My long distance gf is depressed and stressed out because of her parents. She is unemployed and been forced to marry anybody by her parents for the sake of her family's financial crisis. This has been a long standing fight that she can't take it anymore and almost decided to kill herself. I argued with her to stay alive but living with her parents seemed no longer a viable option for her. What should I do? Should I take her in with me? I live in Papua and financially not ready to marry her yet. What should I do to keep her safe, or at least alive? I also live in a country that makes it illegal for unmarried couple to live together in the same house. This has been a dilemma. Please help me. Please.
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Hello. I guess no one wrote anything in connection with a rather difficult moral choice or just don't care, but I think you need at least some advice. Unfortunately, I do not know all the nuances, so I will make a superficial answer. If you really love her, then you should be ready to go to any difficulties in the name of your common happiness. I'm sorry that I gave an example of a completely banal advice, but in my opinion it is appropriate here. I understand that it's hard for you, but think about it again. Good luck to you! (P.S. If other people still want to comment on this advice somehow, it's better to just write your advice separately below. I hope this is not some kind of joke unknown to me, but a case of a difficult choice)
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thanks friend, your advice is greatly appreciated
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Thx for :)
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Wish i had an answer for you.
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I feel like at this point, she really only has a few options to get out of her parents house.
Either
Even if you try to claim to the law that you aren't a couple, her parents seem like the type to come for you if that were to happen. It seems that you basically have only one option which is to get married and take her in. If you do decide to get married, you could always get quietly eloped then take her in and then later on when you're more financially ready you could have a wedding.
I'm sorry and I hope things work out for you two.
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Ty! <3
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