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Lotsa people talking about comments. Well, since I'm a damn baby to this site I don't know much, but I can think of a few reasons why less discussions are being created?

First one I've got it less new members, so less people creating discussions asking how the site works, or maybe those that would instead just read the FAQ -- or don't even ask for fear of blacklist.

Other one might be that the site has seen a lot of changes, meaning less bugs/suggestions being made (also less complaints, heh).

And I guess finally, there are a collection of 'streamlined' threads. Discussions which have the entire purpose of being for say, listing the current bundles, or for posting coupons/keys. No need for making a new discussion altogether.

These are the kinds of reasons I can think of that aren't really that negative at all, just things that happen with a site getting older. I'm sure there are a lot more cynical explanations I have yet to learn :S

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Honestly, I care less about SG when PC culture was more widely introduced. When the I'm better than, XYZ became a thing. When the Mr meeseeks users wants attention so bad is annoying because they personalities are beyond themselves.

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I also get the feeling that a lot of people quit SG or stopped visiting the site regularly. They're still registered users, but probably got tired of not winning anything after entering millions (okay maybe like 100) giveaways!

I miss the time when I could check the forum list every day and find 4 trains and 2 puzzle threads at least.

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Well ... maybe if people stop blacklisting everyone when they slightly disagree with a topic or comment they made ... that would help people get out of their shells :p

Trying not to offend anyone has become close to imposible nowadays , cause of the special snowflakes .
So having an opinion that may differ from the masses will surely land you in a blacklist somewhere .

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I mean, I respect people being allowed to blacklist whoever they want... but yeah, totally. I think I earned a blacklist or two for saying traps are not gay??? T_T

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Blacklisted for triggering me.

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Well, many of the users that actively started discussions and drove them forward had either left or stopped being that much active. Us, the lurkers, are still here but we don't really talk all that much.
There's also the very real and tangible fear of being blacklisted, even if doesn't really stop me from using the site as I normally do to be blacklisted by a few dozen users it does send me the message that my opinions aren't welcomed, I imagine I'm not the only one that thinks twice before writing a comment.
This other reason is a lot more personal but I might not be the only one so I gonna share it too, I've thought about making threads about certain things to then backtrack and not do them multiple times. Sometimes they were some dumb or quirky idea that I thought might be fun and some other times they were more personal things that I wanted to ask people their opinions about, I've even wrote entire comments in some of those threads about asking people for help but instead of clicking submit I closed the tab, and it's always because of shyness and fear of being harshly judged. A lot of people say that this site is for game related things and nothing more and lash against anybody that touches another subject in a discussion, so while at first glance this seems like a welcoming and friendly community there's always that lingering doubt that if I cross some sort of unspoken limit of the allowed themes of discussion I'll be met by the not so friendly and even a bit toxic side of this community. I must admit that I'm also guilty of keeping a facade of over politeness in here to not rub anyone the wrong way, I actually admire those brave enough to just be themselves and consecuences be damned.

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DO IT!! :)

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Lack of interesting Steam sales and change in Steam gifting may figure into it somewhat.

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It seems like blacklists are being mentioned a lot in this conversation. I said when it was implemented that there would be problems from them but it's not my website so I don't care how many hits it gets though if it was mine I would see this trend as discouraging and try to figure out what is going wrong. Are we here to give games away and try to win some too or are we here to judge others that we've never even met based on some posts on a website? That's what this place seems to promote these days. If I liked someone enough that I felt like giving them a game I don't need this website to do it on nor to brag about how many times I've done it or ask for a pat on the back because I did it.

I'm also going to take a road less traveled (and will probably get me on some more blacklists) and say that creating giveaways with sgtools is an issue for some of us old timers to the site that believe that using it is yet another way of making your own giveaway rules that are far and above that which is allowed by SG, and that used to NEVER be allowed. Just like this new trend of adding a comment to giveaways stating "if the key is invalid you agree to cancel this giveaway" (which doesn't mean squat). That's not how this site works and I still can't figure out how sgtools was allowed as an exception to the rule and I don't care anymore. Nor do I want 100 opinionated explanations of the matter from 100 different people. Emphasis on the I don't care anymore.

Then there's all of the shitposts. So many shitposts. I see enough of them just trying to keep up with friends and family on Facebook. I don't need a backup shitpost source but if I ever felt like I did this would be the first site I would come to. I never used to feel that way coming here but I feel far from welcome here anymore and there's nothing welcoming new users either except constant discussions like this one discussing the current state of the site.

Would you want to come here if you just read only the comments in this discussion before making the decision? I sure wouldn't. Not worth the drama.

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I think that's a pretty good point about sgtools actually..

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As the amount of trash given away has increased, the amount of forum activity has decreased.

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I see that people have already identified the reasons, but since doing that without suggesting how to deal with it is fruitless, here are some suggestions:

1) remake or ask the original creator to recreate old and important threads in order to breath some fresh air into them. Some interesting threads died because they have 100 pages of people that aren't even here anymore. Some of them takes forever to load, like the selfie thread - mostly because it's full of comments and pictures of people that don't use SG anymore. There are at least 4-5 nice threads that could use a "new coat of paint"
2) We could remove BL/WL for a week and see how that goes. For science xD
3) 2 different BLs. One for joining GAs, one for comments.
4) We could prohibit bumps or at least excessive bumping. They create a false sense of importance and makes some not-so-important threads stay at the top while more interesting ones, the ones that could generate discussion stay below and therefore hidden.

That's all I could come up with in 5 minutes.

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We could also reshape the bumping system altogether, where a bump only let's appear at the top after a certain amount of time has passed, so that bumps still have an effect, but excessive bumping has diminishing returns.

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Discussions here are not that easy tbh.

I see different reasons for that:

  1. We, the community

    • Topics without a GA will often die without a lot of answers
    • Topic with GA will coverd in "Bumps" without any meaningfull content.
    • People are afraid to say what they think because they might be get a blacklist
  2. The forum by itself
    The organisation of the forum is not that great. Group Recruitment and Let's Play Together are more or less death. Offtopic is a place for "lists" and "awareness" topics (they are not bad but not a real discussion). It would need a new organisation with mods for different topics (Hardware Talk, Game Talk, Film & Music, Events...). So a real place where we could talk about new games on steam, share trailers of movies, help on computerproblems or even have good political discussions (last one would need a good mod).

Also a simple "bump" or "like" button would be way better than thousand "Bump" posts... It would at first lower the post numbers a lot but the quality of the posts would rise.

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I always felt like the Let's Play Together had so much wasted potential. It's the part of this forum that could really bring people together, that could make this more like a community rather than just a place to leech win free stuff, but as you said, it's unfortunately dead.
BarbaricGenie and I tried for months to get 2 people to play a game with us. I think he still has some hope. I gave up after that. :/

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Yeah. I searched for some players some time ago and also didn't find someone. Closed the topic and used it later in an event ^^...

The thing is, the topic will die soon and nobody will see it because at first you just see all topics together.

I'm sure a lot of users don't even check different categories because there is so much going on on the mainview

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Yeah, exactly. The fact that they usually don't contain any GA also means that it won't be bump'd and therefore will be buried under a thousand of trains being bump'd by the same people over and over. It only reinforces the idea that this is a place that should exclusively be used to win free games.

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yep. that's the question might be worth to ask:
do we need (do cg want) a community on steamgifts (I would say yes) and if so, how can we help this community

Like above more sections and a startpage on the forum would be a big help. So when you click on discussion you would not see the newest topics at first but the different sections (like most forums do)

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I never thought about it, but seeing the categories first when you click on Discussions could definitely help.
I'd say yes, as well and I like to think that most users (including CG) want the same, but right now I'm having a hard time to believe that. :/

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Good posting! :)

Also a simple "bump" or "like" button would be way better than thousand "Bump" posts... It would at first lower the post numbers a lot but the quality of the posts would rise.

Since Steamtrades already has the invisible bump functionality, cg should know how to implement this here. But I'd even go a step further: an extra category for GA/train threads. Bumps wouldn't be needed, since you could use the category and it should be clear. And other discussions wouldn't be pushed down by simple bumps and thanks.

Also while the ESGST functionality to mark already visited threads is great for GA threads, it might hurt actual discussions, because you only re-visit them if you receive replies or if it's often bumped to the top 5. At least I've observed this behaviour by myself in the recent past.

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Well, I still think the #1 cause is: Changes to Steam Gifting/Inventory system. That was a large part of giving away games (and also trading), and that is now gone completely.

Other than that, it's the usual problem of peeps taking stuff too personally and/or too seriously..

Somewhere in this thread here, a good observation: The "negativity" stemming from complaints and rants about the Bundle threads, or rather inside those threads, because THAT ONE GAME TOTALLY SUCKS YOU KNOW..
I get it.. and that observation is correct, but here is my take on it:
Don't assign too much value on it. Really. Because it's like this, just in reality. You have two people (or more), and they don't know what to talk about with each other (which is actually very common and normal, you have to realize that), so what happens is this:

  • Meaningless Small Talk
  • Talking about the weather
  • Talking about other meaningless shit, which, okay, is basically point 1 again
  • Randomly bitching about literally ANYTHING.
    But, you have to be aware, this is basically small talk as well. It does not mean that anyone really thinks so or believes completely what they are saying. So, again, you should not put too much value onto that :)

Besides.. I am still here, so all is perfectly well HEUEHHEUEHUEE

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I would attribute this decline to 2 major facts.

  • Many active users stopped visiting the website the last year or so.
  • Blacklisting discourages new users from creating discussions or commenting. That and the fact that most posts from not that active users get buried immediately due to the lack of a proper sorting algorithm (eg. date created ascending/descending etc.).
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Most of the topics now are either bundles and other deals or shitty trains. I couldn't care less for some of these topics.

Or even the positivism topic and you're not alone types of topics. When they were first created they created a discussion, a conversation, helping each other and to see the good and stuff. Now they are used to drop giveaways for "charity"(some ga have the good intent, but some of the games being given away are just depressing). I know they were not initially created with that intent, but look what it became.

Key characters in the community have left or gone inactive. Or moved to other sg branches like discord or groups and what not. I would be long gone also if it wasn't for the discord server. Characters that made things move, happen or just give me a good burst of laughter.

Last but not least blacklisting. People. STOP CARING ABOUT THAT! PLEASE! First, stop whining about that. Gosh dang it is not that bad. Do you like everyone? Then how come you expect everyone to like you. Are you somewhat special that I'm not aware or what? Second, stop blacklisting people because they just have a different opinion than you, or has bad grammar, or that he poop in his pants. Learn how to be tolerant. And if you don't want to, please blacklist me so you don't enter my gas, you *¥#@&£. Blacklist is a neat feature, I like it and it's yours to use. But you don't have to be a douche about it.

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blacklisting. People. STOP CARING ABOUT THAT! PLEASE! First, stop whining about that

Second, stop blacklisting people

which one is it?

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The one that applies to you ;)

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what I meant to say is telling people to stop blacklisting means that you care about blacklisting, else you wouldn't need to say "stop blacklisting"

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Well, there would be less whining, if people (don't have to be the same people, but could) wouldn't blacklist for odds and sods. No contradiction from my point of view.

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but who are we to define users' blacklist criteria? you're talking about a site where everybody is reasonable..
users gonna blacklist, blacklisted users gonna be frustrated which leads to more drama
and being blacklisted would matter especially to new comers who still don't know enough about this blacklisting/whitelisting thingy

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Ofc it's everyone's right to blacklist like they want. But the more users blacklist many users, the more will whine about and "revenge blacklist". It's like a vicious circle.
On the other hand an adult person shouldn't need to blacklist people just for having another opinion. I mean how do they get through life? You now could state this message was intolerant, but intolerance against intolerance isn't intolerance anymore, or is it? :D

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who's saying that we are all adults here? or that adults with that type of mentality don't get through life?

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Noone.
I, since it's my opinion. And I also think that you understand the point I tried to make.

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I did understand that point, but you didn't get my points which are:
1-this site never said that its services was intended for adults, therefore, applying adults' (should/shouldn't do)s isn't even relevant to the matter at hand.

2-lots of people get get through life with much shittier mentalities, mainly because there's no defined way to 'get through life' but sure, you're entitled to your opinion.

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Oh, I did get those points, but either I wasn't explaining my opinion precisely enough before, or you were just nitpicky.

  1. No, the site isn't restricted to adults only and even if it was, it would be difficult to ensure this. But I didn't wrote that there are only adults here, I didn't even claim that adults were the majority. I referred only to the part of the user base which is adult. Since there are several discussions about the age of the users and many users stating their age in GAs/discussions when celebrating birthday, you can correlate their behaviour with their age.
  2. I agree that there is no defined way to live. But I imagine that it would be very tough to come by, if you would never accept or tolerate the opinion of someone else. To avoid that you would have to run away from your family at a very young age, don't attend to school, since some school subjects are based on opinions only, and become an eremite autodidactically, since you wouldn't take advices from others.
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Well, yes, you weren't being specific enough when you said that it'd be better if people instead of adults blacklisted less, but even if you were specific, that's not something that would get us anywhere, it's like saying "Wouldn't it be nice if humans didn't create wars and stopped fighting?!" Well, yeah, that'd be nice, but that'll never happen.

It doesn't have to be that dramatic, some people are just picky with their reasoning, so they won't reason with strangers immediately, others would only reason with really close people, but both would be just fine to "get through life" if they found the suitable type of people to surround themselves with.

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Maybe you get the feeling I had when I was reading your 2nd reply if I turn it around like this:
Who defines what's an adult? The law by saying it's 18? Or 21 in some places? And isn't that only a number on your ID card? Isn't maturity more important?

I assume you're agreeing with me on this and when you read me asking you these questions, you might feel a bit offended, since I'm treating you as if you were dumb. That happened above. Just as a sidenote. ;-)

Well, yeah, that'd be nice, but that'll never happen.

Aside of the war thing: I might be too optimistic, but I still believe that humankind still can and wants to get better. Of course you're free to react cynically and give up, but you also can try to convince people to not exaggerate and rethink their actions more often (like blacklisting as Ruaben tried in his last paragraph).

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They were a couple of questions and weren't meant as an offense.

So, now you're saying that what you actually meant was maturity and not adulthood in general, and that's what I was saying that adults aren't necessarily mature, therefore, we can't expect them to act in a certain way or the other, but again "wouldn't it be awesome if adults were mature?" "yes, it'd be quite awesome"

I'm all for encouraging people to be better "humans" and that's why I pointed out the contradiction in Ruaben's comment, because despite Ruaben's good intention if I yelled at you to stop arguing, stop swearing, quit being racist and such you'll never actually change your racist,trouble-making,rude,etc.. mindset even if your behavior changed for a while.

And I don't think that people actually care about being better people, because we are selfish, so unless there's something in it for us, we won't do it.

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So, now you're saying that what you actually meant was maturity [...].

Nah, my intention for these new questions were just to show you that you could dismantle nearly every posting by asking "who defines xxx" or exaggerating ("who says that all are adult"), though you know that the other person most probably didn't mean it that way - and then these questions could be understood as offense. But it's okay. ^^

Yeah, I see your point now. Ruaben's moral suasion was phrased a bit drastic.

Selfish? But we are on SteamGIFTS.. ;-)

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Well done! You nearly got me there. :D

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What about AlienWare... im pretty sure there's no aliens there...

"there"?AlienWhere? it's just wares for aliens

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I didn't want this to immediately turn into a philosophical discussion, that's why I tried to poke you with some questions to further understand your point of view since mine was quite simple or at least I think it was
But regardless, I'm glad we got somewhere

Selfish? But we are on SteamGIFTS.. ;-)

I will save my response to that for a future discussion :v

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Not really. I just find both of the situations a recurrent problem. I don't have a lot of people that blacklisted me(30 something I think?) but I see people that are good contributers here(e.g.:people that makes/used to make forum events, not a thing anymore sadly) on the forum getting 200+. Why? Ok, they have their reasons, but I find it odd still.

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Coffee black as my blacklist

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Not that I was ever super chatty here, but lately it seems like nearly every post ends up attracting drama or negativity. Not saying people always have to be super positive and overly friendly when they post, but less... harsh might encourage some more interaction. It certainly doesn't make me want to really try to interact very often.

And with how black list happy people get, I can understand why some people would rather just avoid the forums. You can't really share an opinion, no matter how harmless, without someone instantly hitting you with a BL because they have a different opinion

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There's not enough drama anymore thats why,

We need to start a flame war!

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Shit like that is toxic for the community. Made a lot of active people leave. Instead of welcoming and being friendly people were passive aggressive and hostile.

I tried being a cynical sarcastic user for a night and it got boring very fast. I'd rather stay positive about life. It is very annoying having a permanent sarcastic personality. It's boring.

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I'm sarcastic but not cynical.

When did I ever do anything on discord? If so why did nobody warn me. I did not share that on discord or to anyone. That was just on my steam so thanks for stalking me on it.

Honestly what is your problem with me. Just don't talk to me. I don't want to argue.

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Erm, forgive me if I'm wrong, but If I want to create a character on any game called "Skanda is a shit stirring cunt" and then I photoshopped a bunch of pictures of you fucking pigs, what does that have to do with anything on steamgifts?

If you have to go looking through offsite shit to pick a fight, you are an idiot.

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Well, I didn't mention you by name. I asked if I did anything wrong and everyone said I didn't ever do anything wrong nor did I post any photos. People checked all names I've been under so you are wrong.

Just shut up and move on with your life. I've done nothing to you. Why are you so hostile to me?

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LUL.

Okay cool you are a waste of my time. Drop it. Tell your mole to stop stalking me.

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When I usually (read: rarely) post on some thread, nobody responds to my post. It's hard to have discussions when nobody reads/cares about your posts

EDIT: in retrospect this reads as a cry for help or for attention. Sorry about that :)

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I guess that post came out a bit too dramatic :D
but I am usually late to the discussions as well and when you post on the 5th page of some discussion it is probably going to go unnoticed

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oh no. this might have come across much more sadder than I intended :D

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Hyraxes have a bad reputation here

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Hi!

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Your avatar is too cute, people are stunned 😍

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I made it myself in Paint several years ago :D

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I know from my example, comments on giveaways made a huge part of it because I used to always say thanks (for the chance) but then people started accusing other people for saying thanks because if you say thanks it means you're a bot so I stopped... and more and more people explicitly write not to comment on giveaways because they don't want spam in their inbox... and it is understandable if you have a lot of giveaway open... or an entire event...

I still try to "start a convo" in my giveaways like in the olden times, but most people simply ignore it and don't comment at all. I remember times when "What are your plans for the summer" would get 100+ nice replies over a weekend, now you're lucky if you get 1 word reply (thanks) from someone you've never seen before on sg.

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I miss things like this.
It somehow ... just worked.

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10 % of numbers entries = amount of comments (not stating they are written by unique persons ofc) in a public level 0 GA. I don't think I ever seen something like that since I'm using SG ..

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Not to mention that I have it bookmarked amongst other recipes :D recently a dev made a mass ga with similar question, he even made a hungarian fisherman's soup after the recipe I linked ^^

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That's how it should end up more often. Also reminds me of a few things I still have to catch up from previous discussions.

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Ok, that's just freaky, adam...
I don't spend much time in the forums these days, but I just made a huge smoothie and thought I'd read something while I drank it, so I happened to come across this thread, happened to scroll down to see your link, and it just so happens that I posted a recipe in that giveaway 3 years ago when I first started making smoothies. (Yep, I still make 'em almost daily.) :D

The replies and interaction there were amazing. I've tried in the past to stir up some conversation in giveaways by writing, "Rather than say thanks...", and include some kind of question instead, but despite getting some decent replies, most of the comments were still thanks.

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^^ I really should try 'em smoothies sometimes, I periodically forget how tasty fruits and vegetables can be on their own :)

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Aye, comment sections are quite barren lands nowadays. I never really understood the complaints regarding the spamming. I can understand it as a problem if you have topic or multiple discussions open at the same time but otherwise clearing message counter doesn't really require that much effort. But comments are spam viewpoint won and now people can rejoice.

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Time. Patience. As i grow older and theres more and more platforms, social media, this and that fighting for time im finding both runing ever more thin.

I used to be active in a number of places. Nowadays i barely enteder GAs, much less comment. When i come i look up the first page of sg only (filtering for wishlisted games), more to look at the discussions and deals listed alongside the gas; I only look up the ones show on the frontpage, and then i click on any that catches my interest.

Then, depending on the content i comment or not.

So laying it out:

1- Reduced time, other sites, etc (external factor)
2- Few topics appear on the front page (+almost random wich ones appear)
3- 50% or more of the time the content of said topics didn't incite me to engage
4- Having the time to engage (sometimes i enter really quickly before going to bed or something like that)

Its a number of barriers. How much of the content isn't anything substantial or worth of exchanging ideas is also a huge factor- deals, gas, jokes... there ain't much to say besides thanks or joking back. Another good deal of topics are common complains or doubts, some of wich are quickly closed, if not is just people joking or making drama.

I like discussions even more so on gaming- but even that runs thin here. When i used to be more present i rarely saw interesting developments- rarely anyone writes a quarter of what the op write. When people recommend something its saying a name or 'i found it pretty cool' etc- even on Steam, wich is no paramount of community i see people going more on why they like or dislike something for example.

I believe SGs nature runs against good discussions. Besides everyone's time and patience the main reason people are here are the GAs. Im sure a majority of users only enter GAs and only browse the foruns looking for more of then.

Gaming itself is a bit bad with foruns. The majority would rather be playing then typing. Im also part of it, i love a good discussion, years back i spent most of the time online on a number of foruns... but as my time got shorter so did my gaming time, and my backlog just increases. Heck, i could be halfway a level in some game right now if i didn't enter SG.

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Off topic: Your avatar reminds me of Kevin Walken. Kind of creepy, yet kind of dapper.

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The footballer?

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Did I say Kevin Walken?? I meant Christopher Walken. :D

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;)

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Thats probably because it is the very one. Its a pixel-art homage (author unknow) from his character in Batman, you know, the Tim Burton one. Im a cowbell guy so naturally he is my favorite actor.

"I don't need to be made to look evil. I can do that on my own."

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Alot of active people from back then, also left over the years.

Not just active discussions, but puzzles also really diminished aside from a jigidi here and there.

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Screw quality, we want quantity! :)
No.. no... really we don't.
Is this a quality comment? Probably not. :'(

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Oh boy, where to start?

The introduction of blacklists/personal stats? The unnecessary drama, that, every once in a while, keeps resurfacing publicly on the forum? The same, repetitive threads and comments lacking in originality? And I'm not blaming anyone here - I'm just as much at blame as anyone - Steamgifts just changed over the course of the years, for various reasons. It's not just the stats, either; The general attitude of the community changed immensely over the past few years.

I think that the forum used to be more of a tight-knit community of people who just happened to noticed that Steamgifts even had a forum. When I first began active here, everything felt more welcoming, friendly, and interesting. For example, people would sometimes create a thread to introduce themselves on the forum, and the usual forum regulars would welcome them with friendly and quirky banter, and I really think most users were much more laid-back and not as serious. Nowadays, I feel like a new user making a thread will get lost in the huge amount of content, and most people will just feel like it's "just another user among other".

I also feel like the forum has become a tool or an outlet for people to rant, complaint, or even sometimes get unnecessary attention. Many people use the forum for bundle threads, posting giveaway threads, etc, and while it's totally fine and good... these threads are not particularly interesting or encourage discussion. If the forum is a tool/dump for venting, posting bland threads for the sake of posting giveaways/getting attention, then this is exactly what it'll be. And really, it's not like anyone made the forum like it is now against their own will - We make the forum what we want it to be, and the majority chose to go down that path, and I can only assume most people here are fine with this and appreciate the forum more than they would have back then.

Personally? I kind of lost interest in the forum around 2-3 years ago, but stuck around for lack of better option to waste time online. There are many, many reasons I can think of why the Steamgifts community is going downhills, but I'm sick today and can barely think/type straight so you'll have to excuse this incoherent wall of thoughts and me leaving it at that (because re-reading, I realize my post makes little sense already).

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It certainly isn't what it used to be. Even if we fix the current bl and cv problem, the community will never be the one we once met :/
It saddens me that this is the case, but everybody at some point has to move on and we just have to accept that. People come and go all the time as I like to say.

Someday will be my day to find somewhere to spend my time online, but until then I stick around.

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I just like lurking.

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+1

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I don't know, for me the forums got a bitter taste after constantly being attacked for justified blacklists (rulebreaking, played 0 wins).
A big chunk of the forum regulars are definitely still here and still very active, but no one really engages anymore unless it's a fight.

Maybe discussions went down because bundles aren't as good as they used to be and people don't really have enough material for making fun threads because of it? Even the regular PSA threads are lackluster when it comes to giveaways, not that they would have to have better giveaways, but no one cares anymore. And I guess people don't like to comment because everything's going to be attacked by trolls looking for entertainment.

I'm still pretty new to the site so I don't have the best of experience, but there does seem to be a much more negative atmosphere right now created by "both" sides: those who feel morally superior and those who rely on their own morals. And every thread contains attacks for people behaving a certain way, it just discourages people from even feeling welcomed here. At least that's how I personally feel about these posts.

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For me 3 things made me come less to SG:
1) bundles had a decrease in "quality/quantity". Currently with the exception of humble bundle the rest of the sites can't make a bundle with good unbundled games. This probably happened because of the rise of the gray market, these sites would buy a lot of bundles and sell the keys very cheap effectively making the game on sale 100% of the time. The less exciting the bundles is the less likely i'll be making a post on SG.

2) Steam change to gifting/trading. By ending the possibility og buying (region free) games from cheap markets makes the deal section of SG a bit of a ghost town. When steam allowed buying games from cheaper regions I'd take the time to read the comments and share the news if there was a region that had the game cheaper then the USA/EU version.

3)The huge backlog that i have acquired has made "free" games less attractive. Right now i'm in the following situation: do I want to waste 10-30 mins on SG for the possibility of a free game or waste that time on a game i have bought from a bundle?

I do still come from time to time and if I manage to get a stable job i'll return for a few good giveaways however i will no longer use a lot of my time here anymore.

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