She's so beautiful, but I feel that she's way out of my league. We are joking around and talking a lot, she thinks I'm funny and I think she kinda likes me (kinda). I am thinking of asking her out, but I'm a bit insecure about myself (not like I'm ugly, just a bit run-down by life haha). We also work together so it might be awkward if she rejects and then just work alongside each other.

It's been a while since I last dated, I broke up with my last girlfriend around 1/1,5 years ago and haven't really been in the game since then.

Anyway, any suggestions? Have you been in a similar situation? Have you succeed?

(p.s. I know it's not gaming related in any way, but I like to look at the forum as a "forum" a place for general discussion as well.

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Well, the best thing to do is yolo...

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Quote Ublala Pung - "I want to sex you." It works. Often. Sometimes. Seldom. Rarely? Maybe? Never? Nevermind. Belay that. I'm not good at it either.

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Starting by thinking there are "leagues" is the worst thing you can do... Actually, this "leagues" thing is probably one of the most stupid thing in relationships, imho...

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Oh, and if she rejects, it will just become awkward if both of you are making it awkward... It's not because eveyone says no, don't it can be awkward that it has to be like that... (I actually became closer (as a friend) of a few people after asking them out... :o)

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Do you know anything about body language? When you two talk, how does her body looks like? Is her body facing directly to you? Is she looking at you or she is constantly looking somewhere else? Her hands and legs are open or closed? Does her body lean towards you? Does she open conversations with you or are you always the one that starts the talking? Do you suspect that she is interested into you? If yes, why do you suspect that?

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I sometimes use my body language to misinform other people subconscious mind.

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You can make dumb people believe you, but your body language will betray you eventually. :)

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Basically if you fuck it up, you will be friends for life 'cause no harm asking her out, if lucky "fuckbuddies" if both remain single for a while and a decent friendship post-work.

If successfull, serious relationship that could lead into marriage + babies, which could end up in divorce and you having drinking problems in the future. Not to mention problems @ work.

Idk man, i think i would stay in between both options, i would ask her out but keep my priorities on top and just bang her. Last thing i would want is to have my life messed up later on because of some retarded reason or the lack of love/communication between a couple. Anyways that's probably what she wants, get banged and have someone to talk with.

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Without reading the thread I bet the advice "Be cool..." is in here a minimum of ten times.

Because we all know the reason why Marilyn Monroe ended up marrying Arthur Miller was because of his epic impersonation of The Fonz...

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Ask her. If she rejects, ask to stay friends.

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"Ask her, if she rejects, ask her friends out"

Fixed.

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I was in this same situation a year ago.

I asked her.

She looked at me but didn't say anything.

I quit my job the next day.

I think I could have handled that better.

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Maybe she was a mute.

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and she still cries her eyes out for her Schizophriend who left.

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We were talking for months before I asked.

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If her silence was too long, I would have told her something like "C'mon, really? What the fuck is wrong with you?". Because, people like that, who don't even care about others' feelings, just suck.

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Should have been like "Hey GURL if you not down, you a fat clown, PEACE".

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It's little confusing situation but I think the best you can do is to predefine your intentions. Ask her in a kind way(obviously) if she like to go out with you and if she doesn't want, tell her that is totally fine with you and you can still be friends like before. Say that before you get a yay or nay. Or something like that, you get the idea.

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"Don't get your honey where you make your money."

Unless you're in the business of raising honeybees.

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Mistake #1: Getting so caught up in her looks. Don't let her looks throw you ever. Treat her like she's an average looking girl at best. (Don't constantly talk about her looks, rarely give her compliments on her looks.)

Mistake #2: Thinking she's out of your league. You can get any girl you try to. Think like this.

Mistake #3: Insecurity is a major put off, and it tends to shine through in our actions. Fix what is making you insecure.

Mistake #4: Seeing yourself as "run-down" by life. You are just in a temporary rough patch, you'll soon be out of it and you are working towards a goal. Think like this.

Mistake #5: Fearing the consequences of your failure. Who cares if she makes things awkward at work afterwards? You won't make things awkward, and if she does, it's her loss.

Be comfortable in your own skin, establish your natural masculine presence, be fun and flirtatious, and create an opportunity for sex to happen. Then just take it from there, good luck mate

If you want some stuff to look up, go on to YouTube and search in "The Black Phillip Show" also search for "Coach Corey Wayne"

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Only you really knows.. at what point is your relationship.. maybe ask her out to go to a movie or a something elee but without pushing it as being a date. You gotta get a feel of how you handle one-another outside of work, in-time you should be able to tell if it's really clicking between you, if she's interested in something more serious like you'd like it to be or else. Interacting in a work environment is not like interacting out in the wild.. pace yourself :P

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Personally, I don't hit on any woman at work (her's or mine), ever. I find its disrespectful. They're there to pay the rent, not to be the object of my lust. One can still be polite and courteous, though.

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Fuck her right in the pussy.
On second thought, this probably isn't the best place to ask.

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Both of these are correct.

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you have to try it dude - if not you will regret it. Latest point when another guy will date her in front of your eyes

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use CHLOROFORM:D its solution for all problems...for girls too:P

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Just think, what would Jesus do? Jesus would smash the fuck out of that pussy. She's dripping, trust me mate. Go for it :)

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Chloroform yourself and hope she takes advantage of you.

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dont ever date girls from your workplace

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Try to invite her to launch, and see how it goes.

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Did you bang her already OP?

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Just go for it.

Worst comes to worst its a bit weird for a while.

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Do it! Worst that can happen is that she rejects an invitation, but hey, you may regret ur whole life if u hadn't. And don't worry about your relations with her if she does reject you, it's not like you're 24h with her at work.

On the other hand - it may also be an advantage you're working together - looks like you've got lots in common (and by it I don't mean the workplace or job, but interests and such things - she wouldn't be working there if she wasn't interested in at least few same things as you are [unless u work because u must and u hate your job xD])

YOLO ;)

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yolo dude, go for it.

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