Came back from my grandpa's funeral a couple hours ago and saying that i feel like crap is not saying the 1/5 of it. 6 years back on 11th december, it was my dad.

Could you try to cheer me up ?

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Sucks dude... and it's so close to christmas. Uhm... I can't think of anything right now X_x

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wrong way to look at it - flip it around, "at least its Christmas"

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i know that feel, bro, my half-sisters kid past away ,last year :( sorry I'm horrible at cheering up :/

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Just remember your grandpa, you can't revive him or get him back. This is life, and we all slowly dying and we can't do nothing.

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actually that made me sad too...thanks ._.

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I warmly recommend that you read the book "The power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. It is a wonderful read and it will cheer you up permanently. You can find the book free online with google. Much love, My dad and grandpa also passed some years ago!

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lol

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She sounds terrible even with auto tune.

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that made me want to jump off a bridge...

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apart from that being the worst song ever.. wtf is up with putting acoustic guitar sounds in the beginning when she is sitting with an electric guitar.. that got on my nerves

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โ€œDon't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.โ€
โ€• Dr. Seuss

That tends to cheer me up when I have similar feelings. Hope it may help you.

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I fall back on that sometimes too.

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Nothing like British humour, lol.

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Join the club. Sadly i have nothing to cheer you up with

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Well currently there is one idiot that is pushing a door that says pull

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Oh my god. Losing family sucks a lot, but so close to Christmas... Geeze. I am so sorry about your loss.
Here, a video of a precious doggie unwrapping Christmas presents. I've found that cute videos almost always make me feel a little better. I hope it helps with you. :)

I'll find more of 'em for ya in a sec.
ETA: Here's another cutie, a fussy Bulldog baby, a fussy pug, Omnomnomnomnomnomnom, and a pug who hates Apple products.

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Write something, just like a poem, tale or something else. It will move your emotions towards it and you will automatically focus it. Just try to distract yourself by anything

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In a world without laughter, where joy is all but there, a whisper in the wind reminds you that he was once there. A man of great stature, almost larger than life, now rests with a higher calling, watching over your family this night. Maybe in spirit, you'll find he does more good than before, with the possibility of a new existence beyond this veiled blur. Then again, he may just have passed, unsure of what is beyond. But know well he wasted not his life, for he made your family grow. He may not have been the seed from which your glorious tree sprouts, but he certain was an olive branch and to your grandmother he called out. Now the tradition pressed forward and with his son or daughter, they made you. Do not grieve for life lost, but instead live it anew. Welcome to the day for the rest of your life. Now how do you want to spend it? With a frown, or sharing your years?

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Be happy that you knew your grandfather and your father and focus on all the positive memories cause thats all you can do. Or find a distraction, something that keeps you occupied and doesnt let you dwell to much on your grief. Something like spending time with friends but tell them not to mention family.

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Whose Line Is It Anyway?

I know that words of condolence from me would probably seem shallow, for lack of a better term, but I'll offer them nonetheless. I'm very sorry for the loss. I cannot think of anything else that isn't cliche except for you to stay strong.

On the other hand, I always find it useful to keep perspective:
"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on." Robert Frost

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My grandfather just passed two months ago, always thought he'll be there since that guy was just fucking invincible. Thought he'll just get away another time, just like he always did in the past. He didn't. And I didn't get over it yet. There's nothing that alcoholic problem can't solve, they say, and with that thought I'll continue drinking what I brought today. Hang on mate, my deepest sympathy for you and your family, it's one of the moments you have to work out yourself.

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Thanks a lot guys, i'm touched... :)

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