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I made similiar experiences with people, sometimes it's unexplainable.
I think the hardest part is, when telling other people about it, their gut reaction seems to be, to tell you it's your fault and when confronted with the fact, that attacking one's self-esteem is not helpful they immedeatly start backpaddling...

Most of the people are like that. You are not the problem, they are. I can be a dick or be very emotional sometimes but the people who know me well "accepts me the way that I am".
I'm in 11th grade right now and every year I had a different friend because the other ones stop talking or texting to me. Now I just talk to some people but I'm not friends with them. I think you shouldn't worry so much about what others think and why they are doing what they are doing.
Briefly, just be yourself... and fuck 'em. 😄👍

You answered your own question

" I'm arrogant. Cruel and mean some times."

It seems it's sometimes one too many times.Your broken and should seek help to fix it and get better people skills.I mean really nobody wants to put up with those 3 things you listed even if it is sometimes.

You seem to also carry a bit of entitlement as in you think someone owes you an explanation for not wanting to be you, friend, anymore.I mean seriously you admit pretty much everyone you come in contact with at some points stops associate with you.Then for good measure you go and say something like this ...

"Oh. Noes. That's not depression. I'm just pissed as fuck at how idiotic humans can be. :)))" all while not realizing how idiotic you have been and are being.You seem to borderline on narcism giving your orginal post and how you respond to peopole and yet you still wonder why people ignore you and so on.You then preceed to call most of them idiotic for not putting up with your crap.

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I don't know you but this thread, your responses and the thoughts behind them (or at least the ones I think are there) are your best answer for your question... In the case that you honestly care abotu that :P

Its easier to press the block button on the internet than in real life. So I suggest you try making friends in real life and see how they can try removing you from their life then. If they still do it then something really is wrong with you and not them.

I am a person who sometimes "blocks" people out of my life. There are some reasons for that.

1. Sometimes I felt ashamed because I did something really stupid and every time seeing the other person reminds me of that. But there was always a big fight before.
2. Sometimes I have the feeling that I can't grow with this person anymore. It's mostly the we-grew-apart-thing.
3. When people have too many and too stupid expectations of me
4. If both person want something different things from each other.

I know that people have different concepts of how to treat people. Some of my friends have friends since kindergarten and they value their time spend together as the bonding between them. For me, it's important to have a great bonding in this moment. That's the reason why I sometimes block people out of my life. But I always ask myself: is it worth it. I can fight for a relationship but I won't give myself up for the other person.

I know that you want to know the reasons why and you want an explanation. But sometimes there is no explanation. I'm a really honest person and I'm showing my feelings pretty straight. But I don't want to be pushed in a corner where I have to justify my decision. You can say it's a lesson in life. Sometimes it didn't work between two people because things are changing or they don't. That doesn't makes you wrong in any way. It makes us all more human.

And I'm sorry that you have to cope with this feeling of rejection. But sometimes it's not really about you or your personality. Sometimes the other persons needs something different than you can offer. And no one can offer everything.

I wonder if you're trolling or just that oblivious to why people block you. Maybe you just like the self pity parades.

Meh....

It could be a generational thing but, really, a 'friend' on the internet?

Maybe they just got bored of chatting with you and just found it easier to block / delete you, I've done that many times and I offer no apologies for it.

I'd suggest the real problem why this keeps happening to you (and I don't mean getting blocked btw, I mean feeling bad about getting blocked), is that you're investing far too much in transient / intangible and perhaps even imaginary relationships.

I make it a point not to have ANY friends online that I don't know personally offline - I may have hundreds of 'friends' on Steam or PSN, yet I can unequivocally state that I don't consider any of them to be actual friends (with the exception of two guys I know from school who I play FIFA with) - I might have played a game or two with them or traded with them, I may have even had a few interesting chats with them, but friends? Lol.

Likewise, I'm sure hundreds of people have blocked me on Facebook or whatever too, I know lots of people have blacklisted me on here and even if their reasons were deeply personal, I couldn't care less.

I consider myself very lucky to have been spared the lunacy and madness of social media while I was growing up - it seems to have created a generation of hyper-sensitive, self-obsessed neurotics.

Everything I know about you is from this topic alone. I don't know you!
I don't want answers to the questions I'm going to ask. These are for you only.

Why would I want to talk to somebody who's arrogant, cruel and mean? A relationship, whether it's on a basis of strangers-talk-to-strangers, friendship or love - You GIVE and RECEIVE. That's what many people looking for.
I want to be treated with respect and/or love.
How do you want to be treated by others?
What do you expect from them?
How should people treat you?
Do you treat them the way you want to be treated?
Is there room for improvement?
Find the answers to that and try working on yourself. If you just expect that other need to take you as you are - that's fine. But everything will stay as it is. So working on yourself is the best solution if you're unhappy with how it is.
Be someone you want to be and things will change. (I've read you might be a younger guy. If this is the case, you might just need to grow up. This is no offense, it's just how the world works. I was a weird teenager too.)

Do an experiment. Try to change all names within this thread including yours (or even better: chat-logs from people who blocked you). Read everything. Try to really focus on the situation(s).
What did you say to them?
Why did you say it?
Should you have said something else instead?
Try to stay objective and you will discover why you get blocked so often.
There is no reason for me or most other people to stay in contact with somebody who shows anger towards me, makes me feel bad in any way, does not show me respect (shit happens tho, everybody makes mistakes. The big word is: Sorry) and so on and on...

Good luck.

Asking for explanations. Receiving explanations ("f*** the rest of the world") you like. Celebrating it.
Receiving explanations you don't like. Arguing that those people don't know you (though they've read your other postings and this is just a discussion board).

Why would anyone even try to know you better if what's already known is plain bad? There are tons of users who are friendly and reasonable in the first place. If you're just playing the cool guy making harsh jokes, there are also others that already do that better and don't rub somebody up the wrong way everytime.

It's a no-brainer. It's lot easier to promptly eliminate someone from your life than to have to explain various personal or objective reasons and try to find "solutions" which don't really work when you're fed up with someone. Especially when that someone is a piece of work as you seem to be, always ready to protest and debate other people's opinion of you and not willing to accept the situation in a rational and mature manner.

"I'm arrogant. Cruel and mean some times."

Well some people have patience if they like you but even they can't have patience forever, maybe they just had enough.

idk lady, having a confrontation on that regard might result in a neverending discussion, swears, and such. its just the easiest way.

dont bother fam, you are awesome.

i dont know you, but you seem to be interesting, want to be my crazy friend? :)

Does something happens before total block?
I can see only 3 ways:

1. Action which follow total block.
2. You have been hacked by malefactor who took control of your account. After this, malefactor use your account to destroy your relationship with somebody by using message and history delete.
3. Malefactor give compromising material to your friends. For example, in some countries homosexuality isn't allowed or condemned by society. So, malefactor create and distribute compromising material to victim's friends to achieve society condemn and social isolation or worst.

Just out of curiosity, when did SG forum became like this? Since ever? It wasnt supposed to be a "gaming forum" primarily when the site was created?

Good luck with your own battles.

Some people will block you for no reason at all or if you just slightly piss them off or you don't interest them or if they see they can't profit off of you they will block or ban you , its like that all over the internet , i even do it myself, if you go tell me one wrong thing, bam i will block and ban, but I have my reasons i lost 9 people this past year (by lost I mean they died) including my mom and a very dear friend i knew more then 30 years and most recent the son of one of my best friend's was murdered he was only 19,,,so i got my reasons to be fked up , anyone mess with me i block/ban/blacklist and do black magic spells to keep'em away...

Add me as a friend on steam and we will see what happens after some time <3

maybe people can't handle your epicness.
or you're just too full of shit.
who knows without knowing you?

in general the whole blocking and no contact stuff in life works a lot like the blacklisting on sg.

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oh cmon... People dont block out of their lives others for no reason.
You did something. And Im sick of others blaming the people who blocked you.

Have you ever thought about that you actually could be the problem ? Acting all edgy and serious. I know people like this. Contact with them just disappears. You get sick of their emotional and depressional bs...

And this post is exactly that.

PS. dont get me wrong. I dont know you. So I cant possibly now wether you are like that. But going on a hunch here seeing your post and answering accordingly.