You can always use facebook if you are too scared to talk to her irl.
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Step 1: Don't follow any guide that starts with "step 1."
-Don't be a retard.
-Part of human nature is to look at the person they look up to the most to see what they are doing before copying them.
-Just go up and introduce yourself and fake confidence, confidence is sexy.
-If things don't work out then so be it. If your friends take the piss out of you for talking to one of the hottest people in your school and getting rejected just laugh and tell them that at least you had the balls to do it instead of living life of regrets.
EDIT: Also steamgifts.com probably isn't the best place in the world to ask relationship-related questions. A quick google will get you decent enough websites which are almost dedicated or have dedicated sections to these types of quetions.
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Boil'em, mash'em, stick'em in a stew. Oh wait, that's potatoes, not girls.
"hi whats your name" actually isn't such a bad start. Unless you already know her name.
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Like most guys who are young and inexperienced, your focus is all wrong. Stop trying to appear a certain way and just be yourself.
"OK, but what the hell does 'be yourself' mean?"
Glad you asked. It means you don't have to impress her, you don't have to "make her like you," you don't have to do anything other than what you have already done. She was interested in you before you even noticed she was there, so you have already moved past that stage.
"Fine, but I still don't know how to talk to her. What the heck do I say?"
The same things you would say to anyone else you meet. You already know how to meet new people, but you are distracted by her interest in you and so are being (unhelpfully) self-conscious. Get over it. Meeting new people is both simple and easy.
Success! You have now met the other person and found out a few things about him or her that you can talk about the next time you meet. If the person is a possible romantic interest, take it slow and get to know him or her. If you want to show that you are interested, make excuses to "bump into" the other person or walk with him or her for a while. Romance will follow naturally, or you will find out that you don't get along and can part without hard feelings.
P.S. (People often talk about the importance of "self-confidence." What it really comes down to is an attitude of "This is who I am, I think I'm decent person, and that's good enough for me. I don't need your approval." It's called "believing in yourself," and it means that you are independent. Most people--men and women--like others who are independent rather than needy.)
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+1 Best advice here in this thread so far.
Also, as a pointer to OP, being female myself, find out what she likes. If you are too scared to just walk up and say hi at first, just try to look and see if there are any telltale signs of what she likes: keyrings or buttons on her backpack. Stickers or drawings in/on her binder or bookcovers. Did you maybe overhear her talking with her friends about some show when you passed her in the hall a week or two ago? Happen to hear her phone or MP3 player play a certain song or ringtone that is from a song. Does she have a fb or other social media account, that you can glance at her interest list? THEN, find out something about whatever that stuff is, if you don't already know. Go up to her then, and if it is something you know about, be like "Hey, I couldn't help but notice you were wearing a tshirt for XXX band. You like them?" or whatever it is you end up picking to talk to her about. If she does, bingo, common ground to start talking. If she doesn't, mention that you like their music and that you could lend/send her their music if she'd like to listen to it sometime. THEN pick it up from there. If you do not find a common interest off the bat by just glancing at her, but do find something she likes and learn about it, AND are genuinely curious about it, approach her, "Hey, couldn't help but notice some the things on your backpack and binders are Lord of the Rings/Hobbit. You a fan? I haven't had a chance to see the movies or read the books yet, but plan on it. They seem really cool." And so on and so forth. Want to impress a girl, take as much interest in what she likes as she does what you like.
I am not a sports fan, but with my ex, I started to get into baseball and we went to games together. I kept track of the games for the teams he liked, esp if he had to work that day, and would update him on how they were doing. No, not EVERY girl/woman you will come across in your life will be like this, but some will. And a good relationship is when you both have something in common and take interest in at least a couple things the other likes so you have something to talk about.
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Hey, I couldn't help but notice you were playing Universe Sandbox! Do you like Universe? Do you have the God syndrome? Do you have any mental illness in your family tree? Dont want our kids born kookoo! ktybai
/joking pls no hit i gut boy i pay taxes
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Fantastic advice Khalaq! If you want be friends with someone and get to know them, start by getting to know them. A pleasant conversation, a nice compliment, introducing oneself are great ways to connect with people. And do not be afraid of rejection.
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Ask her if she likes videogames?
If she answers "yes", good, keep flirting.
If she answers "no", well, one less girl in the world to ask about it. Keep searching.
Alternatively, you can ask her if she would like sex for one day. Its not the best scenario, but not bad at all.
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Thats perfect. I'd melt just for that. And I'm a dude, so imagine the girls reaction.
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It doesnt work. In movies does but not in real life. Chloroform dissolves when in touch with air and it has to be in big amount to knock someone out, which means you have to have a bucket of it next to you and put a towel in and then put the towel in her face. Just sayin...
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Story goes on and on.. There is no definitive answer to peoples emotions, you will only figure it out through experience and it is hard.. The best thing to do is just put yourself out there more and experience society.
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Our Schools in NZ are pretty small, pretty odd not to have a convo with someone really unless they are 3+- years apart
good luck with your future wife, i'm sure you can talk to them with about a common interest or something at first
only can talk about video games??? there is lot more to life than video games
...wait are you male or female? your dp is female but peter is normally a males name hmmm
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The best time to ask obvious-sounding questions is when you are young and inexperienced. Might not have been the best place to ask, but it could be worse... he could be acting like you.
Just a heads up, "pathetic" and "moron" actually mean something, and they more accurately describe you right now.
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That condescending tone of yours is not any better than my direct one which seems to bother you so much.
If this thread was made by anyone else, I wouldn't have commented anything. I would've probably ignored the thread altogether. However, this fucker makes one of these retarded threads every fucking month. (at least, that's what it feels like) Remember the 'halp me guyz im in love with dis russian girl I saw for two days and am so sad, life is hard and unfair halp plox guiz'? Or maybe the 'HALP GUIZ I GOT HACKED'? There was definitely at least another one but I'm too tired to remember right now (2am over here). Shit like that, you know. Maybe I'll write a more profound reply to you tomorrow, right now I just wish for that fucktard to leave this site for good. (inb4 some wish the same about me)
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Actually I'm pretty my tone is better, given that it's a little more on the neutral side and actually has something that can be discussed, just sayin. You responded to an honest thread with unwarranted judgemental behaviour and hostility. Are you really surprised that your post got a negative response in turn?
It bothers you, I get it, but you have two primary choices here. You could have tried to reason with the guy, which stood the best chance of getting him to re-think his posting behaviours, or you could sacrifice that ability to effect some remote change and instead lash out to make yourself feel better to no lasting effect. If it's really at this point you could just avoid any threads made by the guy, seeing as they grate on you so much?
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I'm not surprised in the slightest. People who talk like me usually expect an unfriendly response.
People as retarded as OP can't be reasoned with, imo. He probably wouldn't even process what I'd have to say, because kids his age are narcissistic as fuck, thinking they're great and stuff. (I thought the same way his age, so did you and everyone else, more or less)
That might work, but on the other hand it's rather interesting to see what bullshit 'problems' he's having this time.
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As Uroboros mentioned, the best time to ask is when young and inexperienced. This is a TEENAGE KID. At that age, they are lost somewhere between child and adult, going through all sorts of changes mind and body, confused or uncertain about a lot. AT LEAST HE'S TRYING. He's asking and making a REAL EFFORT, unlike SO MANY kids out there, who just make assumptions or act like total idiots. He obviously CARES, which is a great start. I'd rather he be posting and asking for advice and help from a community he obviously looks up to and trusts (at least most of it) than be another little cock-sucking prick who thinks he owns the world and every female in the world is some whore to be used, abused, and tossed aside. And hey, at least his threads HAVE A REAL PURPOSE. You know, unlike the 50-100 a wk that seem to pop up "why me no win?", "Y I so unlukcy?", "SG is scam!", "how do I get points?", and too many others that could easily be answered by a simple reading of the FAQ.
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It doesn't matter if he's a teenage kid, or an adult, it's completely stupid to make a thread like this on specificaly this page. It's a gaming one, if you have problems, either go search for profesional help, go talk to your parents, or rely on yourself. It's best if someone learns from their past mistakes, like I had to
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As a matter of fact, he did make a "why me no win?"-thread
You're not a feminist by any chance? You sound pretty much like one. Anyway... No. You can ask all you want, it'll never be worth even remotely as much as going out there and trying shit for yourself. Especially his age, you're supposed to do things, make experiences and screw up while you can afford it. You're supposed to learn from your failures like everyone else, as the guy above me said. And yeah, I'm obviously stupid as hell and don't know the first thing about puberty. Gotcha.
So he's making AN EFFORT? Is he REALLY? Or is he just ASKING a RANDOM QUESTION which DOESN'T BELONG HERE at ALL? How exactly, dear miss feminist, is asking 'This girl is looking at me, she must like me [he should really check his privilege for thinking that] how do I talk to her?' an actual effort? To me, that seems more like he's too stupid to figure out one basic thing about women: They're still people
You don't talk to women in any other way than men, so this question is absolutely unnecessary and proves his immaturity. (inb4 my language proves mine)
So people make assumptions? Wow, how dare they make assumptions about other people? They should be fined for that, it's HERESY. It's human nature to make assumption about others, their motivations and stuff. Acting like an idiot is completely unrelated to how many questions you ask or how unnecessary those questions are.
Next point: he cares? Not really, no. He cares enough to make a fool of himself, sure, but then again, he cared enough about some random russian girl he saw for two days to make a thread about 'how hard life is'. So yeah, him caring ain't worth shit.
So he looks up to the SG community and trusts it? The way I see it to him it's more like a bunch of persons who ain't got nothing better to do than help him with his oh so severe problems.
I have absolutely not the slightest clue why the hell someone who doesn't ask pathetic and unnecessary questions would magically turn into a 'cock-sucking prick who thinks every female in the world is some whore to be used, abused and tossed aside' (btw, if he sucks cock, he probably doesn't even want anything from women, but whatever works for you). Some people are simply 'smart' enough to figure out that, as I said above, women are just people and there's no need to talk to them in any other way then men. Why they would become misogynists for thinking that way is truly beyond me.
While those threads could be solved easily by reading the FAQ, this one could be solved just as easily by OP using his fucking brain for a moment.
The end, sorry for the long text.
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All this because he was young/dumb enough to ask for advice on how to approach a girl. The part where you made a random assumption on the other poster being a feminist despite it's irrelevancy to the subject and then riffing on that too was especially 'magical'.
Come on, chill already. :P
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Try kidnaapping someone from her family, then you will be practically forced to talk to her when you'll ask for ransom.
Then one thing leads to another... in the worst case you get the ransom money at least.
(on the other hand I do not think that asking it here is of any real help)
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PS: this worked for me in the past and usually girls that do what you say she is doing, are bitches, really.
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Just talk to her. I have severe confidence issues. But the girl I liked for ages, suddenly popped up to me on Facebook one day, and I knew I needed to speak to her. So I did. And even though I was shaking, and so scared, I went to see her. That was the best decision I ever made. Confidence affects us all, but once you see through it, you see your future. That one day I decided to go to meet her, was the start of our nearing 2 year relationship. So go for it. Do it. It could turn out to be your future!:3
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So hey could those of you that think trying to get on a FBI watchlist is funny please, you know, stop doing that?
Thanks.
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U can peek into the girl and find something that u think that u have in common with her and start a conversation like that, or when she is seeing you , say wave at to her , don't be shame and maybe she waves back at you , if she does u are good to go ;P
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Follow her around for awhile so you know what stuff she does/likes then ask her out ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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Not jail..at most she gets a restraining order against you and thats only if you get caught :D Stalking can get pretty intense
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so there is a girl at school that she keeps looking at me and i feel that she likes me and i really want to talk to her but i cant just say "hi whats your name" so i need a way to talk to her and make a good relationship with her any help ?
Edit:and i dont have topics to talk about all i can talk about is video games and this stuff :(
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