Oh, and if she rejects, it will just become awkward if both of you are making it awkward... It's not because eveyone says no, don't it can be awkward that it has to be like that... (I actually became closer (as a friend) of a few people after asking them out... :o)
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Do you know anything about body language? When you two talk, how does her body looks like? Is her body facing directly to you? Is she looking at you or she is constantly looking somewhere else? Her hands and legs are open or closed? Does her body lean towards you? Does she open conversations with you or are you always the one that starts the talking? Do you suspect that she is interested into you? If yes, why do you suspect that?
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Basically if you fuck it up, you will be friends for life 'cause no harm asking her out, if lucky "fuckbuddies" if both remain single for a while and a decent friendship post-work.
If successfull, serious relationship that could lead into marriage + babies, which could end up in divorce and you having drinking problems in the future. Not to mention problems @ work.
Idk man, i think i would stay in between both options, i would ask her out but keep my priorities on top and just bang her. Last thing i would want is to have my life messed up later on because of some retarded reason or the lack of love/communication between a couple. Anyways that's probably what she wants, get banged and have someone to talk with.
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"Ask her, if she rejects, ask her friends out"
Fixed.
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It's little confusing situation but I think the best you can do is to predefine your intentions. Ask her in a kind way(obviously) if she like to go out with you and if she doesn't want, tell her that is totally fine with you and you can still be friends like before. Say that before you get a yay or nay. Or something like that, you get the idea.
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Mistake #1: Getting so caught up in her looks. Don't let her looks throw you ever. Treat her like she's an average looking girl at best. (Don't constantly talk about her looks, rarely give her compliments on her looks.)
Mistake #2: Thinking she's out of your league. You can get any girl you try to. Think like this.
Mistake #3: Insecurity is a major put off, and it tends to shine through in our actions. Fix what is making you insecure.
Mistake #4: Seeing yourself as "run-down" by life. You are just in a temporary rough patch, you'll soon be out of it and you are working towards a goal. Think like this.
Mistake #5: Fearing the consequences of your failure. Who cares if she makes things awkward at work afterwards? You won't make things awkward, and if she does, it's her loss.
Be comfortable in your own skin, establish your natural masculine presence, be fun and flirtatious, and create an opportunity for sex to happen. Then just take it from there, good luck mate
If you want some stuff to look up, go on to YouTube and search in "The Black Phillip Show" also search for "Coach Corey Wayne"
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Only you really knows.. at what point is your relationship.. maybe ask her out to go to a movie or a something elee but without pushing it as being a date. You gotta get a feel of how you handle one-another outside of work, in-time you should be able to tell if it's really clicking between you, if she's interested in something more serious like you'd like it to be or else. Interacting in a work environment is not like interacting out in the wild.. pace yourself :P
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use CHLOROFORM:D its solution for all problems...for girls too:P
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Chloroform yourself and hope she takes advantage of you.
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Just go for it.
Worst comes to worst its a bit weird for a while.
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Do it! Worst that can happen is that she rejects an invitation, but hey, you may regret ur whole life if u hadn't. And don't worry about your relations with her if she does reject you, it's not like you're 24h with her at work.
On the other hand - it may also be an advantage you're working together - looks like you've got lots in common (and by it I don't mean the workplace or job, but interests and such things - she wouldn't be working there if she wasn't interested in at least few same things as you are [unless u work because u must and u hate your job xD])
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She's so beautiful, but I feel that she's way out of my league. We are joking around and talking a lot, she thinks I'm funny and I think she kinda likes me (kinda). I am thinking of asking her out, but I'm a bit insecure about myself (not like I'm ugly, just a bit run-down by life haha). We also work together so it might be awkward if she rejects and then just work alongside each other.
It's been a while since I last dated, I broke up with my last girlfriend around 1/1,5 years ago and haven't really been in the game since then.
Anyway, any suggestions? Have you been in a similar situation? Have you succeed?
(p.s. I know it's not gaming related in any way, but I like to look at the forum as a "forum" a place for general discussion as well.
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