So, Life. Huh?

I'm sorry. Well, this will not be easy, but you'll get over it. I know it doesn't look like it, and you can't even imagine that, but you will.

Looks like your family is there for you. Your friends should be there for you. Hell, we're here for you, if you need us.

Try to move on, but no need to rush either. Just take your time.

Hey man, there's an old saying here that goes something along the line of "you may be the sweetest peach on the tree, but some people just aren't looking for peaches". Which I've always interpreted as "The problem is not who or what you are, never change that. Just find someone who will love you as you are". Anyway, stay strong, I know it's hard but stay strong man. Best of luck with everything

I've only really been in two "major" relationships in my life (and I'm 48). When my girlfriend broke up with me, I was pretty hurt, but thankfully it was an amicable breakup (if that is possible?), and we are still friendly whenever we see each other. The second relationship is the one that I am currently in (two years in October), and I am very happy in it.

I didn't post all that to rub any salt in your wounds, but just to let you know that there is always another step in the journey (of your life), and that I hope you'll be able to take solace in that fact.

I probably muffed all that up, and didn't say it how I wanted it to come across. If so, sorry about that!

I voted potato, cuz it was only the one, and she sure wasn't the one for me...or more accurately, I wasn't the one for her...wish she woulda told me that instead of cheating...

Girls are yuck. Except for your sister oc. Wait that sounds weird.

Potato is my one true love. Boil'em, mash'em, put'em in a stew.

As for the ghosting, I think people like to throw that word around too easily. Of course you could be completely right, but issues like anxiety and depression may also lead to ceasing contact and then the longer it has been since you talked to that person, the more anxious and depressed you get about going back because what if they wouldn't understand or even hate you? And some people in these situations tend to break it off because they have no idea how to continue or don't want to inflict that kind of pain on the person they have been chatting with.

Neurotypicals generally don't 'get it' and that's why my longest friendships have always been with the kinds of people who can poof for months and then be back and we continue as we left without issue (on both sides, be it me who drops or them). That said of course it is a bit different in terms of romantic relationships, as far as the dropping and continuing goes. I'm just trying to say there could be such a reason for why you got 'kind of ghosted'. That and sometimes life has a habit of getting in the way on top of things.

Again though, not saying that it isn't entirely possible that you did get ghosted. I just find that it helps seeing things from multiple perspectives. And I'm sure there's a lot to it you didn't even mention yet.

The game looks amazing, thanks for the giveaway. As for the occassion, it took me 3 years to heal and another year to find someone I felt the same about but it was worth it, despite it beinga painful experience. It helped me grow a lot as a person. Here is for hoping that it does not take as long for you.

I don't have experience to cheer you up or say anything of value... so I'll just leave it here:

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A relationship?
Other people often feel that way one way or the other.
Perhaps they find it interesting and attractive because they are not human beings.
(In that sense, there was a lot of friendship between men and women in the human race.)

When humans have children, their interest in others is severely diminished, and they end their relationships for the sake of their children.∑(´Θ`)Oh..　🔫👩👶💰🏦 bye bye♪　Zap Zap♪
It was a horrible experience.
What I mean is, if you don't want to get hurt anyway, don't associate with anyone.
But it would be futile.
The human race seems to be a creature that cannot do without the company of others.

Therefore, we tend to be happier when we put unhappy events in the past and move on.
I am not a human being, so I am not interested in this...
(∩´Θ`)∩🎮💻　

yup, yup...【Thinking】( ´･ω･)´･ω)(ω･(･θ･ )
The goal of a person's life is not to get married.
Nor is it to have children.

It is to keep doing what you want to do with conviction.
That may be the point.

One day you will remember it as 'just a breakup', but it won't feel this way now, so hold on to your sister and to your friends and let them help carry you through the bad days.

and thanks for the dope GA of course. Hope something dope happens to you soon.

This situation sucks, I know how you feel.
My ex girlfriend also ghosted me and I had no idea, what the reason was, for years.
Now, six years later, she was searching me. We had a long talk about everything and could talk about her reasons for the breakup for the first time. The strange thing, everything with her is feeling the same as to our good times. It does not feel for me, like there were six years between it and she says, that she is feeling the same. But I try to be carefull. She ghosted me this one time and I don´t now, If I can trust her, after all this time, again.
I wish you the best!

Well, that's unfortunate, disapointing, and heart-aching. But it happens sadly.
I had a whole lot of relationships and I got rejected in many ways possible, ghosting is far worse than everything else because you will worry like crazy about the other person, not mentionning how childish it is to not have "the talk" and at least tell the other person why it can't work anymore.

But be sure you will always overcome this. Sometimes it's easier than others, and it's all right. The most important thing is that you take care of yourself and find a way to think about something else. It will be haunting for a time, but there is nothing that the months can't wash away.

You will get over this, I believe in you !

Hope you feels better now man, tbh i cant give you any advice whatsoever since i have never had a serious relationship before . Just take your time pal.

After my third relationship, I was tinking I would die alone. I thought something was wrong at me. I wasn't that much young, I was late of twenties, but these girls made me worthless. I am also too emotional, so it was like nightmare.
Then I met a girl and I've married to her for almost 3 years. She thread me like I am the most precious thing in the world. Happy ending. :P

I know you thought she was the one, but it seems she wasn't. I know It's hard to find the one, but when you find her, it will worth it.Until then, I hope you'll be happy as possible as.

I've been in a few relationships and whenever they ended they were really painful. But when you least expect it and least want a new relationship, a new golden opportunity will arise. It was like that for me and I have been married to my wonderful wife for over 7 years. Oh, and at the end of a relationship you always tend to think that girl was the woman in your life, but believe me, she wasn't.

Bump!

Keep living; try again.
I've got two marriages behind me (two of many red flags on me) and I'm still finding new people to love and be loved by.
Forward with your life.

Well, I'm near thinking to ask for marriage a woman for the first time in my life, after 2 long time relationships and almost 36yo. Whatever is your age, never give up! And love yourself

Don't stop rocking out!!

Sometimes it comes to you, somtimes you need to find it. Love isn't that easy, nobody ever said that. Hope you get through it without making to much of your time unenjoyable ;) It's always easy to say "keep your head up", but we all know it's a hard thing you're going through. I wish you good luck, you'll find someone, that sticks with you or maybe that someone finds you. time will tell. There are also storys from lost loves came back together, so keep living your life ;)

I know it hurts, been there felt that. Feel the pain, don't duck and cover (not sure if it means what I thought lol). Just don't let yourself down, okay? You are still young, unless you are 120 yo. I'm not saying there is plenty of fish, but you'll find the right one. Focus on yourself, you are the most important person for yourself. You might not gonna read this but I wanted to write, anyway good luck!

This was one of my breakup songs:

https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/blueoctober/breakfastafter10.html