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vidokas

When your ex-coworker says that you are awesome guy because you help her close bar (she little bit scared to be there alone at 5 AM).
But true reason you are there so late is that no one is waiting you at home.

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ebbpp

Sorry to hear that, but in a way it is true. One resigned from free time to help instead of spending it on oneself - that is awesome. Anyways a hug for brighter future.

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LeetPete

Healthy relationships do bring us happiness. But if you're referring to the fact that you shouldn't go into a relationship expecting them to fix your problems, I agree that you should work on yourself first.

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vidokas

Went to psychologist for 1+ year. then 0.5 year of group therapy. + 2 constellations.
So now I know a lot of theory, how should I act, what to do and what not to do, I can analyze and understand a lot of mistakes that I'm making or made before (there was super big ones). I know that I need to start working with myself, get nice hobbies, go outside, socialize.. And that's why I'm worried. I just stopped loving myself long time ago, and only I can change that. I had some interesting hobbies, but every interest burns out very fast.
And that irony.. Craving for relationship won't bring you one. Visa versa. Feeling desperate only makes things worse.

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ET3D

Too much psychoanalysis can be bad for your health. :) Really, it can sometimes just add pressure, because you don't conform to what you think you need to conform to.

Not that I'm saying that hobbies, going outside and socialising aren't good, but if you hate yourself for not doing them that's counter-productive.

Hey, you have a friend who thinks you're awesome. That's already good. If you're good friends, maybe you could talk to her about this instead of to an online crowd.

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refat17

No matter your situation, I'm sure that person appreciated your help. Sometimes things just take time.
I also appreciate the giveaway. So thanks for that too.

Here's your bump.

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Lugum

Expert?

Also experience is generally not bad. :p

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vidokas

there is no sexual tension between us.
I just worked there for 3 months this summer and we just became good friends

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Mully

what does that have to do with a relationship? 🤷

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nadhmi23

I didn't get the point too

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vidokas

if you are not happy alone, there is big chance that you will not be happy in relationship

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vidokas

Sorry guys.
I just was super drunk at lonely.

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Myrsan

No need to apologize. It's comprehensible and it wasn't your intention to be unclear. There are many worse threads than this. Keep your faith in finding that special someone! :)

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steamgiftski

not all relationships need to be of a romantic nature.
we're all in this together; and to some degree each of us can relate/empathize and care for each other

if you plan on continuing to spend time with your friend/ex-coworker, I'd suggest trying to get a job there too and get paid for the time spent; or try to pass the time with interesting games/topics.

when is last call (last time to order drinks) if the bar closes at 5am? if the time spent in relatively short, then it's just spending time with a friend; but if it's for several hours, then could this be a hobby of sorts?

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