a story? I'm not defending her, I know nothing more than you do about that story, but this hasty judgement is annoying...

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You don't need to know anything else about her. A man left everyone he knew for her and she didn't just say "The spark is gone" no she said go back I'm happier like this. That just shows that she's a bitch.

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Well, it seems like her ex did sacrifice part of his happiness for her, don't you see? And even if she didn't love him, why did she have to cut it out like that? "I'm sorry, but it's just not the same anymore" would be a lot better than "Go back to them then, I don't care I'm happier like this". So yeah, you CAN judge a people from what he/she says. Of course, there is always the possibility that this dude is lying or omitting something important, but from what I read here, she is a heartless bitch.

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I judge because i want to, just that. I've already said it, and i quote: "So yeah, you CAN judge a people from what he/she says. Of course, there is always the possibility that this dude is lying or omitting something important, but from what I read here, she is a heartless bitch."
If what you mean is "don't judge if you lack the whole information", well, i'm sorry, but there is no such thing as that, less on the internet.

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It's not because he left everything for her that she is entitled to him for the rest of her life... I mean, it was his choice to leave his friends for her, I suppose she didn't force him to do that. And maybe he did something to her, we don't know.
"You don't need to know anything else about her." So basically you are saying you can judge someone with just one fucking small paragraph about a story from only one of the 2 people involved?
Yes I feel bad for him reading his story, maybe she looks like she is what you say, but with only the few things we know, I find it pretty harsh to judge her.

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Calm down everyone !

I wanted to say that after what I did for her, I wouldn't expect her to be that harsh while already dumping me. ( And I understand she can love someone else, that's not the problem even if it hurts )

( And I understand Nonos point of view. Don't argue for that :) )

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We are calm :p

If I may say, dumping someone isn't an easy thing to do, and even if she told you that, it doesn't necessarily mean she was completely thinking it... (maybe she was, but you never know :o) Some people are sometimes saying harsh things as a... how to say, defense system, mostly against themselves... (if you understand what I'm trying to say, you are a good mind-reader :p)

But I completely understand what you wanted to say...

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Well I'm a good mind-reader :p
I moved on anyway, so it's ok now :)

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Dude...I feel for you man

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Put my life and money aside for someone going through depression. I know how it feels, so I tried to help in any way I could, Even if it included buying the odd game on steam for them. I went way out of my own comfort zone for them.
Eventually got into an argument and I was informed that I'm a horrible person who thinks only about myself, and that I never do anything nice for anyone else.
My only regret was falling in love with him.
Gay Boyfriends suck.(pun not intended)

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People with depression say and do hurtful things. In general, give them time for their depressed mood to pass over. Then, talk to them and see if they want to be with you again.

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So find yourself a straight boyfriend, lol.

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But I'm a guy...

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I was helping a friend with his math exam. Was really tolerant with his mistakes and spend much time helping him. A Day before the exam I lend him all my stuff, books, lecture notes, everything in my Eastpak. He passed the exam.

The very next day he BURNED ALL MY F*KING STUFF EVEN MY EASTPAK and sent me pictures of it...

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Are you sure you didn't do anything bad beforehand?

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I haven't seen him for about a month and then he just posted me the pictures via msn and laughed about me... :(

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Maybe he was drunk? Both when he burned your stuff and when he sent the picture???

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I know it's hard to understand, he was absolutely dry...
I met him once more in my life, he was just smiling at me...

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Ok. You people from Europe are way too strange for me O.o I mean, really, how the fuck could anyone do something like that? It's evil...

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He is Italian, if you want to know...
It's not like common people here in Europe act so...

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That guy is crazy disturbed. You should sue him for damages because he was dumb enough to send you the photographs of him burning them.

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I just wanted to see him never again... don't want any more bad blood...

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My advice-call the cops on his ass.You'll probably save someone from having to deal with this messed up prick.

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Never heard anything like that here in Spain.

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What the fuck. That's so so wrong.

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That guy has mental problems

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I came in this threads expecting mostly sarcasm and jokes.

I left with feels.

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+1 :(

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Helped someone one get an attractive gf and they treated her like dirt. Has happened twice with two different guys and girls.

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Don't put yourself in situations where you might get taken advantage of. Be selfless without expecting anything in return (or just expect the worst).

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+1 Sometimes being cold or just not giving a fuck is the best decision!, In my experience it helps anyway, Your sanity matters.

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I was once close with a teammate (of game online). Helped her so many times and she treated me like a dirt after that.

Then I said 'enough is enough' so straightforward stopped all communication initiated by me.

Later she said 'you are cruel', but I ignored it - only answered her enough because we're in the same team. She seemed to be unable to leave me because of her dependence on me but yeah not giving another flying fuck anymore.

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What do you mean by Helped her? as in Revived her ingame xD

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lol

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No, with her family / life issues. Can't say much, due to privacy, though.

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Understandable, respect for that though, I would have done the same.

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Standard issue, she left me without any reason, she was just tired of me. Bitch, i hope you'll get fucking beated again, this time i won't be there to protect you.

Also 130 giveaways and almost nobody actually played those games.

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Your avatar makes sense now.

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I'm afraid this one isn't the most common, sorry for the long body of text:

My boyfriend left me after discovering my previous one has HIV.

I got checked at a LGBT center here and came out negative, still left me "just in case", already was with another guy three days later.

And he knows that I have A LOT of self-esteem issues, and that I suffer from OCD. Not the one OCD that makes you wanna put things in alphabetical order... but the OCD that gives you intrusive, violent, sexual thoughts that involve harming other people... thoughts that aren't yours and can't avoid them or control them, just ignore them (no, I have never done any of those thoughts, but I think you can imagine how stressful that can be, mostly on a guy with 0 self-esteem).

And then he goes and demands me I finish the landscape picture I had started painting for him!

And let's not forget that, when I told him I think of suicide EVERY DAY he just laughed it off! Since then, I just don't have to will to share anything about my OCD or thoughts with anybody in real life...

Sorry for the long text, I don't get to talk much about this with anybody...
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Hugs? :(

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Thank you. hugs

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also have some self esteem issues so your not the only one with that
hugs
i know it must be hard but im sure it will be better

once I made the mistake of trying to help a guy who was emotionally way to fragile, lets say he awaited way more from me than I was able to offer and yeah, got "busted" by my parents to say so becuause it was sorta an emotional relationship or whatever you name it, even though from the inside i knew i didnt wanted that in that way

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Sorry to hear that, low self-esteem's a bitch...

Not that I think I can relate for such a particular case, but he may have been just manipulative... hope things are going better for you.

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Obsessive thoughts are terrible. Take care of yourself, FrAnubis. And try not to feel too guilty about them.

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Thank you, those words do mean a lot. I will try.

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You're welcome. ^^

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I said « no! i don't want to go outside! », and they forced me, and now thus i am born.

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