so there is a girl at school that she keeps looking at me and i feel that she likes me and i really want to talk to her but i cant just say "hi whats your name" so i need a way to talk to her and make a good relationship with her any help ?

Edit:and i dont have topics to talk about all i can talk about is video games and this stuff :(

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Do you expect to have a script on what to talk about whilst talking to a girl?

Either leave and then keep regret 'Why I didn't talk to her?' for rest of your life or go up, introduce yourself, can even say that I'm looking for new friends (be truthful), ask questions about her (not personal questions, questions such as what course do you do, do you like this school) then if she asks the same question to you then you answer her back. There isn't much to it. If you feel like you're going to be in awkward silence soon because you ran out of questions, just say that you have to go and that it was nice meeting her and that you hope to see her around.

It's very simple, you just seem to be over-thinking it a lot.

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hit it then quit it in the morning

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I think we all need that help. :(

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Do you notice if she likes anything, maybe if she wears a t-shirt with something on it, or bookbag, maybe if shes doing something like listening to music. I would ask her what she likes based on what she's doing, and maybe you have a similar interest. Just ask what she likes before talking about what you like.

Good luck man.

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I've got one method! Buy cookies, and when you're in school, take some friends and stay close to her, talk etc. Then, take the cookies out of your bag, and when you'll ask everybody to get one, ask her too. If she'll say "no" ask her "why? am I too scary for you to take cookies from me?" or "mm.. these are really good cookies" or "don't you like cookies?" and then, there is a chance that she will start a normal conversation. After that all, ask her out and fk right in the pussy. It really works! ;)

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Don't Talk About Fight Clu- wait.. what are we talking about?

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wtf... 238 comments to this... O_o (239)

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Make it 240, everyone like to share their wisdom (or stupidity) about psychological problems (in my case, stupidity) XD

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This community likes to help each other D;

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"and make a good relationship with her" Ok right there... back up. That's the wrong idea to good at this. You're dead in the water from the start! Just start slow, Hi, how are you? done... next day blah blah blah. SLOW... you come on strong like "and make a good relationship with her" she's gonna run.

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This. That is incredibly clingy. She'll feel like being with you she's losing her freedom and she will run. Personally, I would say never get into a relationship, just have multiple friends with benefits. Why avoid relationships? Girls in relationships are incredibly easy to sleep with, and they cheat incredibly often (way more than you would ever imagine). You just say the right things, focus on their boyfriend's negatives while focusing on your positives, be fun mysterious and exciting, and pretend to listen to them complain about their BF, and you're in within minutes (damn he sounds like a complete asshole baby / what's he got to do with me?) or a few days. You have to understand women are emotionally retarded. I've gotten over the sick feeling in my stomach listening to them call their boyfriends after we just had sex and act like nothing has happened, I just find it funny now.

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That... is so epic... :')

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Watch her and find out something you can use to start a conversation. You might get nothing this time, but it's the experience we get in the area that make us level up.

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The number of times I've felt this way. Just do it. Go up to her and do what needs to be done, for at least you know where you stand if she slaps you in the face.

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You know there was this gorgeous Norwegian girl I once asked out and ..................

I was crying somewhere down the line, but at least I knew lol!

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Use this type on conversation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfG869tyHmA

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Wear an Amulet of Mara and walk near her, 100% Satisfied or refunded guarantee

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Drive a V8 Muscle Car through her front door, grab her and stuff her in the glovebox then drive into her back door. Preferably on fire while swinging a chainsaw at passers by. Works everytime.

Think at this rate we should create a website called "SteamDates" with all these relationship advice threads popping up?

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It's too hard!

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So how did it went?

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Wrong forum.

On a side note, no, you dont need an excuse, just go say hi, tell her that you like her and that you want to invite her out.

If she say yes, win.
If she say no, just try another one, the odds of catching some one that makes a mistake and say yes are on your favor.

Worse case, there are some prescrip..... wait, what are we talking about?

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