Have fun.
Don't have alcohol.
Don't have sex.
Don't step on her feet.
Learn more about eachother (if you don't know much already).
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Sadly probably a bit too late for the OP, unless they're still checking the SG forums on their phone or something...
Dunno who would though.
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Goodness! You're pretty young, but let's see what we can offer for advice.
1) Just be the way you are when you're with your friends. Your friends like you that way, and so will she if you're relaxed and friendly.
2) If you notice yourself talking too much out of nervousness, STOP. Apologize for being nervous, then ask questions about HER. (likes, dislikes, etc.)
3) Just treat her nicely, the way you would a friend or cousin. If she seems uncomfortable, offer her a change of scene/take a walk/etc.
Hope that helps.
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treat her like a human, and you'll be favored…. Don'y be an ass hole basically…..
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Looking at everyone posting when the thread is 7 hours old, and he said he was leave in one hour at the time of the thread's creation...
Always entertaining. :P
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Times an illusion, so is the world being round.
Flat Earth Society for life. we are the chosen ones.
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Thats insane, if that true then why when I walk I go straight and not up, down, left, right, Sqaure, X, Traingle.
Wait what.
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I'll also be going to homecoming with a girl pretty soon, if by a girl you mean my hand and by going to homecoming you mean jerking off to hardcore BDSM porn.
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Funny you say that. Yep. Freshman in high school. And she used to go to our school and I had a major crush on her so I asked her and she went. We aren't amish, but she lives legit right next to a ton of amish families.
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Due to redistricting, I lived a 25 min drive away from my first high school. If someone lived on the exact opposite side, an hour isn't really out of the question.
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Don't be a weirdo. I know one guy who is total weirdo (My friend). When he wants to talk with someone, he comes really really really close (The distance between your face and his face is like 1.5-2 cm) so everybody try to escape him. Just...DON'T BE THAT GUY!
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Pretty much everywhere, strangers at parties do that all the time, sometime people don't even know each others name, sometimes sex also happens, its called a one night stand.
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What's so strange about it? Happens all the time - on parties, dancings, gigs and so on and on. The fact that two slightly intoxicated people having fun wwant some intimacy (be it kissing or even casual sex) doesn't mean they ultimately want to be together for rest of their lives - they just want to have fun at the exact moment and that's it.
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I was referring to them being possibly intoxicated..If they're not thinking clearly,then the whole situation can be blamed on alcohol and done with; I don't have any problem with that. But assuming they didn't drink anything,said girl kissed him twice,but didn't advance it any further.. It's confusing.
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True,but that's not my point. In simple terms - if some girl I'm fund of kissed me and I was sure she's not drunk or did anything that may cause her thinking to become skewed - Then I imagine she wants one of two things: Either 'have fun' tonight and not care about it later,or advance into a relationship. OP said she clearly denied a relationship,so we're left with 'having fun' but she only kissed him,nothing more,plus she did it just before going home(implying she didn't think about it turning into anything further).
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Wow, a few days later and people are still talking about. +1 for interesting life.
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"ANYTHING THAT'S FREELY GIVEN HAS NO VALUE."
I disagree with that sentence.
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These points are freely given.
The CV is not required.
You have only a chance at winning, just like when you buy a lottery ticket.
I agree with the fact that winning feels better than just getting, but I fail to see the relevancy with the current topic...
And many things in life are freely given, including life itself. (I didn't pay to be born, did I?)
So I still disagree with that sentence. :P
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Wow, you totally didn't get what I was implying. At all.
I wasn't referring to your whole post, only the last sentence: "ANYTHING THAT'S FREELY GIVEN HAS NO VALUE."
I was simply pointing out that it is not the case with everything. :P
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what do you mean freshman in your country ? virgin ?
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A freshman is someone who is in 9th grade, or their first year in high school.
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1, Save after the first kiss.
2, Keep a lot of slots to save.
3, After she says no, load the latest save, choose the other option. If she still says no, load an early save and try to figure out what did you do wrong.
Eventually, she will say yes...oh wait...
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Kyleman my man, I figure I'm about 12 years older than you, and I'm a teacher now. Like, legit, up-in-front-of-students, casual-Fridays, non-unionized education.
You've just experienced what will sure to be a string of many confusing girl moments in your life, but I invite you to smile about it all and just go along with it like a gentleman. Maybe things will work, and maybe they won't, but at the very least, you can have fun trying, right? If she insists that living an hour apart is a deal-breaker, tell her that it wasn't a problem when King Henry VIII married his 4th wife, a German princess with the face of a stallion, even though she lived more than one, possibly even two, hours away from him. That will set that straight, I guarantee.
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"princess with the face of a stallion"
Wow, Sarah Jessica Parker is really old oO
Anyway, +1
Just remember, the first woman you kiss doesn't have to be the last woman you kiss. The last woman you kiss should be the one you always wanted to kiss.
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For some reason, I just like the way that man looks.
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Kisses you multiple times throughout the night, does not want to date you.
Wat.
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You poor, poor fool. The point was to have a good time. If she let you feel her up, were you going to ask her to marry you?! Know when to just stop and enjoy!
That said, we've all done it before. Live and learn.
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There is no thing to understand. Just enjoy life as it comes.
The more you think, the more confussed you will get, specially coming from human behaviour.
In other words, just be happy while you are here. :)
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I'm nervous, anyone got tips?
EDIT: Should probably mention, I am a freshmen...
EDIT2: boy do I have a story. So the first few hours, we're just chilling. Then we're slow dancing, and I'm thinking I should kiss her. Then, bam, she kisses me. Sounds good, right? But it gets better. My friends keep talking to me and saying that I should ask her out. So, what do I do? I do it. I ask, and she says no. shit. we live like an hour apart, and she didn't really want to do that since it was so far apart. so it's awkward the rest of the night. Then, we get picked up and we drop her off. I go outside to say goodbye. Then we kiss. Like, legit, women. I'm so confused.
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