- There's more than one way to be happy
- Chronic complainers are not cool
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I have a complaint about your complaint about my complaint.
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I have a complaint about your complaint about his complaint about your complaint about Yirg's complaint about chronic complainers that would probably have a complaint about my complaint which complains about your complaint about his complaint about your complaint about Yirg's complaint about chronic complainers.
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I wish to start a new complaint.
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💡 Dying is the worst possible option ever because it leaves you with no opportunities to do stuff. ©
💡 Think about your own interest first for nobody, except you, will. ©
💡 Don't pre-order. ©
💡 Check if the multiplayer game has a community to play with. ©
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Dying release you from suffering but it does kill the opportunity to make things better because it's the easy way to get rid of it.
Some people will care about your interest, or could, if you get to know them.
Not pre-ordering is common sense though
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What is the reasoning for #3?
Last game I pre-ordered was Assassin's Creed III, and I completely agree with you.
I just want to know what game you got burned on
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Strong emotions can drastically change one's behavior, I think the true nature of someone is not only how they behave when they're altered by some negative circonstances but a whole including how they behave when everything is cool
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Don't approach people,wait for them to approach you
I say this because I got rejected alot from girls or boys(if i wanted to make friendships)
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That could easily lead to noone ever approaching you.
Friendships need investment from both side (often forgotten) if the other doesn't, then they are not worth it.
Rejections are a part of life.
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Well i'm really friendly but i'm not the first one to open a conversation,it's maybe just my social anxiety causing this stuff
But there are alot of people that approach me
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Some people just aren't in the mood of friendship. If you don't approach people, you increase your loneliness but you try, and try again, you will end up finding the people you seek. I ain't saying it's easy but try to think about what you offer them if you two get to be friend.
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mmm dunnno how to say in english but...is something like....
You have a problem? can you do something about it? yes? do i t,no? why are you bothering then?.. Just smile and life goes on whatever it happens :p.
And...always try to look good things in bad situations..and bad things in good ones :p.
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+1
Learned that too, if you have problems, worrying doesn't solve it either, so why do it?
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Agreed. If you can't do shit about it, why bothering ? If you can, what are waiting for ? And if you don't, ii means it's not that much bothering, and smile anyway :p
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Mmmh, I'm only sure about one statement : You can't always get what you want instantly.
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People die if they are killed
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Thi7wfBL_Xs
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No matter what's happens always smile as there's always someone worse off than ya self. :D
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- If you do bad things, then bad things will happen to you, and if you do good things, good things will happen to you (ok, you know, that's not generally true, but nevermind). I'm always noticing that, when I'm doing bad things (or at least things I consider bad, no matter how insignificant they are), bad things happen to me. But whenever I do something good and helpful, good things happen to me. Others may call it God, others karma, others chance, but I don't care about its name, only that it's happening. But, as I said, it's not always true about everyone. :/
- No need to express feelings about anything that you can't change (hence why I'm totally insensitive, but that doesn't mean I don't care, I'm just not showing it). That's because expressing, for example sadness about a deceased friend, can only be bad for you. You can't change it, so just be happy that they spent their life with you. If you end up being sad about their death, it'll just be bad for your health (I'm not talking from personal experience, this is just an example).
- Don't judge anyone, except if they're judging you or someone else (hence why we say "don't judge if you don't want to be judged"). You don't have any right to judge someone negatively and mock them, except if they're doing the same thing, so they need a lesson. A good example are the fascists that judge everyone, so they need to be judged. >:(
- Violence never solves anything, just makes the problem worse. I never resort to violence, except in order to defend myself. If you end up using violence, then you'll be considered as the bad person, not the other one (except, as I said, if you're defending yourself).
- You are what you eat (that's a famous quote :P). If you're eating shit, you'll end up feeling like shit. :/ Exercise and eat healthy, but of course, you can eat some junk food every now and then. Even sweets and snacks are in the food pyramid, you know. :D If you're eating healthy and exercise, then you'll feel well and look well. It's your choice, obviously, but please don't pass your unhealthy lifestyle to your kids. :( And you can always change - do it right now! Relevant and powerful video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUmp67YDlHY
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No need to express feelings about anything that you can't change
+1 Also one of the reasons I don't really give a shit about what happens all around the world. I can't change it, so why care?
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It's just that, this doesn't mean that I don't think it's bad. Of course I think it's bad and I wish I could change it. But I can't and I just don't feel anything, that's all. I won't change anything by being sad - I'll just destroy my health this way. :/
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Yeah, I feel the same. I notice this especially when there has been another bombing or something like that. Some people just go insane about it, while it doesn't affect them at all and they can't change anything about it. Life goes on. I might as well just have some fun instead of feeling sorry for others...
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To the last I'd say: to an extent. What matters is moderation. You don't have to eat very healthy food, nor exercise much, as long as you don't overdo the eating and aren't too sedentary.
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But I also said that you can always eat junk food and such. But don't forget that it's important to eat mostly healthy and exercise. Everything in a good measure. Also, each person has a very different perspective on what's healthy and what isn't. :P
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Yeah, I'm just slightly allergic to the trend of worrying about all kinds what's good and bad for you. If you doing mind walking a 100 metres instead of having to find parking at the exact spot you're going to, you're already half way to a healthy life.
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You don't need to worry about anything. Just keep in mind that everything should be eaten with a good measure. ;P And although, that's absolutely your choice, it's kinda a "crime" if you let your own kids eat shit all day. :/
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Well, I'm happy when the 6 year old eats anything, so I'm kind of lenient on exactly what. :)
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Those who dont have ambition will never gain strength
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Nah. Ambition doesn't lead to strength. Can lead to other stuff.
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if there is not anything you want or want to be, you wont get any better. thats the kind of ambition im talking about ^^
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Ambition helps you get to a place you want, but isn't necessary to help you get better.
I'm not an ambitious person, but I get better at stuff because I enjoy learning. Sure, if I was more ambitious I might have had more to show for it, but that doesn't mean I would have been better at it.
Personally, I'm wary of highly ambitious people.
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The world is fucked and most of us will die earlier than we would have if born 40 years ago.
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- Hope for the best, expect the worst. In other words, don't be afraid to dream, but keep your dreams down to earth.
- You have to do stuff to get stuff. Don't expect things to fall into your lap.
- You'll be happier if you see the good in others and in the world, rather than dwelling on the bad.
- Everyone is different. Don't assume that every piece of advice fits everyone.
- Genetics are pretty important for how you feel and look.
- Family really eats into your spare time and hobbies. (But is worth it, IMO.)
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True, I would say "Seek resourceful thoughts and lifestyle and don't bother about the rest"
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Your grow is the priority, if you can help to the others is better
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I'd say: as long as you're happy in general, it doesn't really matter that you've missed some opportunities. Also, usually there's a lot of time to do things. Opportunities take time to disappear, and new ones open.
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Leave the past where it is, the future will come no matter what, so better enjoy the present
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I'd say that the future that arrives will highly depend on what you do in the present, and to some extent on what you did in the past.
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Yeah, but if you managed to be happy in the past, you will tend to end up happy in the future :D
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If you're happy in general, then your past, present and future are likely happy. If you're unhappy, then they'd all be unhappy. It's a matter of perspective.
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If they're unhappy, they either do not enjoy the present or do not have it enjoyable at all and the statment doesn't apply to them
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Yeah, but that's more nitpicking than helpful. :) These fortune cookie sayings don't mean much except "I'm trying to sound deep instead of telling things straight."
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Turn your look where the light instead of dwelling in the shadows. We're all stuck here so why making that more painful than it can be ?
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Trust your instinct.
There's no happiness to be found in negativity and hatred.
If people show you their real self, trust them.
There's no such thing as a perfect life.
Always do things as soon as possible.
Don't compare yourself to others, rather aim for personal improvement every day.
Being nice to others has a much longer effect on you than the rush of being mean to others.
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Not everyone has good instincts. For those who are paranoid or tend to react with violence, I'd say that trusting their instincts is a bad idea.
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In that case, I think they should listen to it but not take action and then wonder why they've been feeling that way, digging into the real problem.
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Hey guys.
Not much of a talker here but I wanted to try sharing maybe some interesting ideas. What has life taught you ?
Mine is : Trust Yourself (not very original but it's something that can take a lifetime to believe in)
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