Didn't we do this thread last week?

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Everything Is Awful and I’m Not Okay: questions to ask before giving up

Are you hydrated?
If not, have a glass of water.

Have you eaten in the past three hours?
If not, get some food — something with protein, not just simple carbs. Perhaps some nuts or hummus?

Have you showered in the past day?
If not, take a shower right now.

If daytime: are you dressed?
If not, put on clean clothes that aren’t pajamas. Give yourself permission to wear something special, whether it’s a funny t-shirt or a pretty dress.

If nighttime: are you sleepy and fatigued but resisting going to sleep?
Put on pajamas, make yourself cozy in bed with a teddy bear and the sound of falling rain, and close your eyes for fifteen minutes — no electronic screens allowed. If you’re still awake after that, you can get up again; no pressure.

Have you stretched your legs in the past day?
If not, do so right now. If you don’t have the spoons for a run or trip to the gym, just walk around the block, then keep walking as long as you please. If the weather’s crap, drive to a big box store (e.g. Target) and go on a brisk walk through the aisles you normally skip.

Have you said something nice to someone in the past day?
Do so, whether online or in person. Make it genuine; wait until you see something really wonderful about someone, and tell them about it.

Have you moved your body to music in the past day?
If not, do so — jog for the length of an EDM song at your favorite BPM, or just dance around the room for the length of an upbeat song.

Have you cuddled a living being in the past two days?
If not, do so. Don’t be afraid to ask for hugs from friends or friends’ pets. Most of them will enjoy the cuddles too; you’re not imposing on them.

Do you feel ineffective?
Pause right now and get something small completed, whether it’s responding to an e-mail, loading up the dishwasher, or packing your gym bag for your next trip. Good job!

Do you feel unattractive?
Take a selfie. Your friends will remind you how great you look, and you’ll fight society’s restrictions on what beauty can look like.

Do you feel paralyzed by indecision?
Give yourself ten minutes to sit back and figure out a game plan for the day. If a particular decision or problem is still being a roadblock, simply set it aside for now, and pick something else that seems doable. Right now, the important part is to break through that stasis, even if it means doing something trivial.

Have you seen a therapist in the past few days?
If not, hang on until your next therapy visit and talk through things then.

Have you been over-exerting yourself lately — physically, emotionally, socially, or intellectually?
That can take a toll that lingers for days. Give yourself a break in that area, whether it’s physical rest, taking time alone, or relaxing with some silly entertainment.

Have you changed any of your medications in the past couple of weeks, including skipped doses or a change in generic prescription brand? That may be screwing with your head. Give things a few days, then talk to your doctor if it doesn’t settle down.

Have you waited a week?
Sometimes our perception of life is skewed, and we can’t even tell that we’re not thinking clearly, and there’s no obvious external cause. It happens. Keep yourself going for a full week, whatever it takes, and see if you still feel the same way then.
You’ve made it this far, and you will make it through. You are stronger than you think.

Been there, done that ! Just find a new hobbit like going to the gym or learning to play a music instrument. A few months and you'll completely forget about it.
Hope this'll help

Sometimes a girl will try to do "what's best for you" and pretend she doesn't like you anymore, but in fact she still does.
And sometimes things in a relationship just happened, people change, it could have been either way.

You don't think you will get over it, but you will. Takes time, plenty of it.

it will get better, been there and thought it is the end of the world, well it was but things got better after time, to be honest you need two people for this and since she doesnt wont to, it wouldnt work and it would suck

Never happened to me B-)

Being loved, I mean. ;_;

Were you a couple or just good friends?

Well, don't. I've felt about the same way. I was just thinking recently about whether I'm over it or not, because the day that it happened was in May and not a May goes by that I don't think about it. I started to get superstitious, because for a few years afterward I always just happened to go through some emotional extremes (unpleasant ones) on the anniversary of the day, unrelated to actually specifically remembering it. Life does go on. It's pretty weird, and it'll probably remain feeling weird. But right now I have all kinds of other, new problems, and obsessions, taking up my whole life. And the girl I was in love with meant everything to me, too. Just take care not to do anything too stupid while you're emotionally unstable and uncertain. Which might be for a while. I don't know. Try to spend some time in nature. Maybe see a friend or some family member who will either be able to relate or you'll just be able to have an OK time around, they just might cheer you up a bit, when you feel like it. Ultimately, it's just going to have to take time. Stuff just goes on... Actually, the idea that you can survive something that seems so horrible, and that life will just continue to go on, kind of makes you think, 'was I wrong to feel so strongly about it all?' It might actually feel wrong that you'll just be fine after enough time, because that would seem to devalue the suffering you've felt. But, you won't be completely fine; as I say, it stays with you. But you'll feel better eventually. I struggle to say any more, because as much as I've continued to think about it over the years, I experienced heartbreak quite a while ago by now. And, actually, some of the things I'm going through now kind of dwarf of how bad that was, as unbelievable as that sounds. So, you always have new problems to look forward to. ;) There'll be a time when this takes on an aspect of mundanity, even if it'll never be something completely mundane or forgettable. Very gradually, it'll recede and be kind of normalized. Just putter about for now. Eat. Sleep. Then see what happens. Do something you like doing; don't do anything, relax. You're right, the Internet, for all its bad rep, can actually be a good way to connect people who have shared similar experiences and that can make a big difference when the people you know in real life can't really relate to you. Hope this helped.

Also, I actually kind of tend to be a bit more cynical or not care when I see these sort of threads on SG, because, yes, it's a site about video games, after all; it might not "be the place". But, whatever. I guess I can care once in a while. I guess I related to the particular way you expressed yourself.

Please don't do something stupid! I'm pretty sure, even if I don't know anything about you and your story, that it's not worth it.
Of course you're not the first one to feel like this. Of course it hurts, and you will suffer for a while, but pain will fade away at some point. Try to do something that will keep you busy, and don't forget that there will always be people willing to help you :3

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A good friend of mine told me once that she "could stand losing a boyfriend, but can never imagine losing a friend". I did not agree with her then, but over the years I started to see the wisdom behind it.
There is nothing much I can do, considering I am yet another random guy on the internet, and I know it is hard for you right now. But I am sending you a lot of sun and good thoughts, wherever you might be now!

its ok, it is how it has to be. you just entered in the tunnel and it looks endless. try to focus on something and distract your mind from those degenerate thoughts. take a walk outside, cook, grow a plant day by day, read book, clean the house, build things furniture with scrap wood. either sleep much or little. see overthinking as an alarm signal, it means you have nothing better to do, and you gotta do something about it.

You've got, what, 50-60 years left to live? Why spend it worrying about one person who acts like a bitch? She's not special or unique, you just cared for that particular person because you perceived your personalities as compatible, and because she happened to be a part of your social life; which caused a reaction in your brain . It really is that simple. Fairytales are for kids.

Move on. Allowing yourself to be controlled by one in 7,347 Billion is counterproductive and stupid. You want another person like that in your life? Well, being like you are now is not going to do you any favors in that regard.

Realism -> Sentimentalism.

Not that you aren't allowed to grieve or anything. This is going to come off as harsh, and you should handle it the way you want to, but think about what's best for you before you decide to collapse to your own detriment.

I agree that it is hard, but can assure you that no matter how close you were, life will go on without them.

You didn't lose a friend, an acquaintance decided they needed to spend their time otherwise.
That happens. People change, sometimes in an incredibly short time. Maybe they have problems or issues, maybe this move is the best thing for them and their life..
The way it happens can hurt but that's how it goes sometimes. You do not have a permanent subscription on somebodys time or understanding. Try to move on and get involved with other people.