Interesting drama over at Hookups. It appears the group has been going crazy with referral links, and there are accusations that ownership is profiteering. The admins and mods have effectively risen up against ownership.

While this may be construed as calling out [I think this is more about the ethics and real mission of the group, though I guess it's hard to separate from the owner], given that many of us are members of the group and not everyone receives the announcements, I thought it was worth posting.

The ethics of the situation may make some question whether they want to continue being members there. I, for one, will be leaving the group.

Below announcement / thread for your reference:

Today's announcement posted by an upset admin

Thread discussing the problems

Mods, if this is inappropriate, please feel free to delete this thread. But I would prefer if this be kept up given the content and issues at play. Thanks.

EDIT: The above links are no longer valid, as the announcement(s) and discussion(s) have been deleted. There are links scattered throughout the replies that will provide historical screen shots. I'm reluctant to paste those here, as it almost gets to a point where it's piling on, but it has been pointed out that the situation is what it is and people can form their own opinions based on the evidence.

EDIT: Okay, I read through the chat transcript posted in the thread, and 1) I genuinely feel stupider after reading the entire thing, and 2) just because you don't like how the owner manages his site does not give anyone license to screw with his site or harass him. Since when does being an ass (some people's apparent opinion) justify disproportionate retribution? Leave him be.

EDIT: It's getting to a point where the discussion has just devolved into bashing the owner. The amount of hate just because the guy's exhibited schmuck-like behavior is a little over-the-top. I'll close this thread at ~8.30pm EST on Friday, August 30, 2013. If you have anything valuable to contribute, speak your peace before we put this thread to bed.

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Someone clearly doesn't have their priorities straight. He's got two jobs and school, he can't afford to pay his rent and his bank balance is constantly in the red - and that's with the profit he's admitted he's making from referrals. There's much better ways he could be spending his time and that's before you even get to the immaturity, bullshit and disrespect.

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And based on his profile, he's spending more than 50 hours gaming per week! Mathematically, I can only assume he does not require sleep.

1 decade ago
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He's a cyborg, that's the only reasonable explanation. :P

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Unless he has a Time Turner XD

1 decade ago
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Not to forget almost always being actively chatting in the group

1 decade ago
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He should've bought You Need a Budget 4 to prevent getting in the red.

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Both the thread and the announcement were deleted.

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Who cares about referral anyway, Hookups are providing a service to you and it does not cost you any more money to use their referral link. Might as well provide them with some money so they continue keeping track of game sales. Same thing goes for the ads on Steamgifts, some twitch Streamers have amazon referral links too and I'm glad to use their link when I have something to buy. Basically, hating referral links means you want all your money to go to the big companies and not the little guys.

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I don't think the referrals are a problem, it's the editing of others' posts and PUTTING HIS REFERRAL THERE.

1 decade ago
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"That's not the problem mentioned in this thread actually. Admin is an asshole, he is not sharing earnings with other working staff and he is hiding how much he earns + he edits user posts to get money from their job also."

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Refferal links always lower the quality of submissions. The incentive for him to spam all those meh deals was only money. And all the money he has made was supposed to go towards giveaways. Not happening, he admitted he pays his rent with it. I don't want spam of every crappy deal just so he can make cash of my clicks. People were asking legit questions in that group but the Sammy guy just deletes every post that points out what he does and lies about.

1 decade ago
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Who the fuck cares about a shitty group.

1 decade ago
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The people who are in the group that may not know it's shitty? :v

1 decade ago
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Left ages ago. Cos I'm awesome like that.

1 decade ago
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are you saying you left before it was cool?

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But I would prefer if this be kept up given the content and issues at play.

Since this isn't your personal blog I doubt it'll be "kept up" as closed threads just get tossed into a pile from latest to oldest in the deeper bowels of the forum.

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"Kept up" doesn't mean stickied or perpetually bumped. It is in reference to the preceding sentence about the possibility of deletion. Just meant that I hope it won't be taken down.

1 decade ago
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Ah, in that case you're gonna have to keep the subject of this topic relevant for as long as you can, if it reaches a certain number of days of inactivity like about 4 weeks then it is automatically closed.

Not sure how dedicated you are to this issue but being realistic, this thread is probably only going to last another 5 to 7 days before the bumps show up because people just sort of moved on to the next drama llama

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It's more than that. Somewhere around 4 to 6 months. I think. Mods actively close old threads.

1 decade ago
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Thanks for letting me know, left the group ^^
P.S. for anyone else Discussions tab doesn't work?

1 decade ago
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Left the group not because of the referral issue but because of the way he handled it. Too much drama, I just want deals!

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I can't help but lol at this :P

1 decade ago
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Seems like FEZ II is going to be cancelled.

1 decade ago
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In other news: JFK is going to be dead.

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https://www.dropbox.com/sh/02uuhc4lpk26dsm/by0dmnhoq4

Such a crisis happening here! The end of Steam is happening!

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think I'll leave...

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Its not right to edit other peoples posts to put his own referral links in, plus all of the lies in that announcement... I think that it was right of the admins to leave, I will be leaving too

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I keep seeing people say that the admins left because the owner was using referral links - that is not correct, although referrals were the catalyst. While I do only speak for myself here, most (if not all) left because of:

  • Continued lying about where the money was going and how much money was being brought in
  • Disrespect towards staff and members by editing referral links into their posts
  • Disrespect towards certain admins and mods by the way he treated them
  • Disrespect towards all staff by trashing admin-only discussions so nobody else could peer-review.
  • Removal of any admin discussion that started to deal with referrals (likely in the hopes the issue would "disappear")

Here are the screens of the admin threads that started this. There are some posts missing as these are the only tabs I still had open to take the screens, but you'll get the gist.

1) This thread: http://i.imgur.com/x0DaciB.png
turned into this: http://i.imgur.com/GQtNtyS.png & http://i.imgur.com/nFHYHoP.png

2) This thread was then posted: http://i.imgur.com/KTs5jNj.png

3) By morning, a few hours later, both threads had been moved to an owners-only forum not viewable by admins or mods

4) That is where the long monster thread started as already posted above: http://i1.minus.com/iucNoEPFkxv12.png

All we wanted was honesty and to be treated with respect. It was not about money or greed as most, if not all, admins did not want to use referral links anywhere. Discussing any of these issues in private never produced any lasting result, and all admin forum discussion about it was trashed and removed from view (this wasn't the first time.) As these issues were ongoing and had become a pattern, things finally came to a head and unfortunately that meant almost all admins and mods leaving the group.

c'est la vie
-DG

EDIT: A few of the admins who also left have given their explanations in the next few posts.
For completeness, here is the explanation that was posted in the group's discussion forums. It has since been removed: http://i.imgur.com/jlsVnCw.png

EDIT 2: The owner now appears to have deleted all of his posts from this thread. Here is a screen cap of page 2 where most of the posts were that I had in an open tab from a few hours before the deletions: http://i4.minus.com/ibljTZ0wJvACir.png

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Thanks for your post, there's more information here than on the whole thread. I guess I'll be leaving the Hookups group now... wasn't even using it anyway, I just use Traders Guild.

1 decade ago
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That summed it up nicely, thanks.

1 decade ago
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Thanks for this, especially the ultra long thread, shed light on pretty much everything

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I speak alongside DG as a once loyal admin to Hookups. The referrals were never a huge issue for most of us and it was only when the lies surrounding them made us question how trustable the owner really was.

The money earned from referrals went from being only $5, to more than $5 but nothing to "brag" about to apparently paying his rent. The owner continued to shut off any discussion of the matter due to it being "pointless and uncontructive" and since the admin and moderators left we've actually taken more of a bad rep than the owner himself as he is still able to feed his lies to the members, twisting the truth as he goes.

It's a sad day as for many of the admin, Hookups was the only group we put real effort into, none of us ever wanted it to come to this. If you stick around in Hookups please just try to be aware of what links you are clicking on and try to view the evidence we will continue to provide carefuly to make up your own minds.

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Don't worry about it. I don't think anyone with half a brain would ever think there wasn't a major reason behind the voluntary and simultaneous exodus of an entire group of admin / mods.

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I'll try to bring your thread to the attention of other admin but most want this all just to go away. Sammy isn't making it very easy. That reminds me, expect him to show his lying face soon too. Please as a favour to us, would you edit your original post with any links to evidence provided along the way, would really help us out.

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Bot invited me to join more than a month ago,just joined to check out what the owner has to say but he does seems to be avoiding the questions asked.
Aand I'm outta the group after viewing the screenshots. :V

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He deletes all negative opinions over anything to do with his leadership skills, hookups as a group and even his attempt to sell a free shareware game from the 80's via Greenlight. Which is how he's able to lie so well, if we didn't record anything that had gone on, we'd have nothing to show you all.

He's also back on using what seems like random accounts to invite people back to the group, likely to cover the mass of people leaving.

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Just noticed that game.He even created an indiegogo page to get more money rofl.Pretty sure he used money he got from the referrals to get that game on greenlight.
Gotta admit he's pretty smart in deceiving people to earn money though.

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I'm not a member of hookups, but I know how popular the group is. So after reading DG's post here on SG, I'm shocked to see the owner acting in such a way. I'm actually very surprised he still has a team of admins. It's such a shame one of you guys can't take over.

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All the mods and admin (bar one) were all hired on the spot in chat last night. Every single mod and admin left the group. I think only 1-2 felt they should stay.

1 decade ago
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Wow.

Well at least the word is being spread thanks to chairmankao. Hopefully most of these forum readers will understand what happened and steer clear.

1 decade ago
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I wasn't amused when I read the post that he said he'd used some money to pay rent, I mean if it's enough to pay rent... that's definitely a very substantial amount.

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Struggles to pay rent yet has 1500 games on Steam and is level 32 ;)

1 decade ago
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gifts, including money from birthdays and Christmases over a few year period could easily account for that with a dirt poor person who struggles for rent.

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Either you are given absurdly high amounts of money for that time or there's no way that can be made. Also if I struggled to pay rent and was in financial problems I would not destinate a significant part of my income to buying one fifteen hundred games on steam.

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Getting a few hundred per gift giving effect is not abnormal in rich countries like the West.
Over five years, getting a thousand dollars together that you are supposed to spend on luxuries would be pretty average for a young adult, I would say. And you could buy 1500 games, purchased in the right way and at the right time, for about 1000.

Also if you are paying rent, what like 500 per month? Depends on location a lot. But putting 20 dollars aside is nothing (but can you like 20 games sometimes for that amount). Having 1500 games on Steam is less luxurious than having a coffee every day.

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If he had a somewhat comfortable margin to operate it would not be much. But you are forgetting that he struggles to pay rent. I understand that as he's often short of money, he also claims to have to jobs yet devotes 40+ weekly hours to gaming. That approximately 6 hours a day.

And also I don't consider having 1500 steam games, a superficial treat, to be more luxurious than having a coffee by any stretch of the imagination. By following your reasoning we could also say that eating everyday is more luxurious than having 1500 steam games.

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It is less luxurious than coffee simply because it costs less than coffee. A coffee, absolute minimum with tax is $1, and an average price would be at least $1.5, and $2 is not uncommon. And this is without anything special, and no bagel or doughnut, or muffin.

That is the price of an average Steam game on sale (bought in the right bundle or package, at least). So that is 300 games a year, and over 5 years you now have 1500. For the price of a coffee every day, you can either have a coffee, or buy every Steam release, eventually.

And you could do the same calculation with many other common luxury goods. Take pop as an example, most people spend more money on this negative nutritional beverage than it would take to own every Steam game.

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"Getting a few hundred per gift giving effect is not abnormal in rich countries like the West."

Surely if you got given a few hundred, AND you had problems paying your rent, you would put it on rent, not on steam games you're never gunna play ;)

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It is a gift, you are not allowed to spend those on daily necessities unless you are a jackass. And often they come in the form of Steam or other giftcards, to force you not to spent them on necessities.

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What? You are not allowed to spend gift money on basic necessities?

1 decade ago
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So, just to clarify, owning a $30,000 wooden shack with no electricity would be classed as more luxurious than owning a $28,000 diamond encrusted wristwatch, because it costs more?

I see.

Your logic is beyond reproach.

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You cannot compare luxuries to necessities.

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And you cannot compare things simply on the basis of cost, which is what you're trying to do.

A shack might be a luxury when your neighbours live in tents.

Regardless, just to ensure you're happy with the analogy, let's compare apples with apples:

  • Owning a $60 suit would be considered more luxurious than owning a $59 hand-made gobstopper?

  • Owning a $200 computer would be considered more luxurious than owning a $190 nail file?

  • Owning a $100,000 house would be considered more luxurious than owning a $99,000 car?

You see where I'm going? You can split hairs over which are luxuries and which are necessities all day long, but I'd say you'd have to be a slack-jawed simpleton or willfully obtuse not to be able to appreciate this concept.

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Every time you compare something that has some utility with something that is pure luxury, and that is why you keep coming to a warped view.

Apples and oranges.

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All of these simple utility object. House, car, computer, nail file. All serve a purpose and are utility objects.

As I say, you'd rather pick holes in an analogy rather than coming back to the basic point that to judge luxury on the single criterion of cost is simplistic to the point of juvenility.

However, as has been the trend with every last one of the "sock puppet" posters on this thread, I fully expect you to totally ignore the core issue and continue quibbling over peripheral points, thereby missing the issue entirely...

1 decade ago
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I don't think he gets it..

1 decade ago
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for bundles games and games on sale, coffee would be a bit more expensive but don't forget about the AAA games. Those still cost a pretty penny and he have quite a few of those.
Also, let's not forget that not every game is on sale for that low or bundled so those 300 would have stopped maybe along the third or fourth year.

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Every game gets deeply discounted at some point. Within a month you can normally get them 60% off.
Within a few years they will be in some publisher pack that is 92% off, or a humble bundle, or something.

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Not all AAAs, especially the ones like CoD.

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Some games gets bundle frequently, some games gets heavily discounted, most games get discounted, but not every game will have a discount. More often than not, it'll be the same games being bundled and having deep discounts too. True, within a month you can find the not-so-well received games for 60% off but the percent that you pay for will still cost more than a cup of coffee. The games that was well received will not drop in a penny though, Skyrim did just that for a long period of time. Even those publisher packs cost a pretty penny and they are not always available or on sale. Being in a humble bundle might happen in the future but haven't happened in the past except for origin.

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Not giving a fuck to him right now. His GF can cover for his ass like a picture has shown somewhere (girlfriend was writing instead of Scammy).

1 decade ago
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Or so we're led to believe..

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"I can't believe you alter the sliders on your humble bundles so that it all goes to only one category, that's IMMORAL and DUMB" / "It's immoral to use both keys in the Origin bundle! We don't know if it's an effective double license or single, BUT IMMORAL NO EXCEPTIONS!"

-> "Who cares if someone runs a steamgifts group for personal profit and lies to all its members and admin keep it that way? It's none of my business! Let's taunt and ignore people who object to it!"

Gotta love the way people are sometimes :P

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Hello guys,

I really did not want to write anything but i guess since there is a lot of misinformation i should. I want to keep this short (i wont lol).

The issue in the group that lead to most admnins/mods leaving was never about the use of referral links as the head keeps thinking. Even though we kept telling him that, I believe he never understood or believed it. The issue was about respect and about being truthful to your friends (at least I hope he looked at us as such because I did). When he started using referrals links (as far back as december) he hid it from most users and admins by using short links. This is fine btw. It is his group and he has the right to do as he wants. But then he started editing other people post (admins and members) to add his links into them too. Still fine but some admins took offense and asked him to stop. When bit.ly was banned on steam, some admins started to tell him to stop editing their post with referral links which lead him to edit the whole thread with "blah blah blah" and trash the thread.

Every time he was confronted, he always said it was for the benefit of the group which "appeased" the admins. Our posts were still edited (members post too) and the promise we would start seeing giveaways in the group by him was always flinged around. But every giveaway campaign he launched he left members make the giveaways. He hardly made any in the group until he was pressed by the group (last month). The events that lead to yesterday's actions were brewing for months. To his benefit he did gift me a game back in march (Far Cry 3).

Did the argument with some admin start when they ask about referrals? yes. but it quickly devolved into something else when he edited all of their post (leaving just 123) to make sure no other admins could see them. At that point, another admin not involved first made a post asking him to stop editing people post (not in relation with ref links, just in general) and he agreed to do better. That same admin then made a thread to ask him to stop editing our threads or deleting them. That thread was then deleted when another admin came in and said something about referrals (along the lines of "seems like a lot of hard work editing everyones post for $5") there are pictures of it somewhere. (all of this happened 2 days ago and was just the culmination of months of issues rising not just since july 28th which was a meeting we had to address some of those issues)

When this happened, this is when I got involved and made my post. You can find everything I posted here. nothing is edited nor changed, i have nothing to hid. It shows what the sentiment of every admin was and what was the issue. You can also see him lying, proof being shown that he lied and him still playing the victim. There is a lot of other images circulating around (a lot in this thread) showing other pictures of his editing.Also you can see that him saying that every admin told him to go f himself is not true. My send off message is right there. That is all I have to say really.

Would I recommend you to leave the group? No i wouldn't. Most of you are there to get deals and that is exactly what you will get there. Ref links are used by anyone and I do not find them to be an issue. What transpired in the group was not about money or ref links, rather respect. Lying to your friends, abusing them and using them for your own profit is not ok. This is what it all boiled down too, friends asking another friend to be truthful and that friend lying to the end, then admitting he lied and still played the victim (continues to do so).

To mods of SG, if i crossed the line and called out, please let me know so that I can delete this. This is the only platform where I can express this since a lot of members of the group visits this site. Again sorry if I broke any rule.

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+1 Much respect for you coming and clarifying what happened. Handled that situation a lot better than I would have.

1 decade ago
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It must have been a pain to write all this up, but it's always good to have the details/facts. Thanks for the clarification.

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Yes kinda. I felt that our side should also be up (with proof). He made us look like we were the bad guys. Not quite.

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Hello all (you may have seen me in some of the mod discussions).

I think another reason we decided to bring this to everyone's attention is not so that tons of members would leave. We knew that the majority would stay simply for the deals. Member can leave at their own free will if they feel that what hookups do is not doing the right thing.

If anything, we are warning any future mods of Hookups what goes on behind closed doors. Right now, Sammy is desperately trying to recruit more mods (just by simply asking random members in chat who wants to be a mod) although if you are considering this, then I do push you to read all that mods have discussed here. Sammy will make the mods and admins do 90% of the hard work for his personal gain. That is exactly the reason he is trying so hard to get more mods at the moment. Sammy knows that he cannot do it alone (even though he claims that hookups is all HIS hard work) and all the announcements posted to every member was the combined effort of ALL previous mods and admin. I am sure you will see the quality of Hookups announcements decreasing now that all loyal mods and admin have left his side after how they were treated with such disregard.

Some of the Admin who left the group on the day of the announcement were there since day one (DGman for example) and helped mold Hookups into what it had become. Without these hard working, loyal and respectful Admins, Hookups would be no where near what it had become. So when Sammy claims that Hookups is ALL HIS hard work, it disgusts me. These admin went through hell trying to talk sense into Sammy and wouldn't have just left over a pathetic little argument, they had come to the end of their tether and felt that leaving the group was their only option.

Hopefully some time soon, Sammy will realize what he has lost by treating the mods and admin like he did and pushing them away from the group. At the end of it all, he has lost admin and mods who worked their *&#@ off for the group for no gain what so ever, and HE was the only one who expected a financial reward.

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I understand a lot of you are upset right now, but after reading the very last post in this, I couldn't help but laugh.

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I wouldn't say upset, but saddened though. And yes, we all did get a good laugh out of that last post :)

1 decade ago
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Yeah that put a pretty fun spin on the generally rubbish situation we were all in.

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I remember getting spammed invites into that group.. never joined it though due to the random invites with no one saying anything to me other than just the invite. Never liked it when people randomly invited me to groups in MMOs, don't like it on steam either. ( Same with random friend requests lol. )

Sorry that things went the way it did for you guys.

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I've thought about this and decided I'll let this stay up, if only for clarity. While this is a technical violation of the no-calling out rule (probably), this affects a very large number of people who may not appreciate lining someone's pockets, deal or not. I'll talk with the rest of the SG mods when more of them are online about what, if anything, should be done regarding this here, as we have a habit of banning scammers on sight. Is this a scam? In my mind, yes, because he was untruthful about where the money was going and how much he was making, not to mention the really sleazy practice of editing links in to benefit him and the deletion of evidence. However, this case is unique enough that I will simply sit back for now and watch it unfold, bringing it up with the mods later. Thank you to all the admins of Hookups who contributed to this discussion, your input is appreciated.

Edit: For further clarity, I've been told that Sammy came to the SG chat a while back and asked for this thread to be deleted as well. Straight pastebin.

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Welcome. Thanks for the reply.

1 decade ago
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Which is why this forum rules. Appreciate the open discussion, jade.

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So do we!

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Another thing I'd like to say is that we don't have a platform to reveal our side of events or the things that really took place as Sammy proceeded to kick us all from the group (or at least attempted to) when we expressed that we no longer wished to be part of Hookups. Therefor SteamGifts is very helpful in allowing us to say our part and hopefully lay this entire thing to rest.

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To quote the last line of his explanation here (Members only link): http://steamcommunity.com/groups/Hookups/discussions/13/846963081221997566/

"I will put your questions in the opening post, but if the questions are hostile then they will be removed along with you,I will answer them as best as I can."

It would be impossible for us to have this discussion within the Group's forum.

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And what he means by hostile, is anything negative to his beliefs. But to second DG, without steamgifts we'd never been able to get our story out to as many members of Hookups, Sammy would never allow us to.

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Thank you very much Jade. And him wanting this thread deleted is no surprise.

1 decade ago
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You can check his support ticket for my reply to him.

1 decade ago
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Damn rouge admins. What next? Reds under the bed?

Where's Joseph McCarthy when he's needed?

Props for not allowing the censorship of this sorry tale to extend to Steamgifts.
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I miss Teen Titans. D:

1 decade ago
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:D

Nick Leeson: Rouge trader?

1 decade ago
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Dammit you stole my rouge. I was going to post about that.

1 decade ago
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Easy, tiger! Don't let the read mist descend...

:)

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But how can I when I feel angry like a rabbit dog?

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Hi there former Hookups admin here. I first want to thank you all for getting the full picture. This chat would have never been allowed in Hookups because the owner constantly deleted or edited things that pissed him off. He was told multiple times by myself and other staff that his approach to deleting stuff when it wasn't what he wanted to hear was disrespectful to the staff as not everything one person says will be agreed on. That's simply a fact of life.

Instead of speaking to us like adults more often that not the Owner (Sammy) would shrug it off, say sorry and just provide lip service to those he disrespected without ever changing. To be curt this past instance we got tired of the bullshit and dismissive attitude he had towards us. Again, I myself made a separate thread in regards to not deleting our posts and editing members posts, which was discovered he was doing that too and it was shortly deleted and moved to an Owner's forum, where the rest of us could not see or access.

http://i.imgur.com/KTs5jNj.png

This led to the much larger confrontation thread made by Xamon ( http://i1.minus.com/iucNoEPFkxv12.png )because he purposely kept dodging our requests to not do that and instead just did it again because he was pissed. The problem is Sammy is often ruled by his emotions and lashes out at staff when we speak opinions that don't agree with his view point. This strongarm tactic could no longer be ignored. If you are working with people as a team things aren't going to work out if the people you are working with are constantly disrespected. Unfortunately Sammy refuses to take any criticism as he deletes posts all the time when someone says something bad, even if someone posted on his Greenlight page for his game he'd delete the comments.

I could not continue helping a person like that. I took absolutely NOTHING from Hookups. I never got any free games, never used any of the sellers deals and only participated to help the group. I never even asked that my work be recognized or praised. I did it for the members. The only thing I asked was that the owner respected us and he couldn't even do that. Therefore it was time for me to leave.

I would like to thank the staff at Steamgifts for allowing this thread and I respect that they would allow us to tell our side of the situation.

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You had a lot of patience Phyre. I was genuinely interested in everything you had to say because for me, you made the most sense. It's a shame there's no option to "overthrow" group owners. Would be interesting to see how many people backed you guys up and how alone Sammy really was.

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I want to clarify two things to the users who contribute to this thread.

  1. This is indeed calling out. While I understand that this event has caused unrest for a large amount of users who also use SteamGifts, please understand that the group owner is also a SteamGifts user, and as you know, calling out other users are not allowed no matter what they've done. Please know and understand this.
    The only reason (for me) I haven't closed this thread is because most of the stuff being discussed here does not involve SteamGifts or SteamTrades in any way. Not knowing and not caring about Hookups has some part in it too, no offense to those that use(d) Hookups.

  2. As I said, so far nothing in this thread involves SteamGifts, thus, the group owner's account here will not be affected over the actions he has taken in his group. It's his group, his business, not ours (yet).

So yeah, considering the censorship there, feel free to continue using this thread as a place of discussion.

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Aren't you the one who is naming the person, unlike OP who is saying "Owner"?

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smartass

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What a weird name

1 decade ago
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I lull

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Fine, edited, but if you have read the topic, you'll see ex-mods / ex-admins naming the person all the time. We all know who he is. You don't need to mention a user's full name to "call out". If people can figure out who it is, it doesn't matter how you name him.

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I am very sorry about that Crossbourne and I thank you that you allow us to express ourselves. This is appreciated.

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I for one did not know the guy behind hookups had a steamgifts account, only after your reply I knew that he had one and also knew what his name was, just sayin' naming him doesn't help the situation.

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His SteamGifts account isn't named as that, but yeah, I appreciate the concern.

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Weird .. "No forum found" :-S

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Left that group anyway. You could see it was run for profit when it started looking like an expensive steam trades thread. Not suprised referral links were used and that he is earning from it. His attitude and actions are the worst part. Were other mods using referral links too and thats why they didnt like their posts being edited ?

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No he was the only one using referrals in the group. Noone else used it in Hookups ever. Also the issue wasnt really about referrals. just check my post or phyrematrix or DGMan or Slipslot or Lewislol, to see what it was about

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Yeah i know it was editing and deleting posts etc just wondered if anyone else earned from it. Thanks though that clears that up. I kind of have an issue with the referrals because of how he has lied about it. I mean coming up with i need it for my rent and saying he has 2 jobs and school. Then he has a level 32 account with 1,500 games. Not really the kind of account you would expect to see for someone who is too poor to pay rent.

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honestly its exactly what id expect he's patently spending too much on games not enough on important stuff like yknow rent :)

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Closed 1 decade ago by chairmankao.