What age is it weird to still be a virgin?
It's fine. What's weird is if you tell someone that you're still a virgin on a first date
yes, that happened to me
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the former. I was told in the middle of dinner that the person was a virgin. It most certainly wasn't an invitation.
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it just casually came out during dinner. in the "weird things about me" part of the conversation
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It's not quite as bad as saying "I pick my nose and eat it", but it wasn't exactly a normal way for the conversation to flow. Besides, I didn't find this particular person interesting anyway.
Still, once I was making out in bed, clearly about to have sex, when a tongue went up my nostril. Upon asking what the hell was going on, the reply was "my tongue has been in much worse places than that".
I've never gotten out the door that fast (don't think I was fully dressed or anything)
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depends on culture and your own feelings.
to me, it feels weird that i am a 21 year old virgin, but to others that might be normal and i don't judge them.
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At some point I was so old that I could honestly say that I am a virgin in public or joke about it and nobody actually believed me. For some reason people assume I'm a ladies man. I also had problems because of this, women wouldn't trust me.
Anyway, it does not really matter. At some point it might build on you that society has this opinion of you, but if you meet your partner who likes you and you like him/her back it doesn't matter anymore. And if you don't want anything sexual then it's fine too.
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well im going to be virgin for all my life.
case my zodiac sign its virgo.
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um, the zodiac sign virgo means virgin anywhere that subscribes to the greek zodiac (which is the one generally used throughout the western world)
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ok thanks for the info, i wasn't completely sure about that
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Voted for 20+
As soon as you're in proper age for doing it, but don't manage to do it in a couple of years after that even, it's either that you're asexual which is weird, or have no options, meaning people find you too weird to do it. Sex is a natural part of life, and if a person is not engaging it for whatever reason, that's pretty weird. Not trying to insult anyone though, it's completely OK to be weird, and it's not even bad in any way, but at least I'd expect them to admit that it's weird, instead of suggesting that it's completely everyday thing to die a virgin.
P.S. staying virgin for religious causes is a whole new level of weird, only a little less weird than letting your kid die because your religion doesn't allow blood transfusions.
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meh. I recall having a friend who just wanted to save himself for marriage - but wasn't religious in any way shape or form.
Know someone else who just wasn't all that interested, and another who wanted to fall in love first.
There are plenty of reasons beyond asexual, religious, and undateable.
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Waiting for marriage or love = spiritual reasons, pretty weird.
Wasn't interested = lack of sexual urges around age when people normally have them, pretty weird.
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I think by weird you mean socially awkward, right? Then, it varies a lot between different cultures, even with big discrepancies microscopically.
I'd say that being weird is a gift, and you should never trade your values, your personal beliefs and choices, over any kind of social oppression or shame of being considered weird.
For me, that's what's really weird: losing virginity (or anything else) just to stop being considered weird by others.
Just shield yourself from external judgements, and be true to yourself. Stick to that, and I can assure it'll get easier, and eventually you'll find your inner peace, and noone will be able to take that from you.
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I'm glad "No age." won, even if i voted 35+
you guys rock !
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Men tend to get depressed when they are still virgins at a certain age. Society, on the other hand, makes fun of that fact. I'm really grossed out by that.
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No age. Virginity shouldn't be something that you should aim to lose anyway, it isn't a race for the prize despite what all those horny teen movies say. And if you simply don't want to have sex then that doesn't make you any less.... I don't really know what people think sex does that is so magical? :p It's a bit of letdown. The weird part only comes from people being obsessed to know and even treating some people differently because they haven't had sex.
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The 40 Year Old Virgin (2005) something like this :)
20-25 is weird but is still normal, i mean it's hard to stay virgin from 15-20. If it's your choice then it's ok.
So how old are you? :)
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From what I've read, here in Sweden roughly 50% will lose their virginity before the age of 20. A lot of people will claim to have lost it earlier, but people are not always honest about these things...
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If you wait until after you have your first child it can be embarrassing, apart from that any age is fine.
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I'm a 26 years old virgin and I don't care since I already accepted the fact that I will die this way. It's not that I try to keep it, more like I don't try to lose it. I'm not handsome or rich and I'm generally a boring person, there is not a single thing a girl would like about me and it would take years to change. I rather gave up.
Too bad society cares and judges you because of your virginity. And if you don't tell them they will eventually think you are gay because they never see you with a girl. Unfortunately I simply can't ignore what others think about me.
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Your grammar and sentence structure look good to me, especially since it's not your first language, therefore I suspect your intelligence is above average, therefore you could play on that, go for women who look for intelligent nerdboys.
The worst thing I keep seeing is that when a smart nerdboy goes after shallow bimbos, and keeps complaining that all women only want money, big dicks and big muscles.
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People with little experience (and who retain this lack of experience for a long time) tend to have a very idealized view of how their first time should be, and more importantly, what the person they'll do it with will look like. They won't settle with anything that's not "perfect", and their view on what's "perfect" tends to be very looks-fixated. Combine this with nerd culture not exactly having the healthiest view on women in many cases (this is where you get the bimbo-hunting, people expect them to be "easy" because they are traditionally good looking and don't mind getting drunk at parties), and you've got a recipe for long term virginity.
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What age is it weird to still be a virgin?
Would of added more options to the poll but i'm lazy
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