Feeling So bad ...

Your happiness should never depend on other people

Uhm... so... you were dating her or not? Because I didn't understand this part and don't know what to say to you...

You need to do one of two things:

• Have an honest conversation with her
• Get over it, she doesn't owe you anything

Hmmm I had a similar situation. A friend of mine said she loved me, we skyped nearly daily, played games together, send eachother silly images. Then she got a boyfriend out of the blue. Nearly everytime I asked her if we could skype she already was in a call with her bf. I was sad and a bit mad, cause this feeling of emptiness opened up again. If you have a person you talk to everyday, you kinda rely on that. It's hard when you are the only one that feels abandoned. She still gets the human contact she wants/needs. If this relationship is new, you kinda need to wait till the honeymoon phase is over and both have eyes for other people. If she still doesn't contact you then and all action comes from you, I'm sorry, but don't count on her. The girl I was mentioning... We still play games from time to time but only together with her bf. I'm the one to engage the conversation in 90%. She gets her attention now from her bf and doesnt need me anymore. Thats sadly how some people work.
I hope for you, that she soon realizes, that she left you hanging. If not... don't take it too hard. Friendship needs to be equal.

Cheer up, pal: everything is going to be OK, i'm sure of it :)

That's kind of what happens when people start dating, they spend most of their time with that person.

But if you want to hang out and are upset that you're not chatting as much, tell her not us. To her face, not via text. Mature, face to face conversation and no "woe is me" stuff either.

Could be the bf trying to set boundaries, too -- not allowing her to talk to you because he thinks you still have feelings for her. Just be cool about it if you find that's the case, and let her know that you don't think it's fair to your friendship, but understand if that's what she wants. (Not sure what a good way would be to ask her if this is actually the case though.)

I find that in the end the only thing that will love you unconditionally is either a dog or cat. I have one of each. My sympathy is definitely with you. Hope you feel better soon.

Kinda same thing happened to me. Talked all day long with my friend until she found a boyfriend beginning of this year. We hardly talk anymore and it was hard because she was pretty much the only person i trusted.

just talk with her maybe she just have other stuff on her mind now, it doenst mean that shes abandon you.
also dont forget that : "The very best thing about friends,well the thing most people forget about anyways,
is that no matter how many friends you do lose,you can alyways make more."
Michael J. Caboose 2016

Thank you guys for replying, iam started to feel better

Have you tried ... getting piss drunk and watching a lot of porn >.> :?

I mean ... it helps .

You seem to be undecided on whether you still have feelings for her or if she is just a close friend, and if that was the case and you're lying to yourself then either confront her or get over it as the others previously said, and don't EVER get into that limbo of love/friend-zone, it's horrible place

There is no friend after love

It's called moving on, offcourse someone would invest into a love relationship that has more potential, and guess what, once a woman has children (and that will gonna hurt even more) she will even have less and less time for you.
If you had a girlfriend, don't you want to be hours with her (and in your turn spend less with your friend)?

I know that feeling and people will tell you to walk away, your mind will tell you that, but you heart says different, walking away or staying both will hurt, it's a trap, i know.

Have you tried spending time with other friends?

I have a ridiculous solution , but play Competitive games intensely for a short stint.. CSGO , DOTA2 , OW whatever suits you, it will take you mind of things. Afterall with your nose to the wall, all you see is the wall. You gotta take a few steps back to see the whole room!

You are very young. Look for friends.

Sorry to be so blunt, but you're just a friend or even acquaintance.
She doesn't owe you anything and neither do you.
Try to get to know other people and forget what you imagine you two once had.
Edit: Just read that you talked to her. Good, that is probably the most difficult thing to do.
Now, try not to expect anything from her. It's possible it's a shock to her and she doesn't know how to deal with it and will keep her distance. That's how life goes. Just be happy you've dealt with this kind of problem now instead of later when you're much older.