Hope you're health and financial situation continue on the up and up and you're family stays safe and happy! As for game recommendations I dint have too much that hasn't already been said (I can empathize somewhat, often the only gaming time I have is when I'm on my laptop I'm the evening while having dinner).
Point and click, old school adventure games, Civilisation/4X games, some slower paced RTS games (not as absurd as it seems, back in the day a guy I knew broke his arm but still played StarCraft with a mouse and with a pencil in his plaster hand to hit the number key bindings when needed). Anything turn based will be your friend, so strategy, tactics, RPGs. Can also recommend city builders.
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bump!
maybe vampire survivor? its perfect game for one hand.
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Good luck being a parent! Be honest with your kid and he'll grow up smart.
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Firstly thanks for the train, and as for games to play with left hand, turn based RPG's are the best bet, my #1 recommendation is Sea of Stars, although the Octopath Traveler games would also be great, this is because you cannot play any game in real time with only 1 hand (unless you get an adaptive controller for those who have lost their hand permanently)
So you need games that you can do nothing without consequence, so Pokémon would also work well, but something like Celeste or Hollow Knight requires constant movement and quick reflexes to move and attack
Hope all goes well, congratulations on fatherhood btw, I wish you and your family the best, May God bless you ❤️
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The Cube Escape/Rusty Lake series is a great place to start if you like spooky point and clicks. A lot of them are free either on Steam or mobile, too, and they can all be played with one hand I'm pretty sure.
Hope your hand heals up soon :)
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Thanks for the advice. Actions is the antidote to despair!
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Maybe some point & click adventures or puzzle games in general?
I wish you all the best for your future and im sure you will success with your plans!
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wow, that's a very motivational post !
Minor setbacks are just reminders that make you appreciate what you have, while major setbacks are trials of fire that temper you to be stronger.
I'm glad that things are working out for you, wishing you the best for the future. Hopefully you get a speedy recovery.
Appreciate the tiny train and you sharing your thoughts !!!
Motivational bump for you <3
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Congrats! It will feel soo good to be debt free! I would then recommend (or anyway, all the financial gurus recommend) putting aside every month the amount you had been paying toward the debts--at least for a few months until you have a few months of expenses paid.
Me talking again: This isn't to say "don't spend any more" when you have more available money due to not being in debt, but they recommend saving ~10% of your net income, if possible, for those times when the XYZ breaks down and needs fixing ASAP. I don't know that I personally recommend 10%, but I do see wisdom in not being forced deep into debt when something does break, due to having savings.
Anyway, congrats!
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mh, dont really need help, thanks for trying
i know what i want and it'll happen when it happens
nice to see that you're winning
nice to see a post from somebody sane doing his part in extending the human's legacy
you have my appreciation and blessing, congratulations for achieving this much in life...
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Really inspiring story man! Glad to hear you are conquering debt all the while being a great father and husband. All the best with the future and I hope you continue to keep on prospering :)
Some classic cool games you could play are Plants vs Zombies, and Peggle.
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Hey guys! I hope you're doing great. I enjoy reading other people's thoughts and experiences, so I thought it would be nice to be the one sharing for a change. Of course, if you're not particularly interested, that's fine too. The link to the small train is at the end. :)
About 2 years ago, I opened a fundraiser because I was in some deep debt, mostly medical stuff related to my wife's delivery. A few smaller debts were my fault, since I was never taught proper financial decision-making. I was very depressed and those were pretty rough times. However, quite some time has passed and... we're still working on it, but things are going really well.
Yeah, raising a baby is pretty damn expensive—especially one who, for some reason, loves to poop about 3 minutes after he just got his diaper changed, lol. We're working really hard. My wife is doing an excellent job with our toddler, teaching him things every day and making sure he's growing as healthy and smart as possible. I've been working night shifts and weekends for almost a year to provide for them the best I can.
We're succeeding big time, because Aaron is the loveliest toddler I've ever seen! Beautiful smile, loves to hug and kiss us, shares his toys with everyone, and his flirtatious little look melts everyone.
The best part about killing my brain cells with night shifts is that the debts I had with five different entities are now down to just two, which is pretty damn great. It’s taken a lot of time and effort, but it's been so worth it—especially because I've learned a ton of things (the hard way, of course). I'll make sure to teach them all to mini-me so he doesn't make the same mistakes I did. Hopefully his mistakes will be cooler, like messing up his own rocket or something.
Right now, I’m dealing with a small speed bump. I broke the side of my right hand a couple of weeks ago, so my income has dropped a bit and some new costs have popped up—but it's fine. I got some much-needed rest, had time to look for new jobs and attend interviews, and got to spend more time with my baby.
The only issue is I haven’t been able to play much during my free time. I’ve mostly been watching other people play online, or reading a visual novel here and there. But yeah, 'gaming' with just my left hand is not very fun, lol. Maybe you guys know of a game that's simple to control but still fun? I’m open to suggestions.
My plans for the next few years are pretty simple:
Within 1 year, we’ll move to a better apartment and I’ll finish paying off my remaining debts (and when I do, I'll celebrate with an awesome train!).
In 2–3 years, I want to buy a car, get a fish tank, and finally get a Steam Deck so I can play more than two hours a week.
And maybe—still under discussion—within 5–6 years, we’ll move to another country.
I’ve always dreamed of living in Norway, but my wife’s a bit afraid of the language barrier. She’d prefer somewhere like the U.S. or Canada. We’ll see how everything goes.
So overall, I’m feeling good—motivated, job-hunting to see if I can get paid a little better (and sleep like a normal human again), and working on being the best version of myself while enjoying the little things in life. Maybe that’s why I’m writing this and making my first train ever in the first place. It’s been a long and difficult journey, but at the end of the day, I wouldn’t change a thing. And if I make it to 70 and still remember anything from this time, I know I’ll feel proud and probably wish I could live it all over again. Hell, I’m still living it and I already miss it.
To close this, I want to leave you with a silly but sincere bit of advice:
There’s always help. Try your family, try your coworkers, try your friends, try the internet, try tutorials, try ChatGPT, try vitamins, try medicine, try therapy, try books, try art, try sports—try whatever you need to improve whatever you need. But never, ever give up.
Vroom vroom!
Here comes the train! 🚅
Also, feel free to add me! I love checking out people’s profiles, seeing what everyone’s playing, and growing my friends list.
Thanks for reading :)
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