So I've been depressed for nearly a whole year,didn't go to school except for a few days,the school hasn't done anything about it. Anyway,I was looking at K12,it seem's like something I could work with. Can someone tell me a bit about it? Do I have to leave the house? Do I have to meet an actual teacher IRL? How much time does it take to complete a grade? How much time do I spend a day/week on it? Do I get a bunch of free time? Is it a full-on substitute of High School? I really need these questions answered,as I can't do regular school anymore as it's been very much depressing,I don't like going 1-on-1 with a teacher,I would rather be in a small,virtual group. Is there stuff like Summer breaks? the FAQ is quite confusing to me,I'm 15 and I was suppose to be in 9th grade but I didn't go to it at all.

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Bump,I really need to learn more about this before the end of summer

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Do I have to leave the house? You only have to leave the house 2-4 times a year to take mandatory exams that normally take about 3 hours to do.

Do I have to meet an actual teacher IRL? No, but you will need to attend Live (not in person) Class Connects where you listen to the teacher and occasionally need to type in a chatbox if they ask you something.

How much time does it take to complete a grade? I'm not entirely sure I understand the question, so here's what might be your answer: If you want, you can complete all of the necessary work for all of your classes in under a month and simply relax for the rest of the year, or you could pace yourself and do only some work each day. It's all up to how you want to do it.

How much time do I spend a day/week on it? All you really need to do is; everyday log-in (to the school, not a class), once a week spend an hour in any class (This actually includes lab classes, so you can just sit there doing nothing in a lab class and get that hour), once a week K-mail someone (They'll tell you who when you join), and once a month have a class-connect with the same person you would be k-mailing, as well as the obvious make sure you aren't failing any classes.

Do I get a bunch of free time? You get an unreasonably large amount of free time.

Is there stuff like Summer breaks? Yes, all of the breaks that would be in a normal high-school will be given to you.

I hope these are the answers you were looking for, goodluck man!

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Sounds like really good answers man! I won't need a webcam will I? I get pretty shy. Can I use my own laptop to do the courses? And will they monitor the laptop I use? Also,will the person I be K-Mailing be a regular teacher? Will I be interacting with people my age?

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Depending on the classes you take, you may need to do some webcam or at least microphone stuff, generally speaking you won't need to though.

You can use your own laptop but they send you one you can use as well.

They will not monitor what you do on your laptop/computer. The closes to this they have would be a custom browser that you need to use for some exams that prevents you from having any external programs or google open (to prevent cheating).

The person you would be K-Mailing would be a Homeroom Teacher (IIRC).

This is the one flaw I find in the whole K12 thing, there is pretty much no student to student communication. You can try to talk to students during a class to get their email or facebook or whatever, but obviously most teachers wouldn't agree or let you do that.

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I am unfamiliar with this thing you refer to as "K12." It sounds like something somewhere between home-schooling and online classes. I'll let others answer your questions regarding that.

I do know an awful lot about depression, however, being that it runs in my family and I have spent a lifetime dealing with it, myself. Regardless of what you decide to do with K12, be extremely wary of isolating yourself. The absolute worst thing you can do for your depression is giving in to the desire to remove yourself from social contact. If you want to feel "better," you need to get out of your house and interact with people. (Choose "happy" and "pleasant" people, if you can.)

Also, I would recommend that you regularly see a psychologist if one is available. The world would be a much better place if everyone had a good "Shrink" to help keep their heads "straight."

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it's very hard to find happiness where I live,I'm in a very stressed,road-rage filled town unfortunately. Even the "friends" I had wouldn't even respond to my texts,try to contact me,or anything like that after I overdosed on my Xoloft. Also,I REALLY hate psychologists,I went to one and it was some grade-A bullshit. I find my games a pretty good "therapeutic" activity.

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I actually hate psychologists in general too even though I say to go see one in my post below. They talk at you like you're a misbehaving child and give you a list of things that you should do to get better ("eat better, exercise, socialize") but rarely help you to actually face the root problem of WHY you can't do those things. Then the next appointment, if you haven't accomplished those things they look at you like as if you're a disappointment.

BUT here's the thing... they're not all like that. I met three psychologists who were really very supportive and helpful. They let me talk out my issues, never acted condescending, recognised just how hard simple every day shit is for me, realized that I can't just suddenly exercise and feel happy. They really helped me. It's the other jerk psychologists who made me afraid of going to see them in general but shop around! There's really nice, good ones out there.

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If your Shrink is rubbish, dump him (or her) immediately and find a new one. The key is to find a good one who fits well with your personality. Of course, there may not be many options available, so here is a list of "priorities" when it comes to Shrinks:

  • A good Shrink who works well with you is best.
  • If you can't have that, settle for a good Shrink who can at least help you a bit.
  • If you can't have that, settle for no Shrink at all until you can find one of the two types above.
  • A good Shrink who can't help you is just a waste of money, so skip that.
  • A bad Shrink can actually mess you up even more, so totally avoid that.

How can you tell a good Shrink from a bad one? It's pretty simple. Just answer these questions:

1) Does my Shrink help me to figure out my own thoughts and feelings rather than telling me what I think or feel?
2) Do I feel that my Shrink listens to what I have to say and considers it carefully? (Do I feel "heard?")
3) Do I feel like I've learned something about myself after meeting with my Shrink?

It is, of course, entirely possible that you are not yet at the point where a Shrink will even help you much. Before the mind can begin to heal, it has to feel safe enough to begin unraveling what was done to it. If the emotional pain is still too fresh or too severe, the mind will be too defensive to even look at the wound, much less heal it.

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Your school probably hasn't done anything because you haven't reached out for help. I'm certainly not blaming you for not doing so. I was in Grade 10 when I "officially" got diagnosed with depression but it had been brewing for a long time before that. I did similar stuff to you. I didn't go to my classes but would instead sit in the library and hide out there all day avoiding anyone who knew me. My parents were not the kind to let me do that though. As soon as they found out they forced me into action (as in threatened to kick me out and disown me if I didn't go to school properly).

I agree with Khalaq in that isolating yourself is not the answer. If you just don't like people in general, that's fine. You don't need to be all social and outgoing. However, the world isn't going to let you do this forever. If you get used to this isolated life where you do all your work online with minimal interaction, it will be extremely hard for you when you have to go out into society later. I really understand the yearning to be alone and to not talk to anyone in real life. I'm still depressed and I still wish I could just hole up in my room and not venture out. But it's really not good for you. It's actually amazing what people will do for you if you just ask for help. I tried to struggle through depression by myself because I didn't want to talk to anyone about it and I didn't want anyone telling me what to do. But just reach out to a school counsellor. They'll talk with all your teachers and arrange special accommodations for you. In university, my counselor arranged to let me take a midterm later and skip out on an essay that I'd missed the deadline for (the next essay would just be worth more marks). She referred me to a psychiatrist for medication and therapy... and it all helped.

About the K12 stuff... I haven't encountered a program called K12 but I'm pretty sure you're just talking about online classes. I've done that before too. Not because of depression but because I wanted to work while I finished some prerequisites for a university program. I found a really rare program that allowed me to do everything online and through mail. I would follow lessons that were posted online and do the homework that was posted there too. I would hand it in electronically either with a word document or scanned documents. They let me choose my own "supervisor" who is someone not in the family who would take responsibility for my tests. They'd send the tests to her and she'd watch me do the tests to make sure I didn't cheat. A program that lets you take tests like that is REALLY rare though. Usually, it's like Desertmoon said, you do all the work online but have to go to the premise for examination.

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