I posted a lot of threads here about myself, my dad included and his health and particulary his cancer. He recently had one kidney removed but things were still looking bright, he started picking up on daily life stuff again the last 2 weeks.
Then this morning he woke up with a heavy breathing problem and he was rushed before to the hospital with "false alarm" and i thought it was another case also because of the heat, but unfortunately this time it wasn't, and when you know someone is past his age you can prepare yourself, but when it's rather unexpected it comes as a major major shock.
My dad and i had our differences, but he was a loving kind father, i always thought we would make up properly someday, but now when you don't get that chance anymore.
A reminder this thing can always happen in an instant, and it sounds just like words but appreciate eachother when you still can please.

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It's region restricted. If anyone wants to say a kind word, thank you i appreciate it, i probably won't reply because i am still in a bit of a shock.

[Edit] Overwhelmed by the reactions thank you very much, really appreciated.

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Oh, I'm really sorry Lugum.
We are never prepared for this, even if there is a chronic illness...

Remember just the good moments with him.

Best wishes for you and your family

2 years ago
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Very sorry to read your father passed away. My condolences, Lugum.

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This very sad,and i very hate the common words that other people say in this cases "eh this is life" "eh life go next" etc. it's easy to say this when the dad that die is from others and not your...

But i cant tell you for my personal experience (i lost dad too) the things your dad do or say,will alway be with you,in your remember

it is important that after the lost of your dad you will be careful to take care you wife\girlfriend\family\animals\work etc. because sadly for many people it' happen that after the lost of dad people lose work,friends,wife\gf and all go shit...
So it is important that you understand that if your dad give you the precious gift of life,is not for see you cry,sad,fight others or fall down,but for see you happy,so if you want good to your dad,you show to him that you will be strong and smile,
and this is NOT about religion and is not about him see you from paradise etc. (that people can believe or not believe is not impotant)
But this is about what your dad hope for you,and reason why him give u life,for see you happy and all ok,not for you sad,hate or fall down.
So smile to life and be strong,not forget your dad remember all him say,teach,do for you.

When my dad is passed away,i have a little bad experience here on SG i win the game Wick (horror) in the play appreciated group,and who manage the group use an account\moderator of the group write me bad words (kickout me etc.) joke\kidding about this and ban me (also with false lie reason beause in that time i follow the achievements rules but him say i not do it),i try to tell him about i lose dad so i not feel play horror game and that btw i do all the achievements same rules say, but him not care ban me and continue that bad replies.
So yes i can say that user not only not respect me but not respect the lost of my dad too (up to him)
But for my lucky then i see that in SG there is a lot of other people that vice versa is worth it to stay so i not care that.

My dad die about remove eternit from places for govern, for save life of childrens\people etc. , and him know that work is dangerous and wear all protections for that long tim ago, but it was not enough.

And in my family others people all get "Rich things" from my dad (home\terrains etc.),but i reject to take all and choose instead to get 2 little handled solar panels (very cheap) that him use with me sometimes,and until now every day i chaarge it and use it at night it make me feel dad near me,i also try to be good and help people and do things same him,this help me feel him near me too,i like also win\play oldd games that we play togheder (i buy on gog.com a game only for this reason,and i not like that game too but because my dad play it with me so i decide buy it it make me feel stay with dad when i start it)

one thing that i always surprise see about my dad is how also if\when him can get\buy a new thing iNSTEAD to buy it him show me to be happy without nothing or by enjoy\optimize at max what him already have,this i feel very strong until now also if i not understand why.

Anyway you must also be CAREFUL about this,because there is lot of people that when other people lose dad try to make bad to you or take advantages from it (or scam\fraud you,for example have shit people cancontact you and say "oooh i sad for you lost,i has been long friend many years of your dad..can you do\tell me this...,and then they ask u to do\tell something or people can ship you pack with dad name and then ask you to pay it also if is fake pack\order or send you email with fake subscribe services etc., so be careful also about this do not trust people without check very well because there is so much bad people abuse about others lost) so is important that you will be strong and careful also if is bad\sad moment,or they can say you they have old video about your dad do work etc. aan ask u money for it but not true fraud u etc. so be careful.

Also if you do drugs,alchool,fight people in road,smoke,run in traffic road with moto etc. or something others bad things that put your health in dangerous,this can be a good moment for understand that life is only 1 and when lose it no one give it back so is not worth to do stupid things for short time "satisfactions" that put life\health at risk,people can be also happy by drink water,milk,smell flowers,go slow with vehicles etc. you decide how to be happy and can create happy inside yourself with good things also if others\mass is habit to do wrong\bad is not mean you must follow it like a "sheep group" too.

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Great words about the lessons learned from parents.
I always (as my mother still does) say my sons that idea, that I will be forever with them.
My words and actions are my legacy and I will be remembered by that, as I will recall what my parents taught to me

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thank you.

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Well said. I remember how happy you were when you found the name of a game you used to play with your father on SG and how happy you were. That was something that stuck with me.

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More learn to LOSE than play hahaha , at least i try to play 😅

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Total respect for your words.👍👍👍💪💪💪💙

2 years ago
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Sorry for your loss. Try to stay strong, for yourself and the rest of your family.

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Sorry for your loss

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Sorry for your loss and may he rest in peace

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Sorry for Your loss, Lugum.

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I am sorry for your loss, Lugum

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I'm so sorry for your loss...

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Sorry for your loss.

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My sincere condolences.

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My condolences.

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My condolences, sorry for your loss. Wish you all the strength in this sad time.

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Dear Sir Lugum,
I usually do not reply on messages like this ... mostly because this none of my business ... but I'd like to share a little thought that one said to me in a similar situation ... "We accompany each other for a part of the way" (translated from german) ... this helped me to realize that it was not that much of a loss ... but more a nice thing that I had so much time together.
Thats all I wanted to say ... Take you time. You'll need it to handle all this in your head.
Best Regards,
Sir Myr the 13th.

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My condolences.

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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My condolences.

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Sorry for your loss

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my condolences. i hope you'll feel better soon.

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My condolences to you and your family

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Dear Lugum, I am so sorry for you loss. Since you're active a lot on SG, I see you a lot here and can tell you're a great person or at least it's the vibe you give me and probably a lot of people out here. I wish you peace during these hard times. Try to take good care of yourself, take a break from some routines maybe, play games or whatever makes you feel better. You know it better yourself 🌺 🖤

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My most sincere condolences on your loss, my friend.

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My sincere condolences...

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Im hell of a lurker, not commenting anywhere, but this hits right in the feelings, and I want to wish you the best that i can, its going to be hard. But eventually you will go through it. Meanwhile stay strong

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