I find myself bored a lot of times.

How old are you? And do you go out at least to take a walk?
I'm 32 and have the same problem xd. I've been playing Mist Survival because I saw a video and it got me hooked, mainly because it's a zombie loot game that's not an MMO. And last night started Green Hell with a friend, and Minecraft with another (because she has a poor internet connection we can't play better games).

Going to the gym helped a bit

Read a book

Does Hungary have a good healthcare system? If you're genuinely not wanting to do anything, it could be that you're depressed and in the need of assistance. Based on some of your comments to others in the thread, it sounds like you could be antisocial, and maybe be suffering from anxiety as well.

If seeing a doctor doesn't interest you, you could at the very least have a visit with a life coach. Or, is there an older person in your life that you respect? You could ask them for advice, as they have wisdom to share. You're still very young, so it makes sense you're not quite sure what to do, but you should try to get something figured out before too much more time passes. Trust me when I say that the older you get, the harder it becomes.

I have a puzzle for you.

You are locked in a room with only a snowman. You are given one carrot. You need to put it where it belongs.

1. Putting the carrot on the snowman's nose unlocks the door and sets you free
2. Putting the carrot below his waist is pretty funny but it also triggers a bomb

What will you do?

Find a GF =)

Did you try to fix/repair/renew things? Doing jobs with wood and metal is utterly amazing. I often find myself very satisfied fixing small things on my apartment (which is old enough to have lots of things fixed). Most jobs like these are very simple to do and you can fully learn about them on YouTube.

Happy Cake Day :)

Happy cakeday!
Maybe try taking up something passive, like writing, photography etc. Which you can do at any time, and always improve at.

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Try learning something. You're young, don't waste time on hobbies right now; you can do that later in life. Improve yourself today. Your age is the right time to take risks. Try getting a summer job or explore new opportunities like learning skills that might help you in the future. Try Coding, Carpentry, Fixing Electronics or anything that is not a time waster. Time is short and and being young doesn't last forever.

I'm learning speedcubing and yoyo. Those are challenging, where you can see constant improvement and can do from the comfort of your home. And neither are expensive.

It is also easy for me to start and stop activities. The activities that I can maintain for years are the activities I do with friends. The pleasure of being with these friends and the desire not to disappoint them if I don't show up makes all the difference in the world. Humans are social animals, to the core. Let's embrace it!

Maybe there's somebody that lives nearby you that could use some help? I don't do it enough myself but when I do I find that helping others tends to take my mind off of myself which is not only good for me but in the process I end up doing good for others.

Happy cakeday!

"Paracording is nice but once you have some of the things you really liked, you wont be doing it more. Its more likely falling into a cool bracelet design which you like end up doing it for yourself and thats it you have it. Why should I keep doing these? Sure it might not be the same for everyone but this was the case for me."

It´s funny how two completely unrelated persons can get the same outcome, but with a slightly different conclusion! :D

My little paracording foray was very similar to yours, once i got the hang of it, and the thing i wanted really bad came out really good, i kinda stopped doing it. However, i´ve since whipped up 3 cat toys which are made in the same fashion (and cat loves it), and i´ve gotten quite fast at doing monkey fists and no longer have to be looking up knots all the time. So there´s a good sense of achievement with it.

Also, whenever i do paracording, it´ll shut my brain off, it´s just too easy losing time to.
Same as with 4X games and painting miniatures lol

"I also tried going for rides with my bicycle which is fun, but its just way too hot in the summer and it turns into suffering rather than enjoying yourself and maybe listening to some music while you are biking + Not having a real destination you want to go just kills it a bit aswell."

Can relate to the no destination bit. Just walking or riding around, motorcycle no matter what, i just don´t feel it.
Don´t think there´s anything wrong with us. I guess some people aren´t made for cruising.

I bet you´re a deep thinker. Ever considered writing down a few things, for yourself, as a collection of thoughts, or maybe more?

Happy cakes ;)

PS: Don´t tell my gf, but i think the cat that adopted me last november had a bigger impact on my mental health than the gf had. Which is a very convoluted way to say, get a cat, they´re soulmates! <3

I don't think you are actually getting bored... you just seem to have taught yourself to only be OK when you are ovestimulated.

Go outside, walk, meditate, work out, interact with others. All of these are good things to try out and break the habit of picking your phone up or binging on YouTube or whatever all the time. Also try to refrain from being in front of a screen immediately after waking up and just before sleep.

You could also try some slow activities that promote perseverance. For me playing the guitar works great but you could also paint figurines, restore furniture, keep a garden... going outside of your confort zone often gives you wonderful surprises.

Good luck!

When satisfying one's desire to collect, it is better to do so within the "margin" of one's own earnings, so that it will last longer.

Well, in the past, I would have said, "You're still young, you should explore things with your friends at school!"
I can picture people saying that.

Today's young people of school age are different.
They don't socialize in "Corona."
There is no cost of socializing in the "corona" and the "recession."
In some cases, there is nothing to travel for school events, workplace visits, or even sporting events.

Inevitably, because of the lack of physical activity, physical growth and mental activity are more likely to be curtailed.

1. walk, jog or exercise in the morning for 30 minutes a day. Bicycling is also acceptable.
   (If there is no place nearby, go out once a week to a place where you can and concentrate for about 3 hours.)

2. Learn more about your current interests.

3. try something you are not interested in or don't like for half an hour every two weeks.

Perhaps this alone will make a difference.🙄

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Paracording?
I'm not sure about that, but I thought of this one because it was said to use rope.
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A lot of good advice already above so I won't bother repeating them :)

I really would like to side with others about you looking for actual help. Because these symptoms really could be meaning you have anxiety, depression or something along those lines. And even if only some symptoms - better to address them before they spiral out of control.

I actually had the same problem for quit some time. I'm 27 now and only now sort of getting it together... for years I suffered with finding a job, keeping hobbies or finding girlfriend. At least I had some good friends who despite me being insufferable (because lets face it, who likes hearing someone moan all the time) didn't leave my side. But when I was younger I didn't have many friends and back then I talked with people on the internet. You'd be surprised but there really are many kind people that would gladly spend some time to hear you out.

Even here - if you want you can freely answer me and Ill try to help out as much as I can over the internet. But at least I hope I can give you some motivation to start. And as you can see others are forthcoming as well.

As for me - I started going to gym, even when feeling down. you have to push yourself out of the rut. I read a lot of books as well. When I was really down I read around 50 books in a year. I remember reading throughout the day even. So I really suggest that - it also simulates your brain.
As for gaming - I know the feeling - even now when I feel good I tend to open the game and close it after 30 minutes due to getting bored fast.. But try bunch of games out.. you could hit one that will keep your attention.

Also about the designs you mentioned - don't say phrases like "But I myself isn't enough for it.". That is the killer of all of the good ideas people tend to have. I had no experience and no team. I had vague idea of a product I wanted to try to make. I started busting my ass off in different projects. After almost a year of supporting other ideas I got my shot at getting a grant money .. Got 2.5k EUR to make the idea. Got myself a team through the project and actually made some prototypes and went to business incubator with it. Unfortunately I didn't get research grant for making the system I wanted and the product just turned out to be too expensive to be competitive. BUT the point is - the product consisted of technologies I had no clue how they work and it needed work I had no idea how to do. I thought I was too small for it. But went over the self criticism and just went for it. Did I achieve the product ? No. But I got such a good experience its a lot easier finding a job now and formulating new ideas. I actually have an interview for project manager position in several hours. You have to start believing in your ideas and stop wasting time. Every mistake will be a step towards knowledge. If you wallow in self pity you wont learn or achieve anything.. That is unfortunately the sad truth. Sometimes something good is not just waiting around the corner - you have to work for it.

I was feeling horrible because I personally couldnt find a girlfriend. Im not really a loner and am sort of romantic.. so being single all the time was taking a toll especially with friends getting married. If something similar happens to you - don't wait for "the one"... its myth. some might find their life long loves first try or in highschool... but most of us have to deal with the problem ... I absolutely hate the concept of Tinder... but after being there for 3 years and being veeeery selective who I press like to, I got my first match who I got together and its going very well... So yeah - go for it and ditch the excuses

I sure hope I didn't come off aggressive or pessimistic.. For sure I didn't like hearing stuff like this when I was feeling down - but I think the sugarcoated suggestions and tips are not really forcing you to act on your emotions or problems in the end. So I hope at least this makes you think. And of course feel free to answer me.. When I have time I like to come here and discuss stuff :)

I can understand how you feel and often times the reason behind feeling the way you do is because you don't have a structured and disciplined lifestyle. Knowing what you need to do next, and organizing your time flow is going to keep you busy enough and engaged in the activities you have to not allow you to be bored. I've never felt bored, not at home at least and I tend to never allow myself to get bored because I've got too much of a busy schedule to cover.

1. What I would suggest is structuring your time and slowly, but surely, adding new elements to do on a daily basis.
   Starting on what activities you have to do around the house, such as cleaning and organizing your room or your entire house. Having a clean environment helps with your focus and provides you a sense of fulfillment once everything around you looks in order and is clean.

2. Set up a list of goals that are achievable throughout the day. I recommend placing them in your mind before you go to sleep and following them through the next day. Knowing what you need to do gives order to your mind and doesn't allow you to be bored, because everything seems to be like a game, an objective, a quest if you wanna call it that.

3. Create mundane tasks as you do in video games. Give them a set of objectives and reward yourself according to the difficulty of the task.

4. Train your body. A healthy body leads to a healthy mind. You put yourself in a better headspace if you look after your body. You can supplement your body with nutritional food that sustain the growth of your body and supply your mind with useful information like reading and knowing yourself, bettering yourself and seeking joy in little things.

5. Sometimes you just need a short holiday. Going somewhere in nature can help you rediscover yourself a bit and get a little bit of clarity for your next objective.

6. Start consuming appropriate content online, as we're often times fed the wrong one. Doing that helps you stimulate and help the other points I've wrote above.

7. Surround yourself with more people that have a similar hobby and similar interests like yourself. It doesn't have to be a new girlfriend to keep you busy as some suggested here. You're not necessarily lacking love right now, but direction. Sure that can help, but it's not necessary to pursue that.

8. Do some fun stuff time to time. Get out of your comfort zone and explore your boundaries. You may discover new things you like to do and you may meet people that follow the same things.

9. When playing games, for me, what helped was a much more structured way to do it. I no longer give myself unlimited time to play. I set a schedule for relaxation and nobody bothers me during that period. I don't play all day and it follows the structure of my goals every day. It's my reward. I also use gaming as a form of relaxation, and play games that don't stress me out and provide me a sense of value. You don't have to be like me, but getting all the achievements in games fulfills me in gaming as I used to play games for a short period of time to just drop them mid way. Achievement hunting makes me enjoy a game 100%.

10. Breathe, meditate, and allow boredom to become a normal part of your life. Boredom is actually beneficial for your mental health. It allows you to take a bit more reflection on yourself and if you combine that with meditation you may find that what I've wrote above may be a great thing to do.

That's all I've got for you. I really hope it helps. 😃 Take things a step at a time, it will all get better eventually.

GYM

A lot of good advice already so I won't pile on things that have already been mention but here are things that work for me:

• music. Have you ever thought about picking up an instrument? You can teach yourself easily nowadays with all the online tutorials and it's a great way to keep yourself entertained.
• learning. There is never enough time to learn once you start an active life. Languages are a great time waster (Duolingo is free) and they can be useful down the line. I am not technology minded but my sister learned coding by giving herself projects (like creating a trivia game or making a database for her collectibles)

As for gaming with a crap laptop I can empathize. I was stuck with an old potato until recently and GeForce Now is free and awesome.

Someone needs to start "dopamine detox".I think it is the only cure for that someone now.Google it.