It was hard. It happened around two months ago, and she told me it was for my own good, as we were only fighting and and could not stop this fighting (that she always started for any stupid reason). After that she insisted that we kept seeing each other, so we kinda formed another relationship. We were together again, and crawling to a serious relationship once more.

Well, this time, and for the first time, she did something extremelly annoying using my name and I got angry and yelled at her. She started crying and after some time she told me that she wanted some time away from me. Without talking or seeing each other and etc.

She told me she'll still love me and after this we'll still have a chance to get back together but I don't know if I should believe in this. We were together for far more than 2 years and were always together, and this is breaking me!

I'm finding it difficult to have any pleasure, be it gaming, going to a friend's party or playing wargames. I'm being forced to live nightmares every time I sleep and the only two times I didn't have a nightmare about something horrible happening to her, I dreamed about something beautiful alongside her, and perhaps it was even worse.

I'm trying to remain strong and trust in her word, but it's hurting too bad and I feel like I'm losing ground...
Does anyone know what to do in this situation? I want to believe in it, I want to have her back, but this time is killing me and everything I once found pleasure in doing.

EDIT: Thanks for all the support, I can already breathe better. A lot of guys said some awesome things and it helped me a lot. Some even added me on steam and we chatted for a while, traded experiences. That's why I made this post here. You are all an awesome community that always made me laugh and now even helped me in some serious poop situation.
Thank you all, I won't forget it. Never. (AKA Giveaway coming soon)

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More free game time for you! Yay!! Enjoy while you can, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and all of them are craving for your precious and limited free time :D

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Edited main topic. Thanks, loves.

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It's hard being young....

The problem is with you, not her. Once you get yourself squared away, your problems will vanish. I'd offer you advice, but quite frankly, you don't yet seem to be at that point in your life where you would follow it. Given enough time, however, you'll figure it all out.

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tldr blabla pointless.

this isn't the zombie apocalypse where everybody else died. there are plenty of others, quit hanging around the one whos batshit. find a new girl already.

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no kids right? so nothing to tie you to her move on.
technically there are still more women than men according to population so it should be a buyer's market yo. speaking of buyers...whores its just easier this way.

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If you really believe in her and love her, then go ahead and stick it out and do your best to make something happen. I don't want to give bad input since I'm simply judging a situation off of a few paragraphs, but it does seem like there is unhappiness and quite a few arguments. The point of a girlfriend is (hopefully) to pursue marriage at some point, and you want someone you can be around. If there's a lot of arguing and things like that, it's probably just better that you let her go and find another. Hope it helps!

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FREAKS

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im assuming your still young, so best thing for you to do is let time go by. as they say, time heals all wounds and in with matters of the heart, this stands true as well.

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