I've been doing roller derby for a little under two months now. I did zero sports since childhood, and had barely any roller skating experience, so I entered at the lowest possible rookie rung and am slowly working through learning all the skills I need. It is so, so hard... but so so fun.

I can feel myself improving every practice, bit by bit, and I've made a few wonderful friends already. I'm also doing it with my girlfriend, so it's another thing we can share to get stronger together. Another thing that's great is finding mentors - multiple people have pointed out that I skate the same way this other member did when he first started out, so he's taken me under his wing. It feels so good to be able to look to him and know I'm walking in his footsteps, and I'll improve like he improved.

Do you have a physical sport or hobby you do alongside gaming? How'd you start? How long have you been doing it? What challenges did you initially have, and how have you overcome them? Did you have any mentors that made a difference?

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I like to hike. Big, strenuous, almost rock-climbing hikes. :D

I've been doing it since I was a kid. The problem is, living in the desert, I usually have to drive to the mountains to avoid excessive heat.

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What's your favorite part of hiking? I haven't done it, but I have to imagine all the amazing vistas you see when you're up high really is the good shit

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The views are great, and as I mentioned, the temperature in the mountains is generally much nicer than at home, but it just feels good to go get the exercise. I'll see if I can't share some pictures from a hike I did a few weeks ago...

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That looks so cool!! I was in Sedona once - those colors in the landscape are crazy, aren't they?

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Definitely. It's like walking on Mars (with plants)!

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Nice! Where I live is quite different

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First picture is my normal hikes. Second is me, pretty much anytime I see a picture like yours.

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Then you would be shocked to see how much white there is in the winter! ;)

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Very important; hiking sucks if you dont have a good destination or vista at at the end. pick an inspirational trek

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I believe it!

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i'm expecting to take my son hiking this weekend. i especially like hiking near waterfalls but am always at least in the woods, so sounds like a different experience than yours!

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I've always found the strenuous hikes so much more enjoyable. I mean, a walk in the woods is nice and relaxing, but scampering up over rocks is fun and exciting. :)

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It feels daring!

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I jogged, someone i knew, said go with me, thought was nothing for me, not like i am eager to go outside and do it (especially if it's cold and bad weather) but i stuck to it, but since i got a job again i already feel like i am getting enough exercise as it is.

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I feel you. Balancing work and then a physical activity on top of that is difficult.

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I'd LOVE to do a lot of the things I've always wanted to do, but I have certain limitations that prevent me from doing them.
Epilepsy. Doctors don't want me doing heights so there goes skydiving and parasailing.
Back, knee and foot injuries, No running, most sports or anything else strenuous like that.

God I hate my screwed up body.

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I'm into cycling mainly on the road, cyclocross and mountain biking. After nearly two years of inactivity because of cancer and chemo I'm now in full remission and can do things\activities again that I couldn't do in the years I was sick. Baruch HaShem!

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I'm so glad you're recovering! That's stupendous. I hope your path back to cycling how you want is as quick as it can be and as painless as it can be.

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Thank you very much, Tsupertsundere! I have to reacquire endurance and stamina because I have been inactive for a long time but for now a shorter active time on the bike works for me. Also I'm a gun collector and gun enthusiast and now I can handle any caliber again that's allowed on the local gun range I go to. The pain is nearly gone but out of personal and religious reasons I haven't taken painkillers to this date.

Have a nice and peaceful weekend!

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You have a good plan of attack going! I hope it always keeps you happy c:

And you, too!

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For Jews (like I am) it's a Mitzvah to be happy. ^^

Thank you!

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I played co-ed softball for most of my 20s and 30s, but haven't played an inning since my kids were born, for better or for worse. We weren't pros, but we weren't a beer league either. We won a few trophies (for winning our season) and one of them sits proudly in my home office since I was the coach that summer. I also played some co-ed flag football.

I've always enjoyed hiking and climbing also. I don't do it a lot, but it's always something I like to do when on vacation.

In the past I also did ziplining, parasailing, skydiving, bungee jumping, etc., but those are more excitement/adrenaline things than physical activity.

BTW, the wiki page you linked features a lovely picture of a roller derby athlete who suffered a spiral fracture at her debut bout...yikes.

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That sounds so cool, Trent! Maybe when the kids get older you can join back up, if you want. It's certainly something to be proud of.

It's hard to hike in relatively-flat New Jersey, but I agree that when you're out on vacation and have the opportunity it sounds fun as hell.

Yeah.... roller derby IS risky and can be dangerous. There's three levels of skill tests you have to pass, and a written test of the rules, too. That's why I'm very careful with myself - I don't go to practice if I'm too exhausted from my day's work. The more tired you are, the more likely it is you could hurt yourself.

It's probably going to be another half a year or more before I actually join a game

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I remember watching roller derby on TV in the 80's. It was pretty cool, even though some of it seemed fake (sort of like professional wrestling).

I had no idea it was a thing regular people could do in their spare time!

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Yeah! Apparently (reading through the derby wiki page) it was BECAUSE it got so fake that interest in it died off.

It's pretty real now, though! I saw one game from my local league and I got hooked. My league takes everyone, even if you have zero experience, and trains you up until you can play safely. Maybe you can find a similar league in your area?

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I practised wtf taekwondo for almost 7 years, haven't trained in a while first because I moved to another city and still can't find a good dojang, and second cause a month ago I fell while skateboarding and got a coccyx fracture lol

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ohhhhh noooooooo that sounds awful <:c How do you recover from that? Can you sit?

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It wasn't a big fracture, more like a tiny crack, still hurts like hell, I can't even sneeze without feeling pain lol
I'm taking analgesics (celecoxib), and I have to sit in a special orthopaedic cushion shaped like a bagel as long as the treatment lasts, which according to my medic will be two months or so :/

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Ohhh nooo <:cc

I hope you heal as fast as possible. Two months will go by quickly!

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Ive always been really outdoorsy, so Ive been hiking, canoeing, and fishing my whole life. I hike everything from smooth public trails to the straight up ledges on the mountain behind my house. Canoeing is in the Delaware river, so nothing intense, but I usually try for 5+ mile trips. And fishing is pretty lazymode until you hook into one of the "river monsters" and spend two hours fighting a fish into shore. I hooked a 3.5ft catfish once that had my arms like jelly and my back so stiff I couldnt bend by the time I got it into shore. Also landed a 2ft carp once that nearly yanked me out of my raft.

Only real difficulties I have with any of those, is a bad knee. I fell on our ledges once and messed it up pretty badly. So I need a brace if Im on a long hike and I need a lot of breaks. And sitting too long (with my knee bent, like in a boat) hurts.

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gym and jogging 10km every day, ~2 hours just to keep fit ^^

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every day? Holy fuck, Mully, that's incredible.

I have to build my stamina and endurance for derby, so today I tried jogging with a pair of dogs I walk for work. They loved it - I .... less so. It's hard!

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it also helps to keep my mind busy so you don't overthink stuff so much

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Oh man, there's a long story in here, but I'll keep it short.

I quit drinking and drugging years ago, and stayed quit thanks to Shotokan Karate. I have a great sensei with an incredible philosophy and lifestyle. 12 years later, still studying under him, but now for my black belt (the dude doesn't just "hand them out" to anyone ...). Definitely recommended for anyone who wants to stay in shape and change their perspective on life.

Outside of that, I swim, mountain bike, and of course drumming - which people seriously underestimate as a way to stay in shape. ;)

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That's awesome, Tzaar. Working the body and working the mind can really be done at the same time by the same activity. I never believed it until now. It sounds dumb to think that your brain and body are connected is like this big 'surprise, mind-blowing' thing but it's for real.

I bet it's going to feel really good to get your black belt, and that you did incredible things getting that far.

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...drumming - which people seriously underestimate as a way to stay in shape...

I'm not a drummer, myself, but it can definitely be physical. Check out Carter Beauford here (at the age of 58) in beast mode. ;)
Dave Matthews Band Live in Lisbon - Grey Street 10.11.15

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at this point since i have two young kids it's hard to take time to myself. if i had more of that i'd do ultimate frisbee and mountain biking. mountain biking i can do by myself and there's a group at work that does pickup games of ultimate frisbee after work a couple days a week.

instead i do things where i can take the kids, like biking flatter trails while pulling the kids or hiking. they're pretty happy about hiking on their own feet so even though i bought a hiking backpack i rarely use it. when they get a bit bigger i'll take them on more technical hiking trails, but for now it's pretty moderate.

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I'm glad you have something you can share with them, Haan c: That's something I wish I had more with my own dad - I hope it fulfills you and them.

And when they're older, you might have more time to do a few more things for yourself.

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I can't do many sports, mainly due to health problems and injuries so.. I try to do my best even for what concerns physical activities but it's really hard!
Talking just about sports and stuff, not music and other activities of course..
I played tennis for some years 'cos my father was a pro player, but then I had for many reasons surgery on my wrist and had to step down..
I used to run but my ankle too has been sprained and still I've got a missing ligament (calcaneo-fibular, something like this) and so I try just to walk a lot, as I always did when I was a university student and so on.
Never liked that much other sports, I tried skiing here in Northern Italy but it's not for me and I can't ski now due to my ankle.. I could just swim but I don't like water XD Although I can swim and have been to the sea and the ocean lots of times.
Prostate surgery, so no bike at all, but I own a Suzuki 600 motorbike and I love riding it although of course it's not a sport for me, I don't compete in races but just like to drive it :P
Just too many physical problems..

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All of that sounds really difficult to go through! I'm glad you've made it out the other side.

Motorbikes are cool, and I hope you stay safe riding yours.

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yes, definitely :') I'm a good driver at least! thanks :)

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I used to ride my bike but then it got boring and all my favorite routes got paved into bike paths and infested with rollerskaters so I haven't touched my bike in like 5 years.

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I used to do jogging, gym and table tennis. Stopped after more than two years because i was heavily depressed and i was barely noticing any improvements since i had started, physical-wise.

Actually i was quite skilled at table tennis, but the local sports club doesn't have a table anymore and i couldn't find people to play with anyway. I wish i could play again.

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I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope someday you could find another table tennis group - it's a really cool sport.

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The walking sounds really lovely and rewarding even so!

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I wouldn't be myself if I didn't recommend some nerdy activity like Historical European Martial Arts. It's based on studying works of medieval swordmasters. It's a great fun and keeps you fit. :)

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That's crazy!!!! Oh man, the strength requirements really outline how much upper body strength you need!
It's fascinating. I'm glad you told me!

What kind of styles of fighting and/or weapons do you use, Julia?

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I'm a complete amateur so far. I've trained about a year and half but irregularly. I tried a sabre and a longsword.

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Been studying Fiore De Liberi' longsword (and tried other techinques from his manuscripts) for 4 or 5 years. Meanwhile I've added some I.33's Sword and Buckler and now I'm trying to mix Fiore's teachings with Lichtenhauer.

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Great to meet another HEMAist.
Mixing Italian and German school might be interesting.

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Roller Derby? Who are you, Ellen Page? ;)

I love skiing and mountain biking - you know, the expensive hobbies where you go really fast and try not to crash. Unfortunately, family responsibilities mean that I haven't been able to do either in years.

I did get to go skiing this past winter, and it was awesome and reminded me of how much I love it. So I went again, and it was awesome again! But then I got stuck in a snow storm, went off the road a few times trying to make it to the closest hotel, and finally had to leave my car in a ditch and walk the rest of the way. But I survived!

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I think I'm too tall to be Ellen Page! What was funny was the movie really didn't endear me too much to the sport. I had to see it in person.

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Oh my god that sounds terrifying! I'm so glad you're okay. Did you recover your car?

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So you're like a tall Ellen Page? ;)

As for my skiing / driving adventure...

The forecast was light rain, but that's for where I live. I didn't think to check the forecast for the mountain I was driving to, 2.5 hours away. It snowed throughout the day, which made for great skiing, and it never occurred to me that I might have trouble getting home - not until I tried to turn out of the ski mountain's parking lot.

As soon as I started going up the hill, my car stopped going forward and started sliding sideways off the road. I tried a few times, no luck - each time my wheels would loose traction and I'd start sliding sideways. After some asshole in a pickup stopped to yell incomprehensibly at me, I went back into the parking lot - figuring that I'd turn around and try again, only to discover that turning around in the lot was suddenly really difficult, and I barely managed to turn around without hitting the other cars.

I decided to turn the other way out of the lot, down the hill, hoping for some alternate route back to the highway. That worked for about 20 feet, when I suddenly slid off the road. Some people stopped and helped push my car back onto the road, and convinced me that attempting to drive back to NJ was likely to get me killed, and I should follow them to a nearby hotel. I proceeded to follow them without sliding off the road, right up until I encountered a hill. They went up the hill, I didn't. I got half way up, and couldn't go any further.

After several failed attempts, and blocking traffic behind me, some of the mountain employees who were driving home stopped to help me out. Through pushing my car and a more experienced driver showing me some tips, we managed to get my car to the top of the hill. I followed one of the employees to the hotel road. The hotel was at the end of a long road, which was... - ready for it? - entirely uphill. Sigh...

I tried making it up that hill, and got about 1/5 of the way before I stopped. I backed up, got more speed, and tried again - about 1/2 way up. At this point it was pitch black outside, the only light being the faintly illuminated hotel sign. I tried backing up again, and backed right off the road and into a ditch. Figuring that was fate, I grabbed my stuff (which consisted of gloves, helmet, and a water bottle - I hadn't packed for an overnight trip) and started walking. I then discovered that the hill took a bend at the top, and was actually twice as long, so I only ever made it 1/4 of the way up in my car.

After a long walk I finally found the hotel. The main office was closed, but I recalled the employee's advice to check at the restaurant / tavern for management. Eventually finding the restaurant, I was directed to wait in the tavern, and got a pint to calm myself while waiting for the manager to arrive, hoping that they had a room available. Finally the manager arrived, and they did have a room, so - for the first time since trying to leave the mountain parking lot - I began to relax, and ordered dinner. They also offered to help me retrieve my car the next day. So I ate dinner, watched the Superbowl, and then retired to my room. No hot water, for some reason, but at least the room was warm and comfortable.

The next morning they helped pull my car out of the ditch, and I drove home without incident, but with the constant fear of sliding off the road or getting stuck on hills looming over me until I finally left all the snow behind.

I still don't know why my car had so much trouble in the snow. I don't know if it was my tires, or just the car's torque and gear ratio, or just way too much snow, or a combination of all of the above (and the manual transmission didn't help). What I can say is that I was never so happy to be back home and safe again. I'm clearly going to need to get some snow tires for next winter, and will be sure to check the mountain's forecast.

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I play drums. Trust me, energetic playing is quite a workout.

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I believe it!

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Im going to gym for first time... tomorrow(?) let's see how it goes.

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Good luck! I don't like physical activity at the gym, but I've heard signing up for classes or having music you really like to listen to are ways to make it more fun.

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Daily (or almost daily) hike in the woods behind my house. Not because I like it, but because I'd become an old celery otherwise.
The snow just finished melting now, so I'm hoping I could do some "mountain" biking on the trail - I'll need to clear up some space and trim branches/tree first... and I'm lazy.

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I've never heard the term 'old celery' before, but that's delightful

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just gym 5 times a week, since i hate running,cycling
would like to play some hockey, but not in my 22 :(
mby in the future will try some other activities when will get girlfriend :D

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Don't wait until then! You never know - you might meet your girlfriend when doing those activities!

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I used to love bike riding and hoola hooping and jump roping, would spend hours each day doing it. Always super relaxing and enjoyed getting outside and moving, just simply brought me a lot of joy. I'd also go on a lot of walks and am trying to walk a bit more now.

Currently I have major chronic pain and health issues making being active super difficult, but beginning of March (month after back surgery - seemed help with that too) I started doing Static Contraction Training and it's been one of the best things.

Like I'll do a bench press, but instead of there being actual weights I use as much of my strength as physically possible and put pressure on a bar attached to a machine for 10 seconds. Same with squats, am basically attached with chains onto a belt and put as much pressure as possible trying to "stand back up" etc. I just did my third session, originally my total weight of pressure I exerted was 600 "pounds" in 4 exercises (I was super weak after not moving for a year). Now after my 3rd time training my total was 1460 "pounds" of pressure!!! It's hard to really grasp how much "weight" it is compared to using machines but I can tell a HUGE difference. As someone who's physically disabled and gets a lot of muscle weakness (will just drop often to the floor) I could already handle twice the length of the exercises plus my gains drastically improving. A couple years ago I did something similar with my dr. and went from barely able to lifting my water bottle to lifting 35 points of a "real" bench press after a few months training.

I've always loved lifting weights but it's caused so much unbearable pain and burning for days, this is the best alternative and helps a lot long term. I feel like a badass and so strong and really seeing improvements. :D Am proud of myself and definitely gonna continue.

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That's incredible, Jaffa! I didn't understand it at first, but when I got to the point of it saying 'your muscles shake or wobble, and that's what strengthens them' I understood! I encounter that sometimes when I do my workouts, or hold a position for a long time (derby stance...) I thought it was just me being weak, but it's good to know that those wobbling is helping strengthen my muscles, too!

I'm proud of you, too, and you're made an insane amount of progress! Keep going! I'm cheering on with you

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Yeah it's amazing how much it's "still" strength training and proven to strengthen bone density etc. as well. Been pretty incredible to see and learn more about. I can imagine how much strength you must be gaining with derby, having to do that stance alone seems intimidating but really impressive to watch.

Thanks so much (as always) for your kind words! :) Me too of course with you!! Love hearing about your progress and am so happy it's been such a positive experience. Definitely a lot of work but having people supporting you is the best and makes the experience so much better. It's awesome you've found another fun thing to do with your girlfriend!

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My knee joints are my weakest point, not my muscles - it feels like there's a ball of pain right in the middle of the joint. But by strengthening the muscles around my knee, it strengthens the joint. Even after two months, I'm feeling stronger! Not a lot, but enough I notice. I can do more squats and get lower and stay low for longer than before!

I'm just happy I found something physical that really resonates with me. It feels right!

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Yeah the joints are something I've been struggling the most with as well, it seems so much harder to get any relief from them (compared to like massages/meds with more "normal" pain). I keep hearing the best thing to do is strengthen muscle, I'm glad you've noticed some difference! Think it's the case of being patient and pushing through the pain (to an extent). Doing something you love definitely makes that easier! Have you thought of having someone film yourself at all btw? Might be cool to see how far you've come down the line. :)

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...I feel like a badass and so strong and really seeing improvements...

This sounds so awesome, Jaffa! :D

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Aw thanks Kap for always being so supportive. :) Trying to keep my chin up! Hope things are going great with you. :D

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TL;DR : I passionately love ice hockey but ice hockey doesn't really like me.
I also practised a cool japanese martial art called Iaidō.
(wow I didn't intend to write so much...)

When I was a teenager I attended some ice skating course and fell in love with ice hockey.
Unfortunately, I don't live in Canada, so ice hockey isn't really popular here. My city only had one ice hockey club, which was, well, the professional one, so the people in there were really competition-minded, they wanted excellence even from the youngsters. But I was a girl and I was 14, and I was a begginer. There was no female team of any age, and all the people in the club started at like 4 years old. Nobody starts hockey at 14. Especially not girls, this is typically the age where they stop. In fact, that was specifically told to me : "you're a girl, we have no team for you." My parents insisted so much that they finally, reluctantly, put me in some boys team.
I kept coming for a year and a half, playing as the only girl with boys way younger yet way better than me, who never bothered to even talk to me, to pass me the puck, to help me feel good among them or to give me any advice. I was basically the person who shouldn't be there. I almost didn't improve and never played the matches, just the trainings, but I was okay with it because I just loved the sport. I just wanted to play it so much that I was okay with my poor endurance, my zero improvement, the stupid mindset of the adults and kids from the club and the non-existent social interaction. That eventually stopped me though, it was becoming kind of depressing.
I moved later to another town, when I was 18, so I was able to attend the adult leisure team of this town's club. Leisure team means no competition, which is great. We were 3 females so at least I was able to have some interactions in the changing rooms. Although most people had that competition, unwelcoming mindset, it was rather nice in comparison to my earlier experience.
But well, had to leave this town and it's been 2 years since I last played hockey... I still am a terrible player, but I miss it really much. This is the only sport I like to practice, the only sport where I have so much fun that I can get over my ridiculously poor endurance, where despite being unable to breathe properly because of the effort, I still want to go back on the ice and play more.

I wish I could find another sport that motivates me like hockey does, is easier to access and play, and where I could meet like-minded people... 😐

Also last year I was into a Iaidō club. It's a japanese martial art revolving around the mastery of the katana. You never fight for real, but always practice alone against imaginary enemies that you have to visualise and slice like they were real. It's very interesting and meditative, you learn to breathe the right way, to seek perfection in each movement, to think every move. But the most physical part of the lesson was always the warm-up! Even I was rarely tired after 1h30 of practicing... xD
But the greatest part was the people. They were all so nice, kind and encouraging... so different from hockey people! I guess they were the main reason why I kept coming so enthusiastically each week. I was really sad to leave them when moving again.

Right now I'm not doing anything because I'll settle somewhere else soon (yes again). I hope I'll find both a nice hockey and iaidō clubs where I'll go, though I'm quite hopeless about hockey xD

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That sounds unbelievably hard, Ctouw. I think it shows a real love for the sport that you'd endure hostility (those teammates of yours fucking sucked) for so long to have a chance to do it. My heart really ached for you reading this (and I'm whitelisting you because your level of dedication is something I aspire to).

I'm sure you thought of this already, but did you look into floor hockey teams in your area? It's on the rink but not ice. After our derby practices, the adult hockey team practices on the same rink we do. It's mostly men, I saw, but I did spot a few women doing it. (They're not.... super friendly to the derby term, but I have to think they'll treat their own better than us)

You deserve an environment that actually puts the 'team' in team sports - where the people on your team are your comrades and they look after each other. I hope one day you can find it.

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Thanks a lot for the kind words, they warmed my heart! These were indeed hard times. Despite loving the sport, the context in which I had to play it made it be more bad than good for me. I was depressed I couldn't just play in an enjoyable manner, and was constantly regretting that I didn't start earlier. Stopping made me lose the fun of playing the game, but the bigger sadness of this "impossible love" for hockey was then gone.
(I'm not usually a dedicated person actually. Hockey is maybe the only thing where I'd persevere like this.)
(Also thanks for the whitelist! Whitelisting you back :D)

As for floor hockey (for me floor hockey id the one where you simply run with the sticks, maybe I am mistaken?) ... I played it once and found it terrible xD I don't like running anyway. Ice skating is a big part of my love for ice hockey: the feelings you get from sliding at great speed, moving around so fluidly and stopping suddenly with just a little movement is nothing I could get from another sport. Even roller doesn't give me this sense of freedom. Although I'd really like to try roller hockey once! Though I'm not sure the mentality and welcomingness are any better.

And that's right, I noticed team sports art paradoxically the ones where the people are the least nice to each other. I think because they can't compete against each other since they are a team, they try to become "the best of the team" , resulting in more rivalry.
I doubt I'll one day find such an environment but I'll look for it as long as I am healthy enough to play! I was thinking maybe, one day, of founding a hockey club that is for everyone and every level and is for people who just want to have fun with friends, not compete or be the best - just improve together and share some laughs. But oh well, a very complicated project.

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That really blows! Especially when that mentality is A) in adults, who should know better, and B) are in what's essentially hobby leagues just for the love of the sports (like, no/not a lot of money involved, won't be scouted to the Olympics, etc.).
It shouldn't matter when you start, it should just matter that you're as passionate as you are.

Also yes! I meant roller hockey, lol. I hope you get a chance to try someday, just to see!

I think that's an incredibly noble goal, and I hope you can achieve it one day. You have me rooting for you!

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I just get up to get a coffee or piss. I eat 7/24. 175cm and 68kg, tho I have a huge beer belly. Wish I could go to the GYM but I can't. My desire to be the laziest mofo overcomes my desire to have a beach body (which wouldn't change my life in any way since I rarely leave my house).

So yeah, no physical activity whatsoever here. Except if you count chasing around a f**king mosquito for half an hour as a physical activity.

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Bike riding for fun as a kid turned into BMX freestyling in my teens, which evolved into mountain biking, road cycling, and more mountain biking! When weather permits, I'll ride a couple of times a week for 2-3 hours per ride. Playing tennis for fun with friends in high school also progressed into playing competitively for my college team, and then recreationally for up to 15 hours a week at one point. I've always been active for fun rather than fitness, but I guess I've become a bit of an endorphin junkie. :P Oh, and I hike, too, just to get some fresh air and get out into nature.

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I think its what you do for fun that creates lasting habits and hobbies rather than doing it for fitness - at last for personality types like mine.

I'm glad you've stuck with all of it!

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