and I'm nervous. I'm 23, she's 21.

I only have my permit cause I can't afford a car (college) and just started learning to drive a month ago, so I'm picking her up with my grandfather (his vehicle). She knows and thinks it's cute "cause I'm embarrassed". We're gonna get dropped off by a nice place I picked out for lunch and then walk to the nearby theatre and see two plays (she doesn't know the latter). She's deaf/hard of hearing and my grandfather doesn't know, but he's a good guy and I know he won't think much of it, but still. Maybe it's just me trying to pick out problems that aren't even real. I also don't know what to wear...should I get some flowers before picking her up? I don't know! ;_;

Wish me luck? Sorry I don't have a game for you.

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Please just enjoy. That's love, nothing more that makes our world beautiful. By the way, the most important thing is your date. Forget about games. Just be yourself. If it goes bad, you shouldn't be sad.Because the world still goes on. Maybe I am the last one who can say that but love is common.As in Eminem's song,"The moment, you own it, you better never let it go.".

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Does she have steam? Anyway good luck. :D

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Just relax, feel comfortable and have a nice conversation with her. Good luck man!

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There you go... You're welcome!

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good luck

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You're a nice guy. Good luck to you then :)

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Have fun. I've been alone for a few years. Last week, an ex and I got back together and we have been happy about it. :D

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you are too old for her sorry pal, 2 years wow...

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deaf/hardofhearing? Just like me. Do you know sign language?

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I know some sign language. Isn't holding up the middle finger the universal statement of hello?

I'm sorry, but it had to be said.

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sign language and gestures are different thing.

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I don't :x

and I will let the thread know how it went!

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good luck. Hope you both enjoyed your date.

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Good luck!

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okay but come back home for steam summer sale

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Just be yourself mate! Good luck :)

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I have yet to know a woman that doesn't like flowers so I think it would be a safe move. Relax, have a good time, enjoy the plays! Although you might want to mention to your grandfather she has hearing problems in case it turns awkward when they meet. Good luck! :)

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Read post 2 and see how i argue with an idiot. That silver prick douch said some moronic theories out of his virgin mind ( or he's insecure/not yet discovered - gay hmmm )

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Good luck!

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GL man

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Tell your grandfather that she's deaf and I'm sure flowers couldn't possibly do any harm. Good luck!

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Good luck with you date, but do not exaggerate with too many things in one day and on the first date. Give her a bit on every day - lunch, flowers, your grandfather car...mmm
Think about sex too and do not spend all your money in one day !

Say pass to the flowers for now and dont be shy on her!
I am 27.

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Only a fucktarded/menthally handicapped/autistic ( without special powers btw) would say that.

FIRST,IMPRESSION,ALWAYS,COUNTS. For dates,for business,for PRETTY MUCH FUCKING EVERYTHING .
What will he and his girlfriend (in the future,wife,if they are compatible & all goes well ) ,when they are asked how did they first met,how was it,etc ,first date etc ????
OP dont listen to this dude's opinion to disregard flowers,it seems he has the grumpycat-ness of a 80-90 year old fossil and he said he's just 27 lol.
Even if you can only get (or to save money for the food&theater etc ) some cheap flowers,if they look&smell good it's all good,especially if it comes from the heart ,the gift. ;)

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Looks like you were single all the time you bitch dont you ?! 90% of girls like bad boys not pussies like you ! Get the hell outta my post kiddy !

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Actually,if you treat your girl like a rag, guess what prick,you ARE a rag too (worse actually ) :) Just a thought. Your "90% of girls like bad boys not pussies like you ! " is something only a complete retard/virgin would say. Also beeing ballanced is best ,not "bad boys" (and you definatly dont know the definition of bad boys either lewl . ) You CAN be romantic,badass,good,bad when you have to,to the people you have to,etc. AND all those qualities/flaws mixture without beeing gay ,like you,trololo. You are either a virgin/gay/ you are a rag if you advised the OP to treat his girl like a rag just caz " 90% of girls like bad boys not pussies" lol fail "macho man " ,you are sad pfff .

Please do tell me,at your first post "Say pass to the flowers for now and dont be shy on her! I am 27."
Is that advice to say pass to the flowers,because of a zombie/alien invasion in your country/you have no manners&common sense / post apocaliptic world (as in ,this day for example?) in your country/etc more funny lame "reasons" ???
You see ,prick,one thing's to say somethin like " sometimes you gotta do best you can with least you have " to OP since he said he needs advice and maybe because financially he needs the advice too,one thing's to say that,another thing is to say Grumpycat version of " NO " (or Pass like you said,like a real ass ^_^ )
Please do tell,ENLIGHTEN ME,oh Zen Masta ! ( blind ,not the MTV Zen Masta ).
Please do tell me what chineagro'w south-pole-CocoBongoAntarctican region are you to suggest someone to say pass to flowers like a real moron would suggest? On first date too,PFFFFFFFFFFFFF.

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I didnt even read your shit HAHAHA, you suck so much bro ! My reaction now !

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Ask grandpa/dad to borrow the car. You have your permit and you're not 16, I'm sure they can trust you with it for the night.

I couldn't really picture a date (besides highschool) where I didn't have a car :)

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Although I'm sure she'd find the gift sweet, I'm don't think she'd want to sit through two plays holding a bunch of flowers. I'd warn your grandfather about her hearing difficulties to avoid any awkwardness or embarrassment if he tries to talk to her and she can't hear him. Don't try to impress her, just be yourself as you would with your friends, except show her a little affection during the date (i.e. touch her arm gently during conversation) to avoid the friend zone. Be a good listener and try to make sure she does most of the talking rather than talking about yourself. Be relaxed and comfortable and she will be too. Good luck!

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Jorah the andal,king of the friendzone hehe xD

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^^ Probably the best advice you'll get here.

I agree, no flowers. Flowers are for when you pick her up at her place, you give flowers when she opens the door. She will want to put them in some water, not carry them all over town.

Make sure you don't drop any "backing down" lines during the night about how it's great to meet a new "friend" or anything along those lines. She needs to know you view her romantically and not platonic. If it seems to be going well you can always share an armrest/hold hands during the play; physical contact is important but don't overdo it.

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this guy knows what he is talking about

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My advise is ,nice flowers that look and smell nice , some good food ( you can do pizzas &other yummy but not healthy food etc later in your relationship but get some properly cooked food )
Thing is ,let me tell you about a friend of mine.(Old friend,argued with him because of some game stuff and a moron friend of his,well he had more moronic friends on skype anyway point is => ) he kept thinking my suggestion of a nice movie(s) /tv show(s) & food like a pizza etc and flowers ofc start with flowers ,he thought that ideea was bad. SO i raged and told him "So wtf do you kids nowadays have in mind to gift at first date/dates? Iphone 4?DAFUQ !",something like that,in our language xD . (im 23 btw ) .
Romance is a classic and don't worry ,dont look for more advice here or anywhere else but your heart and mind :) .
As for her problem with hearing,in-time you should advise her to check some specialists see if it can be healed by surgery or maybe audtive machine those thingies you plug in ears idk it's english name. My grandma worked for phone central for 39 years so she's almost deaf on one ear.

Believe me,you're a natural. Since you do worry and do care and what not :)

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Good luck! Also, flower is always a good choice. As previously said, women love flowers. Or at least the gesture, you giving them flower. Just don't overshoot it at the first time by giving her half of a flower garden. Plus it sounds a little weird, but admitting that you're a little nervous about this date won't ruin your chances. Because hell, what does say more to a girl that " I'm so happy to be with you I can't even think straight, that's why I'm a little nervous " ?

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EllenPageAndMichaelCera-AnyoneElseButYou , Juno Soundtrack. :X
Tup di di diup ;D
Ellen Page is so epic :X ( Kitty in X-Men too btw :D )

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Good luck!

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Good lick!

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Kinkyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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