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"The one" ? I would rather suggest watching "500 Days of Summer".

He or she is a "good candidate". If he or she feels the same they are a "good match". For someone to be "the one" they have to be able to bend the matrix to their will, because the concept of "the one" is fictional and when applied in a relationship context is damaging to people's mental state and ability to have a real and realistic relationship.

There is no "the one," there is only spoon.

From my experience there are lots of 'the ones' ;) You don't have to worry - you'll find another person who might be even 'oner' for you :)

I agree! But if it wasn't a super harsh end, I suggest you to make mends. You won't regret it.

Why no "several times" answer to poll?

The reasonable part of my brain always tells me that there isn't just "the one person", that many good people exist and that everyone is flawed in some way and that eventually I'll find someone just as good, maybe even better.
But then there are my feelings just crying "he was the one why did he leave me I'll never find someone better I'll die alone I miss him so much please come back I'll do anything"

Love sucks, that's why we've got videogames eh?

I found that person already. The problem is, lots of mistakes were commited and she was forced to push me away. Still feeling broken after 6 months

I think i found her, the problem is she has boyfriend and I did a lot stupid things

I found her, but she didn't find me...

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On the positive side of this is that we can learn from our mistakes so we don't bump our heads against the same situation again and again.

I've been married to the one for over 20 years now, but the only person who doesn't make mistakes is the person who never takes the leap or risks anything. It's taken a lot of work and effort for our relationship to keep moving forwards so it's not as simple as just finding the right person and everything magically falling into place.

Every relationship that is counted as successful has taken work from the people involved and very often a lot of missteps and mistakes on the journey that you just never hear about. Don't be ashamed of making mistakes, just learn from them and grow to be a better person.

It give not "The One" for the complete life. Only for a PART of it.
You change and with you all people and things around you too.

Try to love yourself, make yourself happy and then you are able to find a partner (fits on all genders) that love you too, see the good person in you -more then you see it- and treat you as you are the one.
When you found that "one" (i would say FEW over the complete life) then love them as it give no tomorrow.
Regret not what you have done/not done, be happy over all you have done/experienced.
Smile and keep all the positiv feelings in your heart and soul for the rest of your life.

This way you can share from each one to the next more love and good feelings.

Or me, meeting the wrong person on the right game. Good game, bad romance that technically was not romance lol. But i am thankful cause now i can see what i can't live without for now, and that is my survival games may not sound healthy but neither is trying to learn who most people are. Best way to do that is playing a game with people :)

And mostly it didn't work out between him and me is cause he didn't want to take risks. Understandable but I would have thought that you make risks when you sleep together so not sure where some parts fit in.

They may be the One for you, but you weren't the One for them
sorry