What age is it weird to still be a virgin?
Would of added more options to the poll but i'm lazy

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What age is it weird to still be a virgin?

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I was born without my virginity.
No age.

If somebody judges you based on your virginity,chances are their priorities are fucked up.

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The way I see it if you and your chosen partner are both virgins one day and the next you are but they aren't - Then you have a problem.
Other then that it doesn't matter about age. I lost mine quite early, but my 2nd wife was still one until we married when she was 27.
You do what you do and be who you are and keep it legal - anyone else who thinks it's wrong can go to hell.

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Or your 2nd wife lied to you..... jkjk

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It isnt weird at any age. The people that would judge you for if youve had sex, are probably the same kids that think that sex solves everything in life.

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The last thing I would like to think about my friends is either if they are virgins or not... I mean, that's their private business.

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It's weird as fuck for anybody to be a virgin if they have children.

Anyone else pick the 40+ option to reference a particular movie? q:

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Why should a person's sex life concern another person? I feel people should let others live their own life and not judge others based on their own standards.

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"I wanna go back to being weird. I like being weird. Weird's all I got. That, and my sweet sweet style."

— Maurice Moss, The IT Crowd, "Are We Not Men?", s03e02

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it depends on culture and religion and personal opinion there is no right age but i guess if you get too old it can make you shy or afraid to come forward cause no matter the age people can get immature about those stuff

My personal opinion is 17+ and my first time was at 18 i wanted to be an adult

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i put 20+, and i figured that'd be on high end (or more like middle, given the lack of 16, 17, 18, 19), but guess this poll is more realistic than most out there

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Well, I don't know if there's a right answer for that.
Life takes your virginity away whenever it feels like it. To this day I don't really know what my first girlfriend saw in me, I just know that after a couple of months dating we did it. I was 21 at the time.

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RELAX !! Nobody dies a virgin ,life fucks us all !:D

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Poetry. <3

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did not plan on commenting on this discussion, but you deserve a +1 XD

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Whose this 'life' she sounds dreamy

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Her name is Melody :D

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YES! YES! POTATO!

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There is no age at which it is weird to be a virgin. I'm asexual, and I have no plans to lose my virginity ever.

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when they say they are saving themselves for a fictional character

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Getting close to your 40's so the 35+

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I think the key to happiness is to not care what society might think of you.
I would not convict one who does not want to have sex ever (asexuals?) nor one who is premature and starts very early to gain sexual experiences. Do what is right for you ;)

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Honestly, it's up to the individual to decide.

But personally I think that going over the age of 25 shows some degree of issues (insecurity, for example). I have acquaintances , both male and female, that went past 25 and I can lay out some of their problems.
Problem #1: unrealistic standards (check below for extra thoughts) with extreme shyness when talking to girls
Problem #2: waiting for a wealthy guy who will marry her and treat her like a queen
Problem #3: non-violent but with anger management issues, scared every girl that got close to him because he'd lose his shit over little things
Problem #4: low self-esteem even though he looks good for a guy

And I could go on. I know that most of us battle with one issue or another, I too struggled years with social anxiety but, in the end, I prevailed and earned my wings.
Extra thoughts: Society has us looking in the wrong direction to start with, parading only close to perfect men and women. Abs, muscles, thin waist, round butt, big breasts ... come on, look around you. 90% of us have some degree of fat, imperfections here and there. Stop dreaming of Victoria's Secret and Calvin Klein models and give a chance to the average girl or guy that likes talking to you.

A little advice from an old man (rough translation, forgive me)
Whether you fuck or not, your dick's time is passing.

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"Problem #4: low self-esteem even though he looks good for a guy "

add no social life and that`s me

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forever alone

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nearly 24 here btw -_-

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You're a handsome enough fella.

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Sadly that's an opinion not shared by many. But i'll be okay

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There is no age. Just be happy

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21

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weird is maybe the wrong word. but if someone is still a virgin at 25 or 30, i wonder why that is. i guess in most cases this person did not choose to be a virgin (except for maybe religious reasons). it just didn't happen yet. and the reason might be that the person is extremely shy, or doesn't go out at all. this might indicate that their social life is not what it should or could be. this is of course something one can work on, if he so desires.

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It doesn't matter. Even if you're a middle-aged virgin, I doubt you're going to shout that around the streets.

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Honestly, by that point you'd probably be desperate enough to do that hoping that someone takes pity on you.

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Not everyone will be so desperate, even if they're older.

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Whether other people think its weird or not is trivial. But I must say, having not lost my virginity until I was 24, I feel like it fucks you up if you leave it too long. But maybe that's just me.

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last time I checked, virginity is a important matter for boys to marry a girl(in religious areas like mine). simply most people judge U as a whore if U R not married and U lost your virginity. it's not the age that is important.

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I once convinced a guy that it really didn't matter by asking him how many girls he slept with, and why it's ok for him but not for the woman.

Luckily he didn't pull the stupid lock/key analogy, or I'd have hit him a key that opens many locks is a good key; a lock opened by many keys is a bad lock

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I value experience over virginity anytime (had quite a lot of difficulties relating to a virgin, I liked her a lot, but sex was actually terrible for the first few months). I don't really know why someone would go through the hassle voluntarily.

Also, marry a virgin, in a religious marriage? IMHO you're actually gambling on your bed time for your lifetime! If it doesn't get better with time, you're stuck with no way out :|

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but very religious people don't believe in divorce

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that's why I said that you're stuck for your lifetime! (unless they believe in homicide :P)

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oddly enough, both islam and judaism have rules for divorce (though, in both cases, it's the husband who grants the wife the divorce)

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Speaking of Islam: Islam lets couple divorce but its highly that couple try to fix the problem and if they couldn't,then they divorce. the thing is when U want to divorce, U R choosing between bad and worse

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This is not the world I want. U fuck ppl and marry the one who is best? U think that's pleasure? I stay clear for a clear match! so I enjoy my life even if I don't enjoy sex much! Sex is not everything. I don't like to be like ppl who divorce and find another partner. I prefer to be with one person and stay with her. I really can't accept sex before marriage even if the persons want to marry later. this not a beautiful world this way!

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I didn't say that I marry the one who is best at sex. I marry the one i have a healthy relationship AND sex with. We just don't view sex in the same way, I don't see it as something that leaves a taint on someone, as if he/she was infected with a horrible disease.

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I hope U find your match anyway!

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Hope the same for you! :)

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When does a person lose his/her virginity is a matter of many factors.
I personally think it's okay if you are a virgin below 30. Being virgin over that age indicates that something is wrong and time to hit up some dating websites if you can't get laid. But I still would not treat you as a weirdo or a criminal if you die as a virgin.
I was already reading about this subject in one of the forums and many people are still virgin around 25-30, even if they don't admit it to the public, or lie about it.
Keep in mind that everyone lives their life differently. There are people who are still virgin at nearly/over 30, but not because of their culture/religion and not because they want to stay a virgin, but because they don't find a right partner even if they have low standards.
As they mentioned above, society is forcing things on people. I know some 14 years old kids who look like 24 and they are in "relationship". Sorry but they ain't no better than an intact person.
So what I want to say is you don't have to be ashamed to be a virgin, it's your own private decision. People are all different and no need to compare yourself to others.

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