Don't worry that much, love hurts, especially at your age. But you will find another girls, fall in love again, break up again and start over with the cycle. Teenage relationships have a tendency to be short, intense and painful.
Just don't give up hope, you're young and your entire life is still ahead of you. You will eventually find the right girl, not today, not tomorrow, but one day and it will be great
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Hey! Don't worry about kiddo! Go have to some fun, I guarantee you that in week's time, you'll be back to normal! ^-^
But hey don't lose appetite over something like this, go, eat and play some video games. Enjoy your teenage year buddy!
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But I spent all my $ on buying Dead Bits soundtracks.
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What I'm saying is quit your whining you little drama queen, i can assure what you feel now is no love, and even if it was, a true man wouldn't cry over it, what you feel now is nothing compared to what you might feel in the future. You also said you know "she loves you" since when you're such a love expert?
P.S focus on your god damn education not girls.
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Maybe my love story cheers you up a bit...
CARLEST: Hi
CARLEST: You added me
*****: hi
*****: yes i love you
CARLEST: Why? :D
*****: i want go with you in alabama
CARLEST: LOL
*****: il love ice cream
*****: and i love the handsome horse
CARLEST: Are you OK?
*****: yes
*****: i love you my friend
CARLEST: That's just weird...
CARLEST: ?
*****: look
You have accepted the trade request from *****.
***** is now Offline.
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14 and you THINK you know what love is? HAH! Love is a farce. A cruel joke played upon humanity. Personally, I don't believe in it since I'm quite a bit older than you and have NEVER known what it feels like. And I know I never will.
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It's the truth. OP thinks life is hard? He's a child that hasn't had any real experiences to tell him this.
Try having your very first girlfriend use you to get back with her previous boyfriend. Try having the same girl hurt you THREE times over many chances over the years and still want to just be friends. Try having a girlfriend that's manic depressive and suicidal. And they all left me. After I tried my best to be good to them and never hurt them.
Now do you see why I don't believe in love?
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Everyone has had their share of heartache, myself included.
First girl I really loved (18 years old, late bloomer and all that jazz) had a boyfriend, she told me she felt the same way but didn't want to breakup. 1 year of torment (seeing the girl you love getting mistreated and even physically abused occasionally really hurts like a bitch) happened and she eventually broke up.
Tried to tell her how I still felt again but her response was ignoring me. Just plain ignoring me. When I asked her why she said she didn't really have a reason.
I wish I had a happy ending of some sort, that I was in a happy relationship now or something like that, but I don't.
Just because one or two relationships don't work out like you had planned, doesn't mean donkey dick.
Don't stop looking, I'm sure there is someone out there for us (that turned corny really quickly this time!) :D
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Those WERE my learning experiences. They taught me that I'm not meant for happiness. That I'm meant to be alone.
They also taught me that I should have never even started.
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Nobody else had no choice in the matter. I'm not going to tell my age, but I was just on 14 YEARS solo after my last girlfriend. Then that ex wanted to try again and she hurt me again for the third time. That's it. I can NOT let anyone get close to me that way again because I'm destined to be hurt over and over. But if I don't let it happen, it can't. So I took myself out of the game.
You know it's bad when even those dating sites have no matches for you at all.
See? It's true. Nice guys ALWAYS finish last. Screw it. Life doesn't want me to be happy? Then that's exactally what it's going to get. And the OP would do well in believing that the farce is nothing more than teenage angst and lust. Not love.
And that's all I'm going to say on this for now because I'm now more depressed than I was before.
That and I have to go to an ungrateful job.
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You don't need a mate to be happy. Make yourself happy; quit your shitty job and go back to school for something you want to do. Invest in yourself, get a good job, a nice house, a nice car, an awesome mancave for gaming, etc, and be happy on your own terms.
Don't let some succubus ruin your life and make you think you're destined for misery.
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Thought the same, I mean it was much harder when I was that age, but now the possibilities are so much bigger.
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OP, do you know anyone who also knows the girl? Do you have her name? Have you looked her up on Facebook?
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Life is not hard and it is definitely not bad... it is only bad and hard if you wish it to be.
I'm 36 and I've had my share of girlfriends, loves, flings, and also some broken hearts. The ones that were very close to my heart but, for one reason or another, never became my partners I still remember very fondly. Be happy that you can feel this way and smile whenever you think of her, even if it hurts. But don't become too obsessed and don't let those negative feelings overwhelm you.
You'll feel this way again and it will both make you very happy and very sad... I guess it's just the way feelings work and let me tell you that it is still better than not feeling at all.
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+1 to Belmasv
I'm 27 and also had my share of delusions about love. Believe me, it can get a lot worse. Had my first girlfriend with 26 years...
You're young and you'll feel bad about it time and time again. Don't worry though. It is part of what makes life worth living. Yeah, crazy, huh? But it is truth. You probably will not understand this now, when you're feeling so down, but every experience makes you stronger, wiser and more grateful for what you have.
I should know. I'm a walking bad luck charm. Everything goes wrong in my life, I'm a complete loser. But when things go right... Oh, my... It is worth the wait. You'll get to the top someday and see this yourself.
'Til then, lets play some games and have fun while we can!
PS: A Russian? That's one hell of a story you'll be able to tell later. Maybe you'll share it with us someday? =)
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^^^ What Belmasv said.
What you are experiencing, Razor, is infatuation. It is a very powerful experience, but it is not love. People often confuse it with love because they don't know the difference. When you are older and wiser, you will know the difference, and you will have learned how to handle both properly. In the meantime, here are a few tips:
If you haven't figured it out from the above, love is something that takes time to grow. And while infatuation might be exciting, love is much more powerful and long-lasting.
I know some of the guys here at SG might joke around, but they are just teasing you. Infatuation is part of being human, and we are all affected by it at one time or another. Just remember the experience and think about how you might have done things differently. That way, the next time it happens, you will know better how to behave.
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You know its not true love when you do not break into a musical duo.
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If you love her... then... i dunno... prepare some or a simple gift for her and try to find a way or a opportunity to return to that vacation location that you traveled to, IF you traveled, try to... you know... talk to her, build up a friendship, get contact informations so you could text her, call her, go steady, just try and be her friend, its a realy hard situation you got there. You could also just... forget all about it and move on, forget about her, live your life a loner.
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If some simple bullshit like this makes you cry, life will be very, very hard on you. Unless your parents are wealthy, that is, because rich people don't have to worry about life.
Oh, wait, you're 14? In that case, I take it back. Of course, at such an age, you most definitely know when you're truly in love with someone and... NOT. You're either a good troll or a pathetic kid.
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guys im 14 years old and i went to vacation last 4 days and there was a russian girl that im sure that she loved me and i loved her too but now i left i dont know what to do guys i need help :'( i cant even hold my tears
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