Ohai beautiful people!

So I mostly see people complaining about the blacklists they’ve been added to, wanting to know what they did to deserve a spot on the dark side of SG... but I don’t recall people asking why they were whitelisted. So this is why I’m here today.

Don’t get me wrong. It’s not that I don’t like being on whitelists, we all do, I suppose. It’s just that... I don’t care about knowing the reasons behind the blacklisting but weirdly enough, when I find myself whitelisted, especially by someone I don’t remember having interacted with, I get a huge mild tiny WTF moment that leaves me wondering why... Why did you add me to your WL? Is it something I said? A kitty gif I posted? My avatar? Is it because I try to not GA only crap games and you want a chance to win, while only gifting stuff from DIG, Otaku and the like?

What I'm trying to say is... am I the only one wondering why I’ve got whitelisted?

Also, sorry for the ramblings, I blame alcohol. Southern Comfort, actually. And Janis Joplin. Southern Comfort was Janis’ favorite liquid goodness.

Here, have a litlle bit of Janis and a lvl2+ GA, which is ending in a couple hours.

EDIT : People, you are all nice and I would totally hug each one of you, but please stop adding me to your whitelist! I hardly enter GA's anyway. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Unrelated cat pic in 3, 2, 1...

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It's probably your GA level.

6 years ago
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Start wondering

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Well from the comments here, I'd say my ratio seems to be what gets me on WL. O_o

6 years ago
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Bump!

I also get curious when I land on someone's whitelist. Maybe yours is your generous ratio or adorable cat pics :P

6 years ago
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I sure hope it's the kitty pictures. :3

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I'm yet to wonder about that... So I think there's something good about not being whitelisted at all: fewer things to be confused about.

6 years ago
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Sometimes I whitelist people because of good ratio. Example below

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I'm just not very good at leeching. ;_;

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Ratio is one reason, active/contributing on the forums, generally being nice or helpful, many reasons to give a WL. Welcome to mine :-)

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That's really nice of you, Stevey... but you know, I hardly enter giveaways nowadays. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Well if you decide you want to, you have the choice to :)

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Because!
and no you are not the only one that wonders :3

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You are so freaking adorable. (you're a cat, right?)

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maaaybeee ....

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Definitely! I understand people randomly checking profiles and adding them to either list based on their findings, but I also received some during inactivity so I don't know.
Personally I used to whitelist everyone with a good ratio, but nowadays I keep it to people playing their games because I'd like to safely giveaway wishlisted games as well.

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I can't remember why I whitelisted you, it was a year ago according to the SG's whitelist page. I should start making notes for people I whitelist. I also have you on steam friends list but can't remember interactions with you, I assume we traded at one point.

Anyway I assume most people whitelist you because of your ratio. I don't whitelist for such things though, which would mean you're probably a nice and positive person.

I don't concern myself with why people white or black list me anymore. Sometimes I'm really nice and sometimes I'm a jerk, so I "deserve" both lists I guess. It's up to people to decide which side of me they like or hate more.

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Your statement reminds me of my favorite scenes from Blackadder:

"Edmund, explain yourself!"

"I can't. I'm a complicated man. Sometimes I'm nice, and sometimes I'm nasty! And sometimes... I just want to sing a song about a goblin."

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You are in my whitelist since 2 weeks ago, I am 100% sure it was because of your ratio ^^

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I'm on two blacklists right now and it happened after I called someone out for leaving automated comments on giveaways. I guess those people thought the calling out was just random rudeness. But I guess I was indeed kinda rude. I apologized to the guy afterwards.

I whitelist people when they have a good ratio and if I have the time I like to check out their Steam profile to see if they actually play games. Often when something makes me laugh I instatnly whitelist the person in the absence of an "upvote" option.

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Oh Lord, won't you buy me an SG GA!

6 years ago
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No, but you can have a Mercedes Benz if you want. :3

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Whitelisted. And I wont even tell you why >:D

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I'm very curious about why i'm on a wl, but also why i'm on a bl XD

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Because of your demeanor. You're kind-hearted, soft-spoken. and humble.
It also helps that a friend I respect spoke very highly of you.

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And that only proves you don't know me well.. I do have a very cynical, sarcastic, bitchy side. I just never really expressed that part of me here. :3

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I know you well enough to know that you sell yourself short.
And you're terrible at accepting random gifts. ;)

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but I don’t recall people asking why they were whitelisted

But why would I ask that? After all, I already know that I was whitelisted without reason. :P

Southern Comfort

Man, I haven't had SoCo in forever. I'll have to pick some up the next time I've got money for it.

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I hope you didn't expect me to remember a 2 year old thread... or use the search function. too lazy for that, I guess ;)

SouthernCo is delicious... I had it mixed with orange juice. It's terribly simple, yet quite tasty.

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I always wander the same

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Yeah, it can be a bit awkward, having to explain why someone ended up on your whitelist when you barely had any interactions with the said person, but in my book, it's perfectly reasonable to whitelist users who come across as decent/nice persons and contribute to the forums through level headed, well written and intelligent posts. Generosity, having a good sense of humor and sharing similar values/views are also good reasons to WL someone.

I would rather have it that way than make a public WL recruitment based on ratio/level alone, since most of the recruited users will reciprocate and it just ends up as trading "whitelists for whitelists", which, I take it, is rather frowned upon by the community. I may be wrong, but I like to view this place as more than just about gifting/wining games.

Anyway, don't fret about it :) That's just karma, if you do something good, it would come back to you and you get rewarded, it's just a way for people to show appreciation.

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Hi pal. Welcome to my 💙. The reason? Some...You seems a nice fellow...you are a good SG contributor...it is Easter Day....and I love you friend =D. God bless you.

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Whitelisted! ;D

These are the things I look for when whitelisting someone:

  • They play their wins (1/3 played minimum)
  • They have at least an OK ratio (close to 1:1 , or better)
  • They've given away good games (extra points for unbundled, but not necessary)
  • They do whitelist giveaways (participate in the 'whitelist giveaway community' so to speak)
  • They are nice and helpful members of the community.
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I always wonder, and it's always a mystery.

Over the past week I've gotten onto 4 Whitelists and just today I got onto 3 Blacklists. I'm delighted and puzzled by the Whitelists, and disappointed and perplexed by the Blacklists. I can guess as to why, but I'll never really know.

But I figure as long as the Whitelists greatly outnumber the Blacklists, I'm doing something right, so I'll keep doing what I do and keep being delighted by the Whitelists while not worrying about the Blacklists.

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I always wonder those things, how do you get into whitelists? hahahah
I don't get into any since I'm poor and can only give away cheap games from bundles, but I think it's a really nice gesture, and you seem to be a very nice person, so I guess it would be because of that or/and your ratio :P
But of course, the most important reason, the cat gifs. That's it, for sure.

I normally don't care when people blacklist me for whatever reasons, but I am until today very sad of the time when I had a missunderstanding with an owner of a group because of something that wasn't even on the rules and from night to day I got blacklisted by 12 people because of that, and I hadn't even done anything wrong, I got a little bit traumatized ever since (T⌓T)

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And I wonder--
I wah-wah-wah-wah-wonder,
Why,
Why, why, why, why, why she ran away,

I'm sorry

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I used to ask that on WL GAs, but quickly realized the explanations hinted on me being an asshole for others entertainment.
It's even better when neither you or the whitelister know how you end up in there

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