After a month or so away, I've finally got back into the gym again and feeling better for going regularly. Despite this, I've not lost any weight because I'm still eating a lot of bad food. In the past, I've had periods of being very strict with what I ate and saw/felt a lot of good results. I want to try and shift back towards that, but it's difficult to change. So, I had an idea...

I've always found that it's easier for me to change my habits when I am somehow accountable – if I go to the gym with a friend I'm less likely to skip a session because I'd be letting them down. If I'm paying for some kind of lessons, I'm more likely to study because I'd feel like I was wasting money if I didn't, etc.

So, my idea is, I'll set a goal and if I cheat I'll make giveaways. I'm not going to go crazy and try and change everything at once.

Stage 1 - Chocolate
I started with my biggest vice...chocolate! As of 25th June, when I thought of this, I kept track of chocolate I bought. When I bought chocolate I contributed the same amount of money I spent on the chocolate to spend on giveaways.

Stage 2 - Snacks
After two weeks with no chocolate I added more limitations on snacks - no more than 200 calories a day on snacks between meals. Started on 13th August.

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Update 1
A lot of nice comments, I expected more people to suggest I eat more so that they'd get giveaways!
To clarify, I'm not seriously overweight. My aim is to get back to the kind of shape I've had that I know I can reach while still being healthy. As others have mentioned in comments, muscle weighs more than fat, so body weight alone isn't the best way to measure progress. I know the visible changes to my body when I have a lower fat percentage and I'm aiming to get back to that.
Update 2
A month or so on and I've made decent progress. I can see some change and happy with my progress. I use a body fat measurement scale at the gym every now and then to see how I'm going. The numbers aren't super reliable, but it gives me a rough of idea of what's going on. Image below - about 2kg lighter, body fat is down and muscle has increased.
Much later update
Jan 2020 - I haven't been updating this post and I'm not gonna bump it, so I doubt anyone will check this but...another update photo below. I'm about 5 kg lighter than when I first posted. I've actually been lighter than this, but this is a weight I've stagnated at. I'd need to make bigger changes if I was gonna drop any further, I think.
Photo lists estimated figures for (top > bottom) weight, body fat %, fat weight in kg, lean mass in kg, muscle in kg, water in body(?) in kg, bone in kg

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4 years ago*

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Sorry.
Cucumber and chocolate are my recent fuel.🥒🍫ヽ(=´Θ`=)ノ
So I am not eligible to participate in this GA. :p

For your better health.
BUMP(。ŏΘŏ)

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Maybe I can replace chocolate with cucumber :)

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If I followed your example I would be broke right now!

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Man, that's gonna be hard on your money. I hope you get the best of the experience.

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I hope to reach your goals!!!! And don't worry that you haven't put any GA!!!!!

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That's a very good idea. Don't make yourself crazy though. You can control your impulses and still have a little bit of chocolate every day if that makes you happy. Just don't let yourself go overboard. If you find it hard, there is behavioral therapy that can be really helpful with bad habits (not just food habits). In the meantime, I wish you luck and send you good vibes for keeping your will.

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Thanks for the advice, and the concern. I don't think my habit is bad enough for behavioral therapy, well I hope not anyway! :)
A couple of people have suggested the small amount every day. That's gonna be my backup plan if this one fails!

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I can't go on a diet. Free gelato makes it impossible :(

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So long as it's not chocolate gelato, I can eat it....right?! :D

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Well I have some that do have chocolate in it but no pure chocolate flavor yet :P Brother in law got a new job and they give gelato to employees for free. I'm going to die when he can get me the chocolate peanut butter one since peanut butter is the best.

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Hello! i just started using fruits instead & dont buy sweets anymore!

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good luck

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Kicking food habits is hard. One trick that helps me is to constantly snack on healthy food like fresh cabbage. The fiber fills me up so I don't think about filling myself up with junk food plus I feel great with the added Vitamin C, A, and K. Now if only it had Vitamin E, too so I could make a joke about eating Cabbage CAKE ^_^

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Add fish for sushi CAKE. ;)

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interesting take!!
in my experince, I find it easy to control my weight when i watch my food intake.
limit my quantity of pleasure food (only half a cheese burger as a meal). and tried to eat clean (less process and additives, more home meals)
and avoid sugar at all cost, leave a space for a bar from time to time as my sugar intake
they always say the best diet is the one you keep for life.

bro tip: Drink more water, coffee, and tea. just dont add any sugar and milk
and gl

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Thanks for the advice. The amount of food is an important point. I think that comes from habit for a lot of people too, or something psychological. There's a big difference between wanting to eat more and needing to eat more.
I cook quite a lot, so my meals are pretty healthy but I snack in the evening out of habit. That's the area I'm trying to deal with. I'm too accustomed to having something sweet after meals or while I'm relaxing at home

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good luck and don't obsess too much over your weight. thx for ga!

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Chocolate is not straight sugar like Skittles or Starburst. Believe it or not, the fat in there is better than a straight sugar shot. Do not fool yourself into thinking that the antioxidants in there make it a health food--it is a dessert.

Remember as you get some exercise of various forms and work out--you should GAIN weight. You will slowly trim up, look better, and feel healthier, but it is common to GAIN weight because of the density of muscle. Good luck and do not give up the chocolate.

And remember: Dark chocolate. White chocolate is not chocolate; it is cocoa butter with all the chocolate solids removed (technically still a chocolate product.) And Hershey's is good if you have been lost in the woods for a week. (ok, their dark chocolate is decent)

**Paid Endorsement for by Chocolate Importers of America

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Thanks for the comment. I love dark chocolate. I think it's more filling too.
I've been lifting more recently, so I'm sure some of the weight is muscle, but going off sight I know that my body fat is higher than I'd like it to be. I'm sure I won't give up chocolate for good, but I'm hoping this will break my habits of eating it after meals and in the evening.

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Quite a unique way of doing things, I hope it works out for you. I think its a good idea to work on 1 thing at a time as you'd more likely stick to it and not give up.

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I love chocolate too much!

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a day without chocolate is like a day without sunshine

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thanks you for the giveaway ! Let me tell you what I think about your problem, not that I know the exact answer about this sadly :/

as euroboardgames said, muscle is heavier than fat, so by exercising, the fat will be used for sweating, transforming itself into muscle and maybe others things I am not aware about ( sorry, I am not that knowlegdeable on the human body)
so you shouldn't be depressed to not see some drastic changes on the bathroom scale.
you should continue to exercise, it takes a while to see the result on the bathroom scale, and it will be at least keep you healthier.

as for the chocolate intake, it is a delicate matter : by theory, the best way would be to not remove chocolate completely from your diet, as another SG user said ' the best diet is one that you keep it for life ' meaning that you need to include it in your diet in a way that you won't always have to crave for it, and of course limiting the amount otherwise it is not a diet =)

I hope that I could help you and I wish you the best for your diet.

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Thanks for the advice. It's nice that everyone is giving helpful information!
I'm not planning on denying myself chocolate for the rest of my life, but am hoping that this period of stopping/severely reducing the amount I eat will break my habit of eating it every day. Some people are better at cutting down and self control than others. I guess it's like the way people quit smoking, some cut down and ease themselves off it and others just stop one day.
I mentioned the weight on a reply to euroboardgames, but basically I agree. I used 'weight' as an easy way to refer to it, but I'm also taking into account what I look like now and what I looked like a year or two back.

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Cognitive dissonance:
Angel--Wish you well on your quest for better health. O:-)
Devil--Wish for more chocolate-fueled GA's. >:-)

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What you need is someone to bring home rotten internal organs!

I dated a girl in college whose mother had a PhD in biochemistry (college professor), and when she found out I smoked, she brought home a cancer-ridden lung addressed to me, complete with wrapping paper and a nice bow. If I got drunk, she brought me a cirrhosis-ridden liver. So all we need here is a kidney affected by diabetes! Or maybe a fat-encrusted heart! Looking back on it, I did eventually quit smoking.

Hmm ... Or I guess you could do it your way. Your way is much less extreme, doesn't involve your girlfriend's mother pilfering human organs from the biology lab, and won't cause the involuntary emptying of the content's of one's stomach. Best of luck! :D

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eww. I guess she was nice to look at?

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LOL I re-read what I wrote, and realized it requires clarification. The girlfriend's mother brought the organs, not the girlfriend!
But yes, she was very cute (damn it, nearly did it again - the girlfriend was very cute!) and we're still great friends many years later. :)

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Wow, that's quite an extreme approach!
It was nice that she wrapped it though :)

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If you receive a kidney in the post, I have no idea where it came from, and that's the story I'm sticking with!

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I'm not very active, but I find that the worst thing for me is not what I eat, but rather when I eat - the late night snacking kills any exercise or weight loss I managed to work on during the day, so I've been trying to cut this out completely.

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That's exactly what I do. I find it easier to resist if I'm busy in the evening, going to the gym and then heading to bed when I get in stops me from late snacking. Can't do that every night though, I'd be a burnt out mess!

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If you really want to lose weight, then the only way is to change your diet. Exercise is good for you and you can lose weight with exercise only, but if you want to lose weight and keep it off, a diet change is the only way. Sometimes exercise can even have the opposite effect, as after a workout, your body wants to replenish those calories it just burned, so it makes you feel hungry.

It really comes down to taking in fewer calories than you burn, forcing your body to use its fat reserves. That means you're going to have to cut something(s) out. The best thing you can start with is sugar, or more specific, added sugar, and chocolate has a lot of added sugar. I don't know what the nutrition labels are like where you live, but in the US, they have to disclose added sugars on the nutrition labels. Switch to dark chocolate when you crave chocolate, it has a lot less sugar than regular or milk chocolate (and tastes better IMO). If you drink soda, cut that out completely and drink only water. Cutting out on sugar alone will have a bigger impact on your health and help you lose weight than exercise.

I made a big change to my diet about 2 years ago after some things cut into my exercise time and I began to put on weight. To make a long story short, I cut out sugars and highly processed carbs (like bread and pasta). I now mainly eat fruits, green vegetables, nuts, fish and chicken, and I don't eat out. That doesn't mean I've cut everything else out completely. I do still occasionally go out with friends for a pizza, burgers, etc. I've found that after making this switch, I'm not as hungry as often, sometimes only eating a couple of small meals a day. I lost all of the weight I put on and then some.

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Thanks for the comment. I'm glad that the diet changed worked well for you.
Around 3-4 years ago, I cut out carbs and replaced them with vegetables I also limited myself to two meals a day. I stuck with this for about 3-4 months. It was difficult to deal with for the first 2-3 weeks and I was constantly in a bad mood. Things got a lot better after that and I felt a lot healthier, I had a smaller appetite, and I lost a lot of weight. I still mostly avoid having carbs with meals, but I do have sandwiches every now and then, and I'll eat rice/potatoes/bread when I eat out.
I think that generally, my meals are healthy, it's just the snacking and sweets after meals. I don't really want to go back to only having meals twice a day at roughly the same time, as it was too restrictive socially, so I'm trying to find something between with this little experiment.

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Good luck, dude! I've been getting back into a running habit, at least casually, and am trying to lose some of the beer weight (I have no problems with chocolate :D). Made some progress, but have plateaued lately. I have the same thing...I know what kind of shape that I used to be in, and I'd love to get back to it, but still am not sure I have the dedication level at this stage in my life to get to that point. But if I even come close, I'll be pretty happy.

Thanks for the GA - great idea for a positive way to encourage you in your goals.

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I've always found that it's easier for me to change my habits when I am somehow accountable – if I go to the gym with a friend I'm less likely to skip a session because I'd be letting them down. If I'm paying for some kind of lessons, I'm more likely to study because I'd feel like I was wasting money if I didn't, etc.

This is so very true! And yeah, diet has a bigger impact than exercising for losing weight - it's a lot easier to not eat 600 calories worth of chocolate than it is to burn off 600 calories worth of chocolate. :)

But keep at it, and I'm sure you'll get there! :)

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Just remember, a day without chocolate is like a day without sunshine

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My eating a Snickers bar right now is pure coincidence. Nothing more.
(It does really satisfy, though).

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i am in the same situation as you, you had a great idea here.

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Posted this to the wrong place, so I'll put it here now!
Feel free to join in :)

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Feel free to join in :)

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I'm trying to eat more healthy, too. A little bit at a time. My weakness is ice cream, as well as salty snacks like pretzels or tortilla chips. It is dangerous to have them in the house. :P

Congrats on 2 days without chocolate, here is a motivation giveaway :)
https://www.steamgifts.com/giveaway/OZ8UR/luxor-solitaire

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Thanks for the motivational giveaway!
I love ice cream too. I found a sugar free type that only has 80 calories. I'm sure it would be healthier to stop, but for now I'm sticking to this type of ice cream.
I put a link to your comment in the main part of the post so more people can find it. Hope you don't mind
You motivated me to create another giveaway too :)

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I put a link to your comment in the main part of the post so more people can find it. Hope you don't mind

absolutely, giveaways are made to be entered :P

I'm a rather picky eater so what I've found works best for me is controlling portion sizes, more than anything else. I can reach the point of satisfaction and just keep going out of boredom, just because the food is still on my plate. How many times have I said after a meal "Oh, I could have totally stopped halfway through and been happy..."

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Very true!
I do the same with portion sizes. I also try to tell myself to wait 20 minutes after a meal if I still feel hungry. Often, it's just psychological and I'm not actually hungry. The extra 20 mins helps me to forget the idea of wanting more food if I'm not genuinely hungry.

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Good luck with your resolution! Eating salty snacks is kind of addictive, I know it myself xD

And thank you for the giveaway!

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