I was wondering what you do when you go to bed to help you fall asleep/sleep well.

I just recently got into the idea of ASMR which I thought was a complete bullshit at first but when I tried listening to some videos just out of curiousity, I couldn’t deny the fact that I actually kind of liked it. I know a lot of people like listening to music while falling asleep but that doesn’t really work for me. Watching something sounds good but I try to avoid watching a PC/TV screen right before going to sleep but sometimes I just use the TV to listen to something while not watching the screen. I don’t really read books but sometimes I listen to some narrated stories and find it pretty good too. What about you? :)

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What do you do when you go to bed to help you fall asleep/sleep well?

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Nothing, I just go to sleep
Listen to music
Watch TV/movies/series/videos/streams
Read a book
Listen to ASMR videos
Listen to audiobooks and narrated stories
Listen to poetry
Something I forgot - comments :)

greetings friend. i had almost two weeks of insomnia, the feeling was terrible. i tried working for the whole day without break, i tried not sleeping for the whole day (i would fall asleep at 5:00 and then sleep till 12:00 at least). drinking warm milk before sleep, i tried literally anything.
what helped me in the end was listening to podcasts. i haven't even listened to podcasts before. then i finally got to sleep at 2:00 and gradually restored my routine.
just choose one whichever suits you, you have plenty of choice.

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I've always had trouble getting ( and staying ) asleep.

Reading is usually a good way to put me to sleep, but it usually results in me losing my place in the book, and I have to read back a few pages where I wasn't paying attention fully, so I don't like it so much.

The preferable method these days is to put on a tv show or movie, something that I have seen a hundred times, but not something I'm bored of. If I'm not engaged with it, if it's not something I'm interested in watching, my brain will wander and I wont drift off.

So, a random Columbo or Ancient Aliens episode. Nothing too exciting, or loud or jumpy.

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Not sure if anyone has mentioned it but I like listening to ambient noise when I fall asleep specifically from https://asoftmurmur.com/
I am obsessed with the site, have been for a year or so now, there's an app for it too. Good stuff, I highly recommend it.
I'll usually set mine at rain, thunder, waves, fire, and the singing bowl then click on the meander setting so that the volume on all the sounds I chose go up and down randomly so it's not one constant stream of the same noise.
It also helps that I like falling asleep in cold rooms so I'll have the fan pointed at me and it'll give the room a chilly feeling like on a rainy night and that soothes me quite a bit.

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Ambient noise and podcasts, don't know how I could've forgotten about these two when I was creating the poll... Thank you for the suggestion!

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Big thanks to everybody participating in this discussion. You guys suggested so many ideas that I guess I'll need a couple of nights to try them all haha. I only reply to comments that I actually have something to say to but I've read them all and will continue reading them. I really appreciate it and I guess (and hope) I'm not the only one who learned something new here. Just wanted to say that.

Sleep well guys! :)

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So now you spend nights awake trying out all the things to make you fall asleep? :)

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Visualize yourself relaxing in an exotic place and packing all your troubles in a box to be stored away in a closet.

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Taking a shower right before bed.

Also, using allergy encasements for both mattress & pillows can help for people who have trouble falling asleep. Apparently, it's pretty common for people to be unable to sleep with dust mites from their who-knows-how-old mattresses & pillows climbing through and crawling all over their skin. (The reality is it's their poop that most people react to.)

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Only one thing never fails me, leave all lights and devices on and try to stay awake waiting for something and close your eyes just for a sec to rest them.

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Normally Reading something on my Kindle.

Been reading Tragedy books lately and its kinda not helping me sleep. (Flowers for Algernon currently)
I do that tell i feel ready to go to sleep.

Also , yawning really helps me go to sleep. i mean like force yawning even if i dont want to.

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I watch twitch streams

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Insomnia has been a huge part of my life since I was a kid (not kidding, I had no-sleep nights when I was 8). Worked some late night jobs because of it, which probably didn't help my internal clock. Things did improve tremendously when I started sleeping close to my lady (I just relax around her like I never did with anyone or anything, including weed) but her work and my work don't always sync so I still have bouts with insomnia. Anyway long story short, a friend of mine uses this trick of putting a few drops of cinnamon essential oil on her pillow. Reminds her of her grandma's house. She says it makes her relax.

So I tried it with my almond oil. Reminds me of my lady's shampoo 😎. Works like a charm. Most likely it's just because I breathe more deeply and it helps me relax and fall asleep and since it's purely reflex, my brain doesn't fight it (like it does with counting tricks and other things I tried). So maybe find something that smells pleasant to you, put a few drops on your pillow or a tissue near you and give it a try. Hope it helps

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clear mind

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I browse Reddit on my phone until the sleep deprivation kicks in like an elephant tranquilizer

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I only have this problem in the morning, when the puppy wakes me up and I can't get back to sleep. I don't have a solution to that one.

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i just close my eyes and fall asleep almost instantly. what you do during the day and the sleep/woke cycle is more important than what you do in that specific moment.

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Try not to sleep for a day ;D

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